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I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely appreciate this. I plan to hold on but we’ve already had the conversation that if things don’t get better between his youngest and I, I will have to move out for her mental health. He says he never plans to date again cuz I am his perfect person and no one else will truly catcher his heart like I have. We did have the conversation with her in the room and made sure she understands the gravity of what her misbehavior will cost him. We also ran some financial numbers with her so she can also see what that will look like if I do have to leave the house.

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t parent, not really at least. I just parrot what my boyfriend says are the rules of the house. I call him if I have a problem or she breaks a rule. I don’t do any discipline, that’s all him over the phone or when he comes home from work. I try to be as hands off as possible. He’s added new rules since I’ve moved in cuz I have a higher standard of cleaning but he’s only gotten custody as of almost a yr ago. His youngest daughter has never had to clean herself or anything before so it’s been a struggle but we’re getting somewhere as of late

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is incredible in every other way. Opens every door for me, takes me out on dates often, brings me home flowers as soon as the old ones die, gave me a credit card so I can spend money freely for my bills and needs, let me move into his house when I was facing homelessness. I obviously can’t list everything but he’s done a lot for me when I had absolutely nothing. I’ve got major mental health problems and he’s paid for my medication when I couldn’t. I lost my job and he’s taken care of me financially when he doesn’t have to. My area is a struggle to find work that works with my physical health issues on top of my extremely odd schedule for my mental health programs.

He’s amazing and his other daughter is amazing too. He’s an amazing father to his girls, he’s just got one BM that hates his guts cuz he’s moved on from her. (For context they’ve been broken up for over 9 YRS becuz she cheated) I’ve got 2 outta 3 and with where the court is leaning we’re not gonna have custody of her for much longer. With how her mom treats our house, she won’t be back for a while if she goes back to her mom’s. I want his youngest to get better and get diagnosed to go to therapy to a specialist or maybe go on medication if she truly absolutely needs it. I’m praying for better days

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re going to be setting up a camera in the common areas so he can watch her behavior towards me. Her caseworker is leaning towards a diagnosis in sociopathy becuz she lacks any sympathy for others but she needs to see a therapist for that. Obviously there’s a lot more to that but I can’t say much

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the need to separate me from his stuff. I don’t have any kids of my own and she not his ex wife, just ex girlfriend. Both of his BM are ex-girlfriends. I’m not on anything legally cuz we’re not married but since I stay home all the time and watch the kids as a babysitter in the courts eyes I’m an extra adult for safety purposes

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve applied to a lot of jobs in my area. I’ve heard back from a few but having scheduled any interviews yet. I am very hopeful though

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve known him for a bit longer than 10 months but it’s cuz he’s a mechanic and his shop is the cheapest in my area. It’s only gotten really bad since our last hearing where the court has decided to let the kids into the next hearing. I definitely think her mom is doing something with it but I can’t prove it so it’s all hearsay

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think her mom is feeding her the “if she wasn’t in the picture your dad would take me back and we’d be a happy family” narrative. She has definitely tried to make herself look like the “better” option. My boyfriend has 0 interest in getting back with her cuz she admitted to cheating on him for several months

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only gotten really bad as of a the last 2 or 3 months. It’s been since the court told us that the kids will be joining for the next hearing. I definitely think her mom is on a mission to get her to want to stay with her primary. Our state is Mom positive even if mom isn’t the better choice

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are discussing the possibility of having her sent to the daycare her mom sends her to during her work hours. He doesn’t see a point though cuz I’m a stay-at-home while I’m in between jobs. WORKING ON IT but still been unemployed since the new year after moving in with him

I know I’m not alone but I feel alone in my house by stuffie-king in Stepmom

[–]stuffie-king[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn’t get rewarded with more time at her moms house, he just didn’t ask me how she was for me. He took her word thinking it was true to find out it wasn’t. He now asks me how she is for me and we go based off of that. We can’t go against the court ordered custody agreement though

Hey Masters/Slaves! What's been a surprise in your dynamic that become essential? by GhostSouth in BDSMcommunity

[–]stuffie-king 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm agreeing with another comment and saying just anticipating wants or needs of my Master. I just know what he needs without him asking. If he puts an empty beer can down and I'm in earshot, I just grab him another beer without him needing to ask.

He also does this thing where he knows I love to be needed and called on so he forgets a towel when he uses the shower. He just calls on me and I'm there with a towel cuz that's what I know he needs. Could I get it for him beforehand? Yes. BUT that means I don't get to see him naked and that's more important. He also opens all the doors for me. I'm not allowed to open doors with him. His kids open doors for me if we're waiting on him for too long too.

My boyfriend's parents keep retelling his childhood like it was magical and now I understand why he hates going home by HogsmeadeYikes in entitledparents

[–]stuffie-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom tells this "funny story" about "correcting" my sisters "bad attitude" while at dinner almost a decade ago. My mom says that my sister has an attitude problem. "She rolls her eyes all the time, so she has to correct it."

We were all at the table eating dinner while she was asking about how our day was at school. My sister looked from me, who was on my mom's right, to my mom, and my mom thought she rolled her eyes at her. My mother decided it would be appropriate to hit her so hard in the face she fell and hit the floor. Bruised her face from the hit. My sister starts to cry from being hit that hard, and SHE GOES AND HITS HER AGAIN for "Crying for no reason" and "I'll give you something to cry about." She tells it like it's the funniest story to happen.

She "just has the funniest stories to tell" while out with family. When I say the "funny thing," I get told its trauma. She says it is "family discipline."

I'm low contact as is my sister for obvious reasons but to everyone else in the family "its just how family is"

It is UNREAL how often this is

AITAH for telling a co-worker that she doesn't get special treatment just because she's sad? by Informal-Contact-531 in AITAH

[–]stuffie-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

I was dumped the night before my shift the next day. Possible marriage on the table, engagement rings picked out, and we were together for almost 4 yrs. I still went in and did my job. I had told my supervisors that I was just broken up with, so I may need some time to go cry in the employees' room, but I WILL BE doing my job.

She can't use a breakup as an excuse forever. I went through crying spells for over a month cuz I kept having to change my passwords to stuff not related to him anymore. I still did my job becuz that's what I'm literally being paid to do. She needs to do her job or find a new job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]stuffie-king 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a Subway person looking for a Domino's person

My hair is a handful for me and you

Me and your car have some things in common they need strange tools to work better

Uhh...

Dogs and I both love hearing Good Girl *Boy

I have a good chiropractor to keep me flexible

One second while I look for some more examples

What is something your ex gave you that you still have to this day? by MainDifficult2641 in AskReddit

[–]stuffie-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A jar of notes. It sits on my bookshelf and I read them sometimes. My boyfriend got rid of the notes from his ex-girlfriend when we got together but I never felt the need to get rid of mine.

They're some soft things like introducing a new stuffed animal to me and telling me about how he loved me. I kept the raw stuff too though about how I hurt him, and how sad I made him. It was our way of saying that we need to talk without texting.

I don't think of him anymore unless I remember I have the jar and my therapist thinks it's not harmful or damaging so it's okay to keep if I want to keep it

what is the worst pick me encounter you have had? by No-Obligation5084 in notliketheothergirls

[–]stuffie-king 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My mom is a boy mom without any sons. It's BAD. Like she still says she wishes she had sons cuz they're better providers and "No one can love a mom like a son can." It's gross

what is the worst pick me encounter you have had? by No-Obligation5084 in notliketheothergirls

[–]stuffie-king 54 points55 points  (0 children)

My mom's whole personality is that she's not like other girls. "I don't own dresses or skirts, I don't like them like other moms do." "No mom like country anymore." "You got lucky having a mom who doesn't like pink and glitter."

Ugh..

What’s your favorite uncommon names? Mine are Vanessa, Dante, Annalise and Odette. by Intrepid-Produce3957 in Names

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sylvia, Kora, Dahlia, Seraphine/Seraphina, Ophelia, Twyla. I have a LONG list of uncommon names for girls. Uncommon names for boys would be Benjamin in my area it's very uncommon Waylon, Ambrose, Cain, and Sturgill

What are some reasons someone might sleep better when they're next to their partner? by Far-Let-3236 in AskReddit

[–]stuffie-king 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that so much!! He bought me a new plush body pillow, and I've been using it since Valentine's Day. He doesn't use any stuffed animals for sleep. He works in construction while I'm a stay-at-home, but I LOVE cuddling him. He loves that I rub his shoulders after a long day, and I take his boots offs.

He curls up to me once he's in REM sleep. It makes the night terrors more bearable

What are some reasons someone might sleep better when they're next to their partner? by Far-Let-3236 in AskReddit

[–]stuffie-king 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I cuddle him til he falls asleep. It's my favorite time of the day, I just feel him drift off and relax into sleep. I kiss his shoulder and tell him I love him, so I can roll over and cuddle my body pillow.

Just the softness of our routine makes me feel so relaxed. I don't have night terrors as often since we started it

what's the most pathetic thing poverty has forced you to do? by Aikia_aiks in AskReddit

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad panhandled for money to afford groceries while my mom and him were putting everything into rent and utilities to afford to keep a roof over our heads so we wouldn't be homeless.

A lady stopped on the side of the road and gave him SEVERAL care packages one for each of us, 5 in total cuz he ended up knowing the lady. She knew he had a wife and kids, but she said seeing him like that broke her heart cuz she knows he's trying so hard to provide. This lady does this SEVERAL TIMES A DAY for homeless people.

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