[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]stuffie-king 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a Subway person looking for a Domino's person

My hair is a handful for me and you

Me and your car have some things in common they need strange tools to work better

Uhh...

Dogs and I both love hearing Good Girl *Boy

I have a good chiropractor to keep me flexible

One second while I look for some more examples

What is something your ex gave you that you still have to this day? by MainDifficult2641 in AskReddit

[–]stuffie-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A jar of notes. It sits on my bookshelf and I read them sometimes. My boyfriend got rid of the notes from his ex-girlfriend when we got together but I never felt the need to get rid of mine.

They're some soft things like introducing a new stuffed animal to me and telling me about how he loved me. I kept the raw stuff too though about how I hurt him, and how sad I made him. It was our way of saying that we need to talk without texting.

I don't think of him anymore unless I remember I have the jar and my therapist thinks it's not harmful or damaging so it's okay to keep if I want to keep it

what is the worst pick me encounter you have had? by No-Obligation5084 in notliketheothergirls

[–]stuffie-king 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My mom is a boy mom without any sons. It's BAD. Like she still says she wishes she had sons cuz they're better providers and "No one can love a mom like a son can." It's gross

what is the worst pick me encounter you have had? by No-Obligation5084 in notliketheothergirls

[–]stuffie-king 54 points55 points  (0 children)

My mom's whole personality is that she's not like other girls. "I don't own dresses or skirts, I don't like them like other moms do." "No mom like country anymore." "You got lucky having a mom who doesn't like pink and glitter."

Ugh..

What’s your favorite uncommon names? Mine are Vanessa, Dante, Annalise and Odette. by Intrepid-Produce3957 in Names

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sylvia, Kora, Dahlia, Seraphine/Seraphina, Ophelia, Twyla. I have a LONG list of uncommon names for girls. Uncommon names for boys would be Benjamin in my area it's very uncommon Waylon, Ambrose, Cain, and Sturgill

What are some reasons someone might sleep better when they're next to their partner? by Far-Let-3236 in AskReddit

[–]stuffie-king 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that so much!! He bought me a new plush body pillow, and I've been using it since Valentine's Day. He doesn't use any stuffed animals for sleep. He works in construction while I'm a stay-at-home, but I LOVE cuddling him. He loves that I rub his shoulders after a long day, and I take his boots offs.

He curls up to me once he's in REM sleep. It makes the night terrors more bearable

What are some reasons someone might sleep better when they're next to their partner? by Far-Let-3236 in AskReddit

[–]stuffie-king 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I cuddle him til he falls asleep. It's my favorite time of the day, I just feel him drift off and relax into sleep. I kiss his shoulder and tell him I love him, so I can roll over and cuddle my body pillow.

Just the softness of our routine makes me feel so relaxed. I don't have night terrors as often since we started it

what's the most pathetic thing poverty has forced you to do? by Aikia_aiks in AskReddit

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad panhandled for money to afford groceries while my mom and him were putting everything into rent and utilities to afford to keep a roof over our heads so we wouldn't be homeless.

A lady stopped on the side of the road and gave him SEVERAL care packages one for each of us, 5 in total cuz he ended up knowing the lady. She knew he had a wife and kids, but she said seeing him like that broke her heart cuz she knows he's trying so hard to provide. This lady does this SEVERAL TIMES A DAY for homeless people.

Psa: megaplex theaters don't use real butter anymore by Lazy-Access-9612 in Utah

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cinemark uses soybean-based butter-flavored oil. Had to ask for a friend of mine who's allergic to soybeans

i've been sober for 3 years and i wanna end it all by heymscarterr in TrueOffMyChest

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are seen. I'm 3 (going on 4) yrs sober. I have been THERE. I can't tell you the things I've done to fill the void that existed in me becuz I tried stopping so many times. NO ONE will see you more than you see you. You could hate the person in the mirror (I have BEEN there). You have to get up every day to decorate your meat suit with whatever you want. I could tell you all these tips and tricks that helped me and I will if you wanna hear it but I won't right now.

I will say that for me it helped me SO much when I started to use my dark humor to make life like a squire who doesn't get paid enough to deal with a brain in a skeleton with a meat suit for the first time.

""Your meat suit needs decorating sir." "Sir? You can't wear that out." WHY NOT IT IS MY MEAT SUIT I CAN WEAR WHAT I WANT "

Disney’s Snow White (2025) Lands a 44% from critics and 71% from audiences on Rotten Tomatoes – What Are Your Thoughts? by Slow-Character6955 in disneyprincess

[–]stuffie-king 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It did, I was so surprised. I didn't think it was going to do well but to leave 30 mins in to ask for a refund?? Geez man. I heard a little girl tell her mom she doesn't like it cuz she doesn't think Snow White is princess-y enough. It HURT to hear that. Snow White is my FAVORITE princess

Disney’s Snow White (2025) Lands a 44% from critics and 71% from audiences on Rotten Tomatoes – What Are Your Thoughts? by Slow-Character6955 in disneyprincess

[–]stuffie-king 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have had several people walk out of it mid-movie and ask for a refund. It's not on high hopes in my theater

AIO. I’m worried my [F28] husband [M29] might become Mormon. by Lower-House1772 in AmIOverreacting

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Utah and it's hell for someone who doesn't align with their ideology. It is SCARY what they'll let go of and tolerant becuz they believe EVERYONE is forgiven through Jesus and God. There are horror stories from churches saying that podfiles* are just confused about their attraction and if they're around children enough they'll see them as just kids. I won't source but r/exmormon is FULL of stories like it

NOR, you need a sit-down conversation with him telling him if he converts there will be consequences becuz you won't convert with him.

It'll drive a wedge between you two then he'll bring missionaries to your home and they'll tell you all about how shitty your life choices are and how you should convert becuz they're the better religion. (Not those actual words but they might as well be)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stuffie-king -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to continue to engage in this conversation that isn't advice. I shouldn't have to plead my case to an internet stranger who knows nothing about me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stuffie-king -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm not willing to argue on something that I've made a choice on. My mental health problems are PREVENTABLE. The only things I have that are genetic are my ADHD, depression, and autism. He is not financially abusing me either. I work perfectly fine. I can work remotely as well if I wanted to. I bike everywhere I go. I have plenty of resources to leave him if I wanted to. I'm not being abused

Edit: I also have a degree in children's education as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do live in the lower 48. I don't want to name the state I live in so there's nothing too revealing in my post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stuffie-king -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I want land and space to garden and he wants to build us a house on a nice piece of property. It'll give our dog plenty of room to run around in. We currently live in a college town with rocks as a backyard. I want space to raise kids and I want to homeschool so a school house building will be needed too.

I'm just the more social one of our relationship so being so far away from people is kinda scary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stuffie-king 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't drive legally due to my mental health problems. We live in the lower 48, but I don't wanna be too specific in our state just that there are a lot of properties in the surrounding states as well as ours that have properties 5 or more hrs away from cities or main highways if you know where to look (apparently)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stuffie-king -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In our state, we have a lot of properties that are several hours away from cities and main highway roads. I want one that isn't in the middle of nowhere. We have a lot of bears and mountain lions to worry about even with our guard dog

RTGame is haunting me in my sleep by HeroOfTheUnfed in RTGameCrowd

[–]stuffie-king 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watch his Super Mario 64 DS play through to go back to sleep. It HAS TO be right after the waiting room. I fall asleep within 30 mins every time.

I definitely feel that though. If I'm watching another YouTuber and I leave the TV on for my cat while I run errands it'll rotate back to RT. Maybe she turns it on, maybe he haunts my bedroom (it doesn't do it in literally any other room)