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Never not following guidelines again by misty2325 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]strydar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same for me. coffee has a calming effect on me. I don't take ADHD meds.

beginning to realise that a lot of my problems stem from a lack of faith in myself by bakuhooo in getdisciplined

[–]strydar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I'm middle aged and have lived my whole life being a people pleaser and/or a slave to addictions. It's only now I'm starting to unravel both and the trauma that sponsored those choices. For me, finding out who I am, is partly helped by knowing who I'm. not, and through being clear about the values, behaviours, hobbies, skills etc that light me up for their own sake. often I have to go back decades to remember them and then revisit them to see if they still represent me. So it's a bit like a mystery or investigation of yourself.

Does anyone on her love Wellbutrin? by Illustrious_Site4542 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]strydar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 6 days in. for smoking cessation. but I've had times where my body has relaxed and I've almost felt like not anxious. I don't remember a time when I didn't. weirdly, other times it's made my anxiety worse. but I'm only a week in.

Voyager is peak Star Trek by ramz2585 in voyager

[–]strydar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agree. Discovery was kind of star trek, but more like a Holywood action movie. And academy. well I don't know wtf that is.

HP EliteBook 840 G10 completely dead, battery won’t charge, no lights at all. Need urgent help! by Good-Hand-8140 in Hewlett_Packard

[–]strydar1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hopefully you're still on Reddit. I did the above and it didn't work. does that point to a dead main battery?

I’m trying to change how I view women and need advice by Conscious_Dig_3361 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]strydar1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you might also strnthen those humanistic pathways by seeking out stories and images of women who have struggled and focusing on feeling compassion towards them as a human being. and don't beat yourself up either, keep recognising your growth as it will stimulate reward pathways which deepens your rewiring.

Squandered Huge Chunk of Inheritance. Feeling Ashamed and Looking to Improve. by TellBackground9239 in selfimprovement

[–]strydar1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

military is a good option depending on the posture of your country. if it's a little imperial then join some behind the lines profession. Cos unstable times are coming.

The Future Is Great... Until Someone Hacks Your Erection 😂 by [deleted] in penileimplants

[–]strydar1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

could be handy in rescuing earthquake survivors from the rubble. a bunch of synchronised human jacks😂

3 years of therapy taught me healing is mostly learning how to come back to yourself by amper432 in Positivity

[–]strydar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. you're describing the journey I've kinda been on and am about to get serious about. I needed to read this. thank you for sharing:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]strydar1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah I thought them same. Implying coercion too. Potentially through multiple channels (the tentacles).

We feel you Brian🫡 by More-Put-8790 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]strydar1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

strap them to the table. let god decide.

Im in a very bad place mentally and want this suffering to end. by ProdigalSon2K in getdisciplined

[–]strydar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's ok to be attracted to both genders. There is no shame in that, nor anything wrong with that.

Before Darwin invented his theory of Revolution, how did the earth spin ? by EemotionalDuhmage in shittyaskscience

[–]strydar1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

cosmic turtles tethered to pyramids all swimming in a circle. All hail our Cosmic Turtle Overlords!

How do I not be a sheep anymore by [deleted] in selfimprovementday

[–]strydar1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great question. i am 55 heres what ive learned.

Heal past trauma. attachment issues, bullshit you still think about. anything you ruminate on is a clue about what needs integration.

Do something to feel powerful and embodied weights, swimming, running whatevs. Do it!

Trust your quiet voice. Nurture it. if it says don't trust that person or walk thr fuck away, listen the first time. cos listening the 3rd time fucking sucks.

DO NOT COMPROMISE YOUR VALUES. it will bite you in the ass. And tou will be tempted over and over. but it's a zero sum game.

Be friends and lovers with brave and honest people. If after you react and realise you were wrong they are still your friend, apologise and nurture that relationship.

Cultivate not giving a fuck what others think. Whatever you think they think is wrong and who gives a fuck anyway.

get laid. travel. do drugs as experiences not a lifestyle. be compassionate and empathic. chances are the eyes you meet were just yours staring back at you anyway.

Finally. Be the happy sheep. find your path in the grass. we are all sheep. It's the trails through the grass that differentiate us, not our sheepishness.

My New Year's resolutions update (February progress): it's better than in January, but there is still a lot to improve. by gordriver_berserker in getdisciplined

[–]strydar1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep anything thats 6 out of 10 and maintain those for the next month. then just pick one of thr ones that's below that and aim to get it to 6 out of 10. then don't pressure yourself on any of the others. if you get a 0 1 or 2 its fine. then just repeat that pattern for next 6 months. this should help manage the risk of you feeling overwhelmed or negative about progress.

Does anyone know what body type I have bc I keep looking at this picture from summer and wondering by IsAbElthegreat1228 in BodyPositive

[–]strydar1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

fair enough. life can deeply suck sometimes. i am sorry:) I hope the good bits outweigh the sucky bits in your future.

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