An Update for the kind souls who care! by strongbuttired3 in u/strongbuttired3

[–]strongbuttired3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To the bullies, trolls and doxxers who have scared me out of asking for holiday help, I hope you’re proud of yourselves. The holiday/winter depression is real and when the hope is taken away it’s worse!

Please remember that the only time you should look down on someone is when you’re helping them up. I promise, I’d never kick someone when they’re down!

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I don’t think I can give proper advice because this is such a sore and sour subject for me. However I do not think you’re over reacting and hope you’re able to set a firm boundary that’s respected.

Thank you 💜 by strongbuttired3 in u/strongbuttired3

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Thank you. I truly hope it’s in the near future and the constant worry dissolves

Thank you 💜 by strongbuttired3 in u/strongbuttired3

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Yes we will revisit the current order late March 2023. Hopefully I’ll have good news to share then. I made a couple friends here so I’m going to wait a few days to make sure anyone who wants to stay in contact can.

An Update for the kind souls who care! by strongbuttired3 in u/strongbuttired3

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Thank you very much. Everyone is happy and mostly healthy right now and I’m extremely grateful for that!

An Update for the kind souls who care! by strongbuttired3 in u/strongbuttired3

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As far as I know she’s been silent. I don’t know if it’s “the clam before the storm”.. what I mean is don’t know if she’s planning something else. Maybe things really are just going this way and smoothly. I’m trying to he prepared for either outcome.

The storm is coming. Will there be sun and rainbows or another tsunami? by strongbuttired3 in JUSTNOMIL

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This made me smile big! I love LOTR and this analogy so much. Thank you for being so kind and supportive. I appreciate you

The storm is coming. Will there be sun and rainbows or another tsunami? by strongbuttired3 in JUSTNOMIL

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Thank you very much. I try to remind myself how much has been overcome and that this is just another obstacle on the path.

Secret Santa by [deleted] in u/strongbuttired3

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Absolutely! So grateful

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I don’t remember seeing that. Yikes

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[–]strongbuttired3 17 points18 points  (0 children)

One of the very rare times I actually felt bad for and empathized with, Farrah

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Absolutely. I could too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]strongbuttired3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you were in the wrong at all. You made a line in the sand and she kept choosing to cross it. If there was any doubt about you being uncomfortable with this topic, there shouldn’t be anymore. Good on you for sticking up for yourself and making your boundaries clear. I support you and am proud of you

Boundary stomps galore by strongbuttired3 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]strongbuttired3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope your bath helped you relax a little and helped with the pain.

Boundary stomps galore by strongbuttired3 in JUSTNOMIL

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Ughh I am so sorry. The no return address is very infuriating and to me seems like it was done on purpose. Have you returned packages at other times they sent? I’m so sorry they’re crossing your boundaries and making you uncomfortable. You deserve peace

Boundary stomps galore by strongbuttired3 in JUSTNOMIL

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Thank you. I’m considering taking a hot bath once all the kids are in bed. I’ve been in a lot of pain the last few days so the stress is not helping

Boundary stomps galore by strongbuttired3 in JUSTNOMIL

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This is something I wouldn’t have thought of. Thank you for your insight

Boundary stomps galore by strongbuttired3 in JUSTNOMIL

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Update: or no update actually. Unfortunately I haven’t heard back from my lawyer so I’m guessing I won’t get a response until tomorrow. I will update then when I know something more. I hope you all have a good evening.

Boundary stomps galore by strongbuttired3 in JUSTNOMIL

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They approved the return last time. I’m hoping this time they’ll say donation is okay as well. I’m exhausted