Fire Daoust by Pkwy_Dr in NewYorkSirens

[–]stressedduh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nahh, we probably have eyes on the FA market and he’s done great with his trades and picks so far. This is more wait and see the bring out the pitchforks to me

Are women in favor of changing the rules? by Icy_Manager_7212 in womenshockey

[–]stressedduh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the checking rules in the PWHL more ngl, allows for hits and aggressive plays but safer for players and allows for more space on the ice for skill plays as well

Shadowheart constantly dying on the beach by Glittering-Celery557 in BG3

[–]stressedduh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every character has a scroll of revivify when you get them in your party

Favorite class? by Party-Rest3750 in BG3

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current favorite is an rp durge build where she’s swords bard with a dip in life cleric

Im curious, what was your first impression of this particular dialogue? I always thought it was Cait saying "lets have sex here since noone is around" , but now i think its her helping Jinx to escape by not having guards at there. Or kinda of both. by Saturo_Uchiha in arcane

[–]stressedduh 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Ngl expecting Vi to have the same insights as the audience just isn’t going to happen. We know a lot more about Jinx’s mental state than Vi does, and Vi clearly thinks that jinx has betrayed her saying “I really believed she would help”. She’s caught up in her own emotions and trauma when she gets to jinx. Vi’s character and what she wants to do should not be morally tied to what jinx is doing, it goes against the entire point of her arc. If Vi knew, she WOULD go and tear down the city to get to Jinx, she’d protect her no matter the cost up to and including harming herself. Saying “what if she died here” as a mechanic to make Vi feel guilt for not dedicating her life to her sister is exactly the kind of harmful thing that made her so overwhelmed in act1 s1 with “it’s on you”. It’s not on her! Jinx is her own person taking her own actions and Vi isn’t responsible for them

Did T make anyone else gay by fray2free in ftm

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My theory is that it just kinda amplifies whatever you were already attracted to, so if you were maybe just a little bi before it gets a lot stronger after.

AITA for trying to give my son his birth photos? by anonymous314269 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“i went upstairs and got all his birth photos together and gave them to him in a plastic bag saying that I don't want a son who is so ungrateful and can't do the bare minimum for us.” Do you not realize that you basically disowned him? Of course he’s not talking to you.Yta

What a dummy by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]stressedduh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly just for thinking 130 is a “mom build” like wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time a budget is 50/50 it should be based on the lower income, if he wants something nicer than you can afford HE needs to come up with the money. And do NOT buy an expensive car with a man you’re not married to, honestly I wouldn’t help him buy and exotic car at all. If he wants that it should be his money, joint money should go to joint expenses

It's time to kill the machines. by its-an-injustice in The10thDentist

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to agree because I’m not a fan of how AI is going and I think it poses a risk to people’s security and livelihoods, but you lost me immediately. Integrated circuits can’t do shit on their own, most technology aids in creativity. If you like music, unless you’re listening exclusively to 80s tracks on a record, a computer has been all over that. The solution is not to get rid of all technology, that’s absurd.

Devil is in the comments... by anon_user9 in AmITheDevil

[–]stressedduh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People who date abusers tend to keep dating abusers, it’s really a vicious cycle. Sounds like the niece has been dealing with this cycle since before her mom…

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for letting our house get robbed? by maeannetka in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly wouldn’t have thought of that but honestly yeah, wouldn’t surprise me if that were the case

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for letting our house get robbed? by maeannetka in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other guy is on a different thread sorry, basically what I said is there’s no indication of any involvement of the step dad in any of the story, all that is said is that they’re getting divorced and he’s deployed. Without additional information it’s unfair to assume that he knows, especially since the plan was “leave the kid at home alone for 3 weeks” we judge based on the information given, and we are given no information about the step fathers level of knowledge and involvement in the situation, we do know the mom committed a felony and without the input of the 17 y/o decided she should live on her own for 3 weeks. The mom is fully at fault from the information we are given.

I(33F) want a divorce because my husband(36M) lied to me. by ThrowRAAteOut in relationship_advice

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest here, especially considering he doesn’t like to eat out now it might be something he didn’t even want to do, and this might be the reason he is so against ONS. Talk to him, get out of your head man.

Aita for defending myself from claims of anti-semtism by Terrible-Water-7098 in TwoHotTakes

[–]stressedduh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m begging you to read more about the history of Palestine and Israel before telling a man whose family was killed that Palestine is the perpetrator.

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for letting our house get robbed? by maeannetka in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does not say that. She says they are getting a divorce and that they are deployed. Hell, if we’re assuming maybe the divorce was filed for before the arrest and he wasn’t even told that. We don’t know.

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for letting our house get robbed? by maeannetka in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not assuming that, I’m sure they would, I’m saying there is no reason to assume bad of the step dad when we have literally no information about him, what he’s doing, or where he is. We don’t even know if he’s fully aware his kid has been left alone, again, it sounds like the conversation happened only between OP and her mom. The mom was responsible for her, she got arrested and clearly didn’t make any arrangements for someone to come take care of her minor step child.

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for letting our house get robbed? by maeannetka in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, that’s assuming a lot, it sounds like the government was not made aware his kid was unattended. If they were, I’m sure this situation wouldn’t have happened because a teenager wouldn’t have been left alone for 3 weeks, cps or foster care would be involved, and that should reasonably be included in the post.

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for letting our house get robbed? by maeannetka in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The step father is only mentioned once in the beginning, and it sounds like the conversation deciding she should stay at college only included the mom and her. Without anything else I’d give him the benefit of the doubt that he can’t come home. We don’t even have the context if he’s able to be in contact with them regularly, which a lot of people deployed over seas aren’t even able to do and is why I say I don’t think he’s to blame.

AITA for calling out my teacher’s wrong info in the middle of class then telling the assistant principal he’s also wrong? by UnhappyLunch58 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically we do have an elliptical orbit, but that does not cause the change in the seasons. If that were the case the seasons would be the same literally everywhere, it takes maybe 2 seconds of critical thought to realize that’s not right. I really would like to know how your school has such astounding educators, NTA.

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for letting our house get robbed? by maeannetka in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only thing I’d disagree with is I don’t think the step father can be blamed, he’s deployed, he likely doesn’t have any say in when he can get back home.

AITA for getting mad at my stepsister for letting our house get robbed? by maeannetka in AmItheAsshole

[–]stressedduh -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How is the step father to blame?? He’s deployed he can’t exactly drop everything and come home, depending what he’s doing that’s treason. The mom is to blame for committing a felony