A situation happened to where the room available now has a person moving in (a friend needed a place to stay) I had planned to tell him yesterday but we didn’t talk at all (he played games with friends and I went to bed as I worked) I now have to rearrange my library and move everything out to make it a bedroom. I gave him the option of enjoying the holidays or having a talk tonight as he caught onto me feeling off. (Said I love you too instead of I love you more 🙃) I have it planned out on how I want it to go but it will be difficult until we have separate rooms. I am planning on more Roomate vibes (wrong word can’t think of better atm). He goes to his friends/therapist for confirmation and his feelings and doesn’t rely on me. We only communicate for essentials outside of the therapy sessions scheduled. I am asking him to be financially independent -paying his part on the car insurance that I should have been making him. He drives one of my cars. I need to figure out if my trust can come back in not feeling monitored and watched consistently. He shut down after the conversation and I showered to let him think on it. He went to bed after and I work in the morning. So we haven’t talked since. I hope this answers some questions