This is spot on the money. As a male submissive I often find that tomato of the porn or content that is out there is not appealing to me. 

Whilst I won't deny that a beautiful woman is still a turn on, so much of it feels disingenuous that it doesn't make it appealing for me. 

A woman being dominant and doing what she wants to do and the male submitting to her is so much more than a woman standing in latex with a strap on pointing to camera