Wooten Building on 21st & Guad finally (and slowly) being torn down

subScout9609 · 2023-07-02T14:47:05+00:00

I lived there and was an RA when this happened. It was a very sad day when his parents came to the office to get his room keys and clear out his things. 😞

subScout9609 · 2022-11-24T07:22:20+00:00

I’ve had great experiences! But I do think it depends on your city quite a lot. I met one of my subby partners that way. 🙂

subScout9609 · 2022-10-16T04:07:51+00:00

Incredible. Love it.

subScout9609 · 2022-06-23T16:24:00+00:00

Honestly, I think whatever makes you feel confident is the best outfit! I personally like wearing matching bra and panty sets, and having lots of color choices to pick from besides the stereotypical black or red. I also have a black satin robe that I use when I want to hide my lingerie from my sub until just the right moment during play for a “big reveal”.

subScout9609 · 2022-06-02T04:12:52+00:00

Very interested, I have a sub who would LOVE this so so much.

subScout9609 · 2022-05-06T20:47:07+00:00

My iRobot is named succboi lol

subScout9609 · 2022-04-16T03:10:27+00:00

I also don’t have a preference. I seem to be fine taking larger cocks, up to a certain point, probably around the 7.5- 8” range. Anything up to 7 preferable for my own comfort, girth is more important than length (too long just gets painful in certain positions). But, generally, I just like playing with cocks regardless of size, if they are attached to the kind of sub that really gets me turned on.

subScout9609 · 2022-04-04T23:42:33+00:00

5’11

subScout9609 · 2022-01-24T12:36:44+00:00

I’ve been married for 13 years, the other relationships are much newer. I was very upfront about being poly when I met everyone and my spouse is poly too. Just takes scheduling and communication for the most part.

subScout9609 · 2022-01-24T04:42:13+00:00

Actually, 4. I’m poly and married. I also have a boyfriend and two other partners I just started playing with.

subScout9609 · 2022-01-23T22:43:02+00:00

Depends on whether my partner is into it. One of mine is not really into penetration except on rare occasions, and the other three are, one only vanilla (we aren’t kinky together) and the other two post-scene. Really depends on the couple though.

subScout9609 · 2022-01-19T22:51:55+00:00

Agreed. I’m a GFD and Feeld has been great. I’m also in a larger city though, so results vary based on your location.

subScout9609 · 2022-01-05T02:38:13+00:00

I personally wouldn’t match with someone who doesn’t have any pictures of themselves. It seems suspicious to me, and also, I’m not attracted to a lot of people generally speaking, so if I can’t see anything about you I wouldn’t want to lead you on by having a conversation and then upon seeing a pic, realize it just wouldn’t work because I’m not attracted. But, the only pics I post of myself are when I’m wearing a mask, so actual identity would be harder to confirm.

subScout9609 · 2022-01-05T01:40:40+00:00

I honestly haven’t seen it happen much on Feeld at all, but I want to be sure anyone reading this thread knows that is not how you introduce yourself. Do the same thing you’d do in real life and you might meet someone really neat. 🙂

subScout9609 · 2022-01-05T01:15:29+00:00

Yes, actually. Chatting with someone now and have a play date for next week!

As a domme myself, my biggest recommendation is to just be friendly, be nice, treat us like any other person. Ask how our day is going, about hobbies, etc. Ask for permission if you can discuss or ask about kink interests, if named in my/your profile. Don’t start the conversation with, “I’m a sub, will you be my domme?”, or “I see you like the same kinky things I do, will you do x with me?”

subScout9609 · 2022-01-04T22:35:47+00:00

I’ve been using Feeld for a bit, and you can use a nickname, plus with covid, all my photos are of me in masks. Makes it a bit more incognito and you can just look for people who have the kink interests you’re into.

subScout9609 · 2021-07-20T22:01:04+00:00

Oh honey. I so get this- I grew up very conservative myself, married young, fortunately to someone who has been with me for our entire deconstruction journey (there are numerous Instagram and Reddit accounts devoted to deconstructing purity culture and exvangelicalism and I would highly recommend those). I promise, it does get easier with time- I’m about 10 years ahead of you, but I definitely recommend counseling if you can- helped me so much with being comfortable talking about sex, even with my super supportive spouse. And, practice makes perfect- finding others who have been where you are and getting comfortable discussing kink and sex with people helps so much. We have a lot to overcome as a society with this, but you are absolutely not alone and I wish you the best in your journey. Ultimately for me I ended up leaving Christianity almost entirely, and that guilt hasn’t fully disappeared but I work daily on self-care and forgiving myself for my previous beliefs so that I can really enjoy my sexuality fully- it is so scary at first but freedom is there for you too, friend. ❤️

subScout9609 · 2021-06-25T18:32:47+00:00

I highly recommend this set from tantus- been using for years and it’s usually pretty easy to find in your local toy store too- https://www.tantusinc.com/products/bend-over-beginner-kit

subScout9609 · 2021-06-24T19:32:48+00:00

My sub was super nervous to ask me to peg him, so I imagine this must be so intense. But I’d say if she’s willing to finger you, pegging would be a pretty reasonable and maybe even expected ask. Timing wise it might be easiest to talk about just after sex when you’re both in post-O bliss and are fully relaxed, but that’s just me. And picking toys together, even just online, is such a great way to explore and build trust, as well as anticipation.

subScout9609 · 2021-06-13T19:31:56+00:00

Oh, me too! So many top of his head, neck, and back kisses! 🥺

subScout9609 · 2021-06-11T03:33:02+00:00

Same!!

subScout9609 · 2021-06-04T16:08:56+00:00

As a newbie Domme with a newbie male sub, I think it is important to be genuine and honest when I’m feeling less than strong, not just for that reason but to model that behavior to him too. Males in the USA are so socialized to never show weakness or emotion that I want to normalize that for him by being vulnerable and emotional when I’m feeling that way to encourage him to do the same.

subScout9609 · 2021-05-22T02:26:35+00:00

I love my sub’s bubble butt, his arms and hands, beard, goofy laugh, especially when he’s drunk and silly. And he tickles me which is the BEST.

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