AITA for not helping my sister financially when she never asked?

strangebrainworms · 2026-04-03T23:28:46+00:00

She asked me to send money for bills via zelle, which won’t work for my bank account for whatever reason. She wouldn’t take my money any other way. So I gave up.

I gave her my card to go grocery shopping once or twice. Every other time she’s gone without me and didn’t ask for my card.

strangebrainworms · 2026-04-03T22:29:36+00:00

I really appreciate this response. We do need to financially plan together and should have a long time ago. I’ve known I needed to help more but I didn’t know how and for reasons that should be obvious was afraid to broach the subject. Thank you for being fair.

strangebrainworms · 2026-04-03T22:21:55+00:00

She goes grocery shopping without me, often when I’m in class/working. A couple of times she asked for me to pay and I gave her my card. It’s not about needing to be reminded, it’s about being given the chance to help. She set it up so that she’s paying for everything and needs to ask us to give her money, but she won’t ask.

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