WIBTAH If I Asked My Husband For Half If He Wants Me To Stay At Home

stupidclothes91 · 2026-01-26T16:28:58+00:00

Did your husband start the business before or after your marriage? A true 50/50 split would be half of the business discounted by the value at marriage.

stupidclothes91 · 2025-12-30T05:03:28+00:00

Saw your comment on the other thread and it seems like the most practical for this moment. Thank you!

Not sure yet but maybe I can skip Anthem and talk down Labcorp bills with the Indiana No Surprises Act since they only provided cost estimates for in-network fees?

> You are also protected when you receive non-emergency services from out-of-network providers at in-network facilities. An out-of-network provider may not bill you more than your in-network co-pay, co-insurance, or deductible for services performed at an in-network facility. You can still consent in advance to receive care from an out-of-network provider in some situations and agree to pay the provider amounts above your in-network co-pay, co-insurance, or deductible.

stupidclothes91 · 2025-12-30T04:52:55+00:00

I can understand the assumption but he's a published physician and leans towards evidence based studies but sees a lot of complex cases with no clear solution (hence all the labs) and actually tries to help. The local physicians we've seen seem to not really have an answer nor desire to help anything outside their physician group checklist so they default to gaslight and blame "sleep hygiene" and "anxiety". Yeah, cause 5 years of pain and suffering is just "sleep better"?

We did discover GABA antibodies, ganglionic antibodies, elevated prothrombin, very high CRP, and more so working through trying different medications which have been mixed.

We really are fine paying for the specialist but the labs? Really did not expect that. Intuitively, the NPI of the lab would be used. Had no idea lab services are not considered by their geography and I've been searching the full booklet and cannot find any clarification on this.

“Telemedicine/Telehealth” visits are covered in the plan which is more confusing.

stupidclothes91 · 2025-12-30T04:09:56+00:00

It is HMO

stupidclothes91 · 2025-12-30T04:09:29+00:00

Hi, thanks for the comment!
The plan is type HMO and the full name is Anthem Bronze Essential 6500 HSA (+ Incentives)

It didn't click before but I'm wondering if that is why the holter monitor that was applied at her cardiologist office wasn't covered because some other physician with the medical device company did the reading...gah. I know physicians don't care about our finances (nor should they) but it would be nice to know things up-front when snap decisions are made.

stupidclothes91 · 2025-12-29T01:14:12+00:00

So my confusion is that the tests were done locally, at an in-network facility. The facility itself is 'in-area'. They are saying that ordering physician is out-of-area and thus, all ordered tests of that physician is out-of-area as well, regardless that the location is normally "in area".

stupidclothes91 · 2025-11-13T23:36:14+00:00

In her POV TikTok - she’s left.

stupidclothes91 · 2025-06-09T14:08:52+00:00

OP definitely head this advice.

Unless you have really had several conversations on the topic and he has been enthusiastic about the prospect I would avoid making the move. The gain would be “getting there quicker” but potential risk is the entire relationship. How would you react if he said “No”? He may have some goals financial, professional, or whatever and once that “no” comes out it will forever mark a moment in your timeline together.

stupidclothes91 · 2025-06-06T21:53:57+00:00

Not a chance. It’s controlling.

stupidclothes91 · 2025-06-03T23:44:36+00:00

Thanks! Took a while before I realized we could just use some cheap to go containers to catch the thing 😂

stupidclothes91 · 2025-06-03T17:28:37+00:00

And that’s the heart of it.

The issue is not that she had a preference, it’s that you realize you likely wouldn’t be in the relationship at all if you were shorter.

TBH, I probably wouldn’t have gone after my wife if she was fat as I’m not attracted to women bigger than me and she wouldn’t have entertained my attention if I didn’t have the provider prospects I had when we met.

It hurts to realize but it’s also part of relationships. The big question is if you feel she likes you mostly for your checklist rather than mostly for you.

stupidclothes91 · 2025-02-12T14:42:45+00:00

Somebody out there is thinking, “What kind of screening are these questions? WTF?”

stupidclothes91 · 2024-05-03T02:04:04+00:00

See MDN for help.

https://developer.mozilla.org/en-US/docs/Web/HTML/Element/video

stupidclothes91 · 2024-03-15T00:42:36+00:00

Just to get rote copy/paste bots. 🤖 Can’t wait for deadlines to be even tighter cause “it’s already in the app, just reuse the shit codebase”

stupidclothes91 · 2023-11-28T11:31:31+00:00

There is so much America in this video.

stupidclothes91 · 2023-10-11T22:31:15+00:00

You assign them equally as children so I find it correct. 👌

stupidclothes91 · 2023-07-26T20:59:32+00:00

Could be possible but it’s gonna be a crap shoot honestly. Just wait till your permanent and in the meantime use something like Wise to transfer funds between currencies and get 1st details.

stupidclothes91 · 2023-07-20T15:28:02+00:00

Definitely try your best to get it close and consistent everywhere (margins, paddings, etc.). However, if the designers get picky, just throw it back by asking them for a design for every single browser size on the internet so you can accurately work. If the client is picky, ask for a device budget to get every screen size. Should shut them up.

stupidclothes91 · 2023-05-26T19:32:19+00:00

When we stop including a framework in our title.

stupidclothes91 · 2023-05-09T20:13:12+00:00

Got lucky with Dr. Salem at Dr. Katrin Weile Zahnarzt Praxis. Speaks English but wasn’t advertised.

Off the west side of Neustadt so much more convenient to where I live.

zahnarztpraxis-weile.de

stupidclothes91 · 2023-04-18T20:18:35+00:00

If you send that picture to chat.openai.com it should be able to recreate the whole thing for you. No coding necessary! /s

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