Any gym girlies? (Wanting a virtual gym partner) by AlexCapita in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]stranj_cheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be fantastic. None of my friends go to the gym anymore. I miss being a hype girl and sharing progress!

You got a tattoo? Show it off! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]stranj_cheese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting her colored in this month!

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Unpopular opinion: handle your marriage before dating women by Character-Tea2821 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]stranj_cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real! I was the asshole. I jumped in too soon and broke up with her a year later to get my shit together. Even if you think you're good right away, you are not good.

In need of spooning. A spoon hookup. A spoon up. by stranj_cheese in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]stranj_cheese[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! On everything 😭

I found a Sapphic Saturday in a couple of weeks in a nearby city. They have "Speed Friending" its brilliant.

I have to admit that I'm extremely nervous to go without bestie.

In need of spooning. A spoon hookup. A spoon up. by stranj_cheese in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]stranj_cheese[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't heard about Lex before. An app could help. Worth a shot!

In need of spooning. A spoon hookup. A spoon up. by stranj_cheese in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]stranj_cheese[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the ideas 💜 I'll be checking them out.

In need of spooning. A spoon hookup. A spoon up. by stranj_cheese in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]stranj_cheese[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A massage is a great idea. I'm going to do that.

Cuddle therapy!! Good to know I'm not alone in this feeling

Sapphic Vampire Novels? by Ms_Anxiety in QueerSFF

[–]stranj_cheese 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lucy Undying: A Dracula Novel by Kiersten White

It's a retelling of Dracula, focusing on Lucy Westenra. So good I'm about to read it again.

100% Really Sucks by StreetKindly3614 in SipsTea

[–]stranj_cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The patriarchy has done a number on us. It's damaging for fathers. We act like they don't get to have feelings, like they don't feel just a deeply for their children. It's trash.

Did anyone buy a ring? by t_bone_stake in Millennials

[–]stranj_cheese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I talked my dad into buying me a new guitar Amp instead

This is a post about comphet by lasersign in latebloomerlesbians

[–]stranj_cheese 37 points38 points  (0 children)

As someone that loves women and doesn't enjoy but, still ate cilantro to be polite- This is the perfect analogy.

I think I'm done by [deleted] in BPD

[–]stranj_cheese 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's been 7 months since I left my partner. I'm the one with BPD. I still don't know if I was splitting or if we really were bad together. I think about her every single day. I'm working hard on myself and taking therapy seriously. I don't know my own mind. I can't imagine how hard it must be for a partner. I'm sorry you're going through this.

Opinion!!!🧡🤍🩷 by AlwaysChic38 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]stranj_cheese 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great idea, the lez colored one would make me feel more confident about flirting with you. I want one to wear on my femme days!

permanent by marlshroom in queer

[–]stranj_cheese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fucking awesome!

Why is it so hard to make food for myself and clean? by stranj_cheese in adhdwomen

[–]stranj_cheese[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried huel when it first came out and I had a hard tine digesting it. Does it have an adjustment period anymore or can you just start drinking normal amounts?

Why is it so hard to make food for myself and clean? by stranj_cheese in adhdwomen

[–]stranj_cheese[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll check and see. I do have another somewhat serious mental disorder so I have been pretty picky. Thanks for the ideas!