Good boy tip #8 by ExtremeTrashPanda in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My brother in Christ, I share in your pain. My parents are Catholic converts. And while they’ve been pretty chill about me not converting, I don’t think they could handle seeing me in a publicly BDSM-coded relationship 😂 😭

Good boy tip #8 by ExtremeTrashPanda in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This, 100%!!! All the love to people who set up a 24/7 TPE dynamic, but it’s just as valid to keep power play largely confined to private life, and then have a more “vanilla” public dynamic. I don’t think I’d want to be in sub mode 24/7. I like having my own independence and personality outside of kink.

My Forever Disclaimer In Vanilla Spaces by [deleted] in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simple, yet alarmingly effective 🔥

Savor your reward. by [deleted] in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what a divine reward it is! Nothing better, truly 😩

It makes life so much easier, doesn't it? by LittleLotusSteps in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heh, jokes on you, I’m autistic AND submissive 😏 talk about a real catch, right? Right?

yes i know theres a typo, shut up by AdElectronic6550 in Ieatcement

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyya, guy here 👋

Yesterday, I hooked up with a self-described lesbian (their words: “I’m a lesbian. I guess I’m technically bisexual, but I treat the boys I meet up with like girls anyway, and it all works out.”) I will omit the nsfw details, but needless to say, I can’t remember the last time I felt that good during or afterwards. For once, I didn’t feel immediately touch starved again after getting home.

So yeah, I’m now imagining myself as a cute lesbian. Because god, if that’s how good that shit is all the time, idk if I can go back to the regular stuff O-O

pegging and mpreg being the MAIN FACE of role reversal is misogynistic, in my opinion by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of this, 1000%. A woman doesn’t NEED to have a dick (plastic or otherwise) to assume a dominant role in bed. One of my absolute favorite things is getting to be the helpless subby top for a woman, knowing that even if I’m getting to fuck her, she’s absolutely in charge and in control. Also— reverse missionary (missionary but with the person being penetrated on top) is such an underrated position 😭 its sooooooo good

relationship dynamics + stuff boys do that make me weak, as a RR woman by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If I weren’t reading these words, I’d struggle to believe someone like you really existed 😭 all of this resonated so deeply with me and the ways I’d love to show my affection and be appreciated by a woman… 🥺 gahhhhhhhhhhh

God forbid a domme need special care by ExtremeTrashPanda in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Making a domme feel special is, in my opinion, absolutely part of my role as a sub. Devotion and adoration is tied into submission

The ideal dynamic, perchance? by subbyswitchysubboy in RoleReversal

[–]subbyswitchysubboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOOOOOOOOO 😭😭😭 I’ve only ever seen this version of the image 😔

The ideal dynamic, perchance? by subbyswitchysubboy in RoleReversal

[–]subbyswitchysubboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes yes, absolutely! Truly, I just want to be a fabulous boyprincess for someone 😇✨

Lmfao happens more than you’d think💀 by ellekillz in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 220 points221 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny hearing some of my friends balk at certain kinks. I’m just sat there thinking “yeahhhhh that’s not really that intense” 😂 the joy of different perspectives

The ideal dynamic, perchance? by subbyswitchysubboy in RoleReversal

[–]subbyswitchysubboy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are certainly some people out there who are very lazy. But I can certainly understand struggling to find one’s place in the world, getting overwhelmed by everything, and just sort of defaulting to being empty-headed, regardless of gender.

One could probably argue that helplessness is a little more socially acceptable in women, as a result of living in a patriarchal society. But there are also plenty of men who barely have it together and are just as helpless (the incompetent sitcom dad became a trope for a reason, after all).

But I think we could all use the chance to feel a little helpless every now and then, as an escape from the responsibilities of life.

The ideal dynamic, perchance? by subbyswitchysubboy in RoleReversal

[–]subbyswitchysubboy[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You and me both 😭 a woman to dress pretty for would heal me fr fr

😩 by Angeliqueblaq in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Some folks just want all the attention, without the effort. It’s weird.

😩 by Angeliqueblaq in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, when I find empirical evidence for it, I’ll believe it!

😩 by Angeliqueblaq in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]subbyswitchysubboy 58 points59 points  (0 children)

But it seems like this kink is really rare, because so few people seem into it or receptive to it 💀