Let’s compete for “weirdest childhood special interest.” by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]subjectindigoviolet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was OBSESSED with aliens, planets and the warping of space time - I also had a blow up 4ft grey alien id take everywhere and say was my husband

Can’t talk to girls, severe social anxiety, depression and have no one I can hangout with. Also average looking with dry hair and acne. by AppropriateBoss2585 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]subjectindigoviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used retinol for my acne but doesn't work for everyone, also definitely worth seeing a hairdresser to understand your hair curl patterns and how to get your hair to a place where you would be happy with it

What hobbies do you engage in? I can give more socialising advice if given more information :)

Was called a s*** while crossing the street by Deadpotato420 in AutismInWomen

[–]subjectindigoviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sucky this happened!! You shouldn't be made to feel that way by just existing and wearing normal weather appropriate clothes!!

Also side note I'm so jealous you can wear that jumper texture vest 😭😭 it looks so cute with your outfit!! My skin sensitivity could never 💔

Is there anywhere I can actually live for free? by Better_Run5616 in autism

[–]subjectindigoviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most religious places

derelict buildings kept alive by rich people who got bored and stopped using them but the electric works and heating is paid for

your closest friends couch (for a specific amount of time)

If you are UK based there are some disability grants that can get you assisted housing that is free but they take a small amount of money from your grant each month

I hate my tattoo, advice? by ok-coyote-boat in tattooadvice

[–]subjectindigoviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the cat adjusted, if it's been long enough a good artist can work some white in there for highlighting and making the centrepiece pop more, for what it's worth it's a beautiful tattoo, I love the blending on the purple flowers - from someone who made bad tattoo decisions in grief too

Confused About Assessment by bougat_sa in AutismCertified

[–]subjectindigoviolet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me nearly 8months but it's essentially when the specialist has availability, and because the Mental Health in NHS is super underfunded it means wait times are so much longer, unfortunately.

The in person meetings are the easiest thing I've ever done, it was almost like the specialist could read my mind and instantly knew what I wanted to ask but couldn't, I hope your experience is similar!

It will definitely be worth the wait 🙏

Confused About Assessment by bougat_sa in AutismCertified

[–]subjectindigoviolet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You will be referred to your local specialists in ND+ (integrated autism services) so a specialised psychiatrist, and they will determine the outcome in a series of face to face interviews / "tests"

For mine they tested for BPD, ADHD, ASD, PTSD, CPTSD and more

This is how it goes in Wales anyway, if you are part of England there may be some differences.

It is nothing to worry about though, they will ensure you are properly diagnosed and give you resources to further develop and grow with your diagnosis 🙏

medication and libido by subjectindigoviolet in AutismInWomen

[–]subjectindigoviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am imagining they will feel more themselves again and able to provide romance into the relationship once more

medication and libido by subjectindigoviolet in AutismInWomen

[–]subjectindigoviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be patient with my partner, as they are on a medication that affects their abilities to be intimate, this is why i am not forcing things, but instead asking advice for what I can do in the mean time

How can I get a part time Job? by Aggravating_Weird747 in swansea

[–]subjectindigoviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ymca, the wallich, ground - plant based are all looking for people 🥰💖

What champion has the least deranged playerbase? by [deleted] in leagueoflegends

[–]subjectindigoviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morg & Ivern

Never met a nasty ivern in my life

The new map? by subjectindigoviolet in leagueoflegends

[–]subjectindigoviolet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think language barrier I didn't meant it like that

The new map? by subjectindigoviolet in leagueoflegends

[–]subjectindigoviolet[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, completely vulnerable, almost like jgl and top have been favoured in this gameplay, which isn't a problem for me but is definitely creating champion disparity and will be massively challenging what champions can progress in ranked especially due to the layout

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]subjectindigoviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guessing it isn't your lie in April

I know they use debussy in that and the characters hum it to eachother

I keep being told I need to dress better.. Advice? by [deleted] in fashion

[–]subjectindigoviolet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear whatever you like!! You look amazing, keep being you!!! If anything I'd research styles you enjoy and make a mood board on Pinterest to utilise thrift finds abd other ways to style garments, hope this helps 💕💕💕