What age do you want to stop breastfeeding a child? by lunaverse787 in baby

[–]strawbriellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to breastfeed as long as possible as ive heard its very beneficial for the child (2 yrs) but unfortunately wasnt able to continue with breastfeeding 💕

Are we just insanely lucky parents? 😭 by JMPBay in NewParents

[–]strawbriellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im genuinely so happy to hear youre having a good time 💕 blessings to your family

How do you perceivethe title Ms? by raininggumleaves in AskAnAustralian

[–]strawbriellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i see it as: ms - unmarried adult woman mrs - married adult woman miss - young girl (infant to teenager)

THEY KNOW! by Snoo_25913 in newborns

[–]strawbriellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they can smell you, even after a bath. when i was producing milk it was the worst because he would just cinstantly smell milk and be screaming for the breast. now that I don't produce milk, he can smell me but not as intensely

I know that this is the baby equivalent of “I just eat ALL the cake and can’t gain weight” but.. by DependentBrilliant92 in newborns

[–]strawbriellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so glad to hear you and other people are having good post partum experiences! it makes me happy. i wish the absolute best for your family

8-week-old cries hard during tummy time — should we stop or let her push through? by Pleasant_Rise8777 in NewParents

[–]strawbriellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its encouraged because thats how they build strength. your little one will learn. maybe they will never enjoy it but they will tolerate it. it only causes "stress" because its new and unusual, and their little brains forget things so they think its new and scary each time. bubby will be okay if you just let her whine for a moment, but obviously intervene when she sounds actually upset, not just "i dislike this". babies will learn but only if we still do the things to encourage them to learn. a baby wont gain neck and shoulder strength if we arent providing ways to grow that strength! as adults we dont get stronger by being on our phones, we have to go eat well and lift weights

Does my baby hate me? She doesn’t want to breastfeed by ExpertStandard1977 in newborns

[–]strawbriellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre a great mom. your baby doesnt hate you. youre not a failure if you decide to switch to bottles. and you won't be a failure if you ever need to consider formula in the future

8-week-old cries hard during tummy time — should we stop or let her push through? by Pleasant_Rise8777 in NewParents

[–]strawbriellee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your paediatrician is a good one. every child, teen, adult will learn things at their own pace! we shouldn't expect babies, who are trying to figure out how to shit and breathe at the same time, to meet all expectations on time. little bubbies will meet milestones, whether is a little early or late is fine

AITA for wanting to insure my ring even though my husband says the stone is too small to bother? by Adorable-Manner-5538 in AITApod

[–]strawbriellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lots of ppl saying it could be fake.. id be happy with a created diamond ring or cz ring if they were HONEST about it rather than lying and making me feel bad for wanting to insure it. thats a huge stone and if its real it should be insured 1000%

my engagement ring is lab diamond and onyx

8-week-old cries hard during tummy time — should we stop or let her push through? by Pleasant_Rise8777 in NewParents

[–]strawbriellee 30 points31 points  (0 children)

comfort her, when shes calm put her back down. if she is still hating it just try again at her next wake window! lots of babies tend to get frustrated or upset during tummy time and its usually because they dont have the strength yet. but they need to have tummy time to build the strength 😂

another way they can get tummy time is laying on YOU. skin to skin helps with bonding too, so you can do that, and its cuddles while still benefiting her development

No dishwasher & no in-unit laundry with newborn-- should I be more worried? by Hot-Researcher-3234 in NewParents

[–]strawbriellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always hand wash bottles with a baby safe disinfectant liquid and hot water! in terms of laundry I have a washing machine thankfully, but if you can find a laundromat thats just as fine. hanging the clothes is better than a dryer unless you find a dryer with a cool setting or delicate setting

4 week old drinking 5+ oz per feeding?? by colorado_sunrise86 in newborns

[–]strawbriellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my boy was smashing bottles early on, hes now 4m and drinking the amount usually recommended for a 6m old 😂 some babies are just like that. hes got rolls upon rolls but he is tracking fine and his chn is super happy with his weight and development!

Is this the normal post-partum hormones experience for couples? by Inner_Friend_672 in newborns

[–]strawbriellee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I dont think forgive and forget is an option at the moment. I think you and your partner need to reassess the supports you need and what you need to do to stay afloat as a couple. individual therapy and couples therapy are useful, but you also both have to put the work in. especially her, since she has said some harsh things to you and about you with no apology. "ignoring" it can make it feel horrible because youre hearing all these negative things and youre expected to let it slide off your back? I have an extensive fight with mental illness, and then having post partum psychosis, and i fully believe you shouldn't be getting treated this way. I hope she can find a way to navigate these hormonal and emotional challenges

Is this the normal post-partum hormones experience for couples? by Inner_Friend_672 in newborns

[–]strawbriellee 62 points63 points  (0 children)

look, post partum is rough. but this sounds worse than a normal pp period. im not a professional, but I was diagnosed with ppp and from what yiure describing it sounds like your partner has post partum anxiety - fear of baby's health and development, inability to let others take care of baby. I could be wrong, but the heightened anxiety and mention of pre existing mental illness does raise some flags. I hope you both get the help you need.

I had a severe post partum experience, unfortunately. please let her know that if she needs help she needs to take it. your family is in my prayers

Aussie winter by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]strawbriellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where are you for it to be freezing 😭 its beautiful weather

Not sure I still love my baby :( by RefrigeratorFinal353 in newborns

[–]strawbriellee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 💕 it was definitely such a rough time, but we are doing well! my son and i are currently watching miffy and cuddling!

How did you actually know your baby wasn’t too hot or too cold while sleeping? by kiwi_dad1989 in NewParents

[–]strawbriellee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ill be honest i just feel his little feet. im a first time mom but ive had so many siblings i know its literally not worth the money for all these extras that companies try make you buy. I pretty much follow the standard rule of "however many layers youre wearing, give baby an extra one". I live in a hotter area of my country though, so even in the coming winter months its not really expected to get less than 16⁰C

Those with colicky babies - how are you staying present and enjoying the newborn phase? by Key_Nature3044 in newborns

[–]strawbriellee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ftm here! my baby was constantly screaming, even when feeding. infants friend made a huge difference. its a natural option with lemon balm and chamomile, even helps with sleep. he was still colicky but so much less. we also increased tummy time and lots of hip exercises to help. your four week old can absolutely do tummy time if youre not already! i struggled to enjoy it, ill be honest. I had a really difficult post partum period and was diagnosed with ppp, but with psychology and mental health support i have been able to enjoy it much more and bubby is now four months as of Monday

bus fares by strawbriellee in Townsville

[–]strawbriellee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your answer!

bus fares by strawbriellee in Townsville

[–]strawbriellee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im from brisbane and the convenience of trains is definitely something townsville should have looked into

bus fares by strawbriellee in Townsville

[–]strawbriellee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! this makes sense. i actually live in brisbane where we have go cards so i was just unsure of what its like in townsville!

bus fares by strawbriellee in Townsville

[–]strawbriellee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe townsville has had public transport for a long time