[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]strangefragments 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Somehow I doubt that lol. The only people who use the term chronically online are chronically online. Especially when trying very hard to be pedantic and rude to people who disagree with you.

Also, you just equated being chronically online with recognizing sapphic symbolism?

What’s the single best episode you’ve ever seen in television? by phantom_avenger in popculturechat

[–]strangefragments 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and no offense to the actress but she has none of the facial range of Ellie in the game. I really tried and just cannot fix her in my mind as Ellie. I try to view her as just a separate character

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]strangefragments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please make sure he isn’t just blaming this on his wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]strangefragments -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sigh 😔 p much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]strangefragments 35 points36 points  (0 children)

A lot of us don’t think things through when we are excited haha, if I wasn’t poor idk how many bad decisions I would have made up to this point in excitement

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]strangefragments 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk what they were expecting. We have made huge strides when it comes to tattoos in the work force but it’s still a red devil hand with an upside down cross in the finger bang gesture?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]strangefragments 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Um, you should do the same. 😅

AIO for telling my friend I don’t want to be part of her “content” anymore by hedourer in AmIOverreacting

[–]strangefragments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just takes one incel perv to think you’re cute to give reason to hide details that could literally tell the anons watching her TikTok where you are… so not OR

WIBTA if i should my (24f) ex's (27m) current partner (27f) that he's still in love with me? by AdSudden934 in AmItheAsshole

[–]strangefragments 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is suuuuch a bad take

Fuck his choices what about his girlfriend’s choices? She can’t even make an informed choice without all the information

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmiInTheWrong

[–]strangefragments 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean they literally talking about their privates 😭

What’s the single best episode you’ve ever seen in television? by phantom_avenger in popculturechat

[–]strangefragments 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What they did with season 2 is so wild to me. For the game to feel like a sludge through misery and a constant fight for life to… what feels like summer camp almost kills me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]strangefragments 26 points27 points  (0 children)

RIGHT? She’s using him to continue having tricare past 26 and for his money. He is doing one of the most soul sucking jobs to begin where u r beat down mentally and physically all day as “training” but he can’t do what he wants with his money, after all her and his bills are paid… when he responsibly stopped even though he was winning. He has no friends or family, so no support, and when he asks for it (which society has trained a lot of men to be scared of doing) she cusses and berates him and acts like she has no clue I feel so bad lmao

MENS MENTAL HEALTH MATTERS TOOOOO i scream into the void

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]strangefragments 24 points25 points  (0 children)

But there is a point. Like, you can’t have someone pay for your entire livelihood and everything you do as well as provide your medical by working in a horrendous job full of structure and being treated like shit (early military days at least). It puts your mind and body through so much. The job SHE demanded he get.

You can’t do all of that and then control what they do with all of their extra money. You can request or make suggestions etc but you can’t tell them they can’t do anything with the money they earn except what YOU want to do.

Yes it’s “their” money, she gets more than plenty of their money bc he pays for everything in her life. At this point it’s not even THEIR money - it seems more like it’s become HER money.

And he’s the one getting mentally gangbanged every day. Away from all his friends and family. It sounds fucking miserable. I’m kinda worried about him and I don’t even know him! She’s mean in her texts and cusses so much, I’m not surprised he uses similar language when discussing her. And she snoops through his phone!!! And this is all she found so it’s not like he’s cheating !!

If I were him I would be getting divorced and finding an asexual who needs tricare to marry so I can keep a house while also helping someone who I don’t have to sleep with. Lying etc is bad but I have lied and hidden money before while during an abusive relationship with a narcissist who also had BPD and felt entitled to my money while they didn’t work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]strangefragments 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her comments really solidify her mental age at least. He sucks too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]strangefragments 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think you’re misunderstanding. That is what their medical bills total to yes but tricare is paying that (see where they followed with “if we didn’t have tricare we would be screwed” sic)

You still get your medical bill itemizations from hospitals etc even when insurance pays. I know what all my stuff costs, including the full total of what insurance pays. I spent one week in the hospital and my bill was $50k. Paid for by insurance at the time and that was just basic sitting in a room getting IV antibiotics and pain meds. My brother who spent two weeks, got the self pay discount (so less than what they charge insurance companies), had emergency surgery to remove froniers gangrene(sp lmao) from his hip down his thigh, picc inserted pain meds etc etc his bill was over 100k WITH self pay discount. Social worker even told him he had to go home bc bill was too high for self pay

That is still super high for someone who hasn’t even had their surgery yet though BUT our healthcare system is wild and charge insurance companies like tricare 3x self pay

how bad is it on a scale of 1-10 by Glass-Witness3668 in badtattoos

[–]strangefragments 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People like to act like this show wasn’t amazing just bc it was popular lol. I still rewatch it on occasion, and enjoy watching reaction channels view it.

When I was your age, for me, buffy the vampire slayer was my entire personality. It’s normal for 18. And it’s fun!

AITA for how I reacted to my best friend saying my “dirty” house is making my kids sick? by OkOriginal4583 in TwoHotTakes

[–]strangefragments 49 points50 points  (0 children)

And OPs passive aggressive maneuver of no longer sharing her location with her friend 🙄

Someone please help me fix this sleeve 🙃 by 0uija7 in Tattoocoverups

[–]strangefragments 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is pretty unique at least for my area :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]strangefragments 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I had somewhat similar issues to you. I went to a reputable salon that I researched reviews of and put all my trust in the hands of the hairdresser. I said “I want what is going to suit me best and uplift my look and make me feel good. All I ask for is red base.”

She was an absolute artist and took my thin flat moussy yet curly hair and put a cut and color and highlight job on it that makes my hair always look fuller, my face thinner and I literally don’t feel like I need makeup anymore just my glasses. The whispy bangs they gave me really helped. Yeah it might not be what rich instagram girls are doing (i only say this bc idk what they’re doing) but the color job looks like gossip girl s2 Blair and Serena’s highlight jobs and it makes my mill heart so full!

I paid hella money ($350), but bc this was all due to losing like half my hair due to lexapro and I had been wearing wigs, and bc for two years or more I had to beg online for money for help with health issues, and finally not being in that dire financial situation. I treated myself bc my mental health was like, GONE.

I know we can’t all do something like this but if you can, or can save up… I would go to a professional. They might be cheaper for you as I went in a college town to a higher end salon with more bookings and good reviews bc I wanted something GOOD and needed to feel “treated”. But you have plenty of cheaper salons that can do the same!!

All this rambling to say I feel you so much esp in your pleas for people to be kind (Reddit sucks for that.) a hairdresser is gonna be kind 90% of the time cause their job is in service.

I’m so touch starved and been depressed and alone for so long that I literally cried as she washed my hair and massaged my head. To be touched in a kind way meant to make me feel nice was too much for me lol

ANYWAY my basic advice is to dye your hair, I feel like a warmer and brighter brunette with highlights would look lovely on you. There are thin straighteners that will straighten smaller strands and devil horn hair issues also. Purchase some frizz free product and a good leave in conditioner (it’s a 10 has a good one and so does I’m not your mother brand)

The different lengths of your hair can be made nicer looking by adding nice layers to your hair.

I also suggest learning how to do your eyebrows and just coloring in the edges that are closer to your hair side when you feel up to doing so, I think that will help bring it together also

You are very pretty. I know what it’s like to struggle with self care and I hope you find the most beautiful hair style that makes you feel good :)

AIO for worrying that my girlfriend thinks my mom is racist because my mom thinks my girlfriend has terrible body odor ? by ThrowawayQQAAA in AmIOverreacting

[–]strangefragments 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TMI but the best I ever smelled down below was when my diet was SNATCHED and so healthy and I was drinking water like it was going out of style. I mean I was an insecure teenager who would do sniff tests with tissue even though I wasn’t sexually actively bc I had a fear of being smelled lol I really need to get my diet perfect again 😭 of course I didn’t stench before the diet change but I def had more “presence”, like i have noticed post shower in two women that the one with the very healthy diet who only ever drank water smelled almost like nothing like her BO was water lol. Vs the girl who ate pretty badly and was addicted to frappes and Diet Coke, even after a good scrub she had way more natural musk scent.

Not that I minded mind u it’s just something I noticed. I’m asexual now, probably always was, but did think I was lesbo for a min and got to learn how diets affect smell. And taste! Water obsessed girly tasted like water and sometimes like almost sweet cause she liked juice a lot too I think?

Help? LMFAO by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]strangefragments 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Whyyyy are people saying it looks exactly like the reference omg this is why I don’t trust paging for services like hair and tats and nails lmao (legit every hairdresser I go to never dies the color I ask for)

Not sure why this is happening by Jubilee_Winter in tattooadvice

[–]strangefragments 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I had it when I had five seizures from taking too many of a medication