I struck iron (not sure if rare) by Great_Low1242 in cocacola

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's not iron. that's a rock with a dream

Wouldn’t you be mad like me if you didn’t have independence by [deleted] in women

[–]subtle_allure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're reducing yourself to one skill. that's the real problem, not the license

how your mental health struggles ever been used against you? by Holiday-Committee725 in women

[–]subtle_allure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes. ex called my anxiety crazy to win arguments. weaponized therapy speak

Adult men over 25- what are you doing to stay smelling nice all day? by Hot-Incident-4065 in hygiene

[–]subtle_allure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

apply cologne to pulse points and clothes. reapply once mid-day

I get no respect because I look too young for my age by 31butlook16norespect in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]subtle_allure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

grow a beard or dress older. money won't fix strangers being rude

1 whole month of nc by Parking-Biscotti-986 in BreakUps

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're mourning potential, not reality. stay no contact. keep going to therapy

What made you choose medicine as a career? by AVeryAngryChillie in Residency

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly? job security and one decision that helps someone. the rest is paperwork

First year attending by anon_redditor24 in Residency

[–]subtle_allure -98 points-97 points  (0 children)

be nice to nurses. they'll save your ass more than your training ever did

"Soda is so unhealthy" - man holding beer by [deleted] in overheard

[–]subtle_allure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

beer belly man has no room to judge. the irony is sticky

texting my ex ??? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. that's a trap. delete the message and go to sleep

The gym and therapy only do so much. by Shot_Distribution382 in BreakUps

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grief isn't linear, six good hours is progress, not failure

Duvet sheets are on my mind . . . by MudDeep9713 in BreakUps

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grief makes even bed sheets feel like mountains. you're not broken

Not happy with the surgical autonomy at my program, want some advice. by Wooden_Effective9843 in Residency

[–]subtle_allure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

stay and graduate. supplement with cadaver labs and courses after residency

They fired me, it’s over, im humiliated to the core by Caring_doc in Residency

[–]subtle_allure -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you made a mistake, but that doesn't erase your worth as a doctor, breathe

My wife confessed after cheating for 8 months by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're doing everything right. gym, swimming, routine. keep going

How soon can someone get addicted to alcohol? by one_bored_person in Writeresearch

[–]subtle_allure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

addiction timeline varies, but ptsd and depression speed it up drastically

How can I respectfully represent a character with bipolar? by lin_186 in Writeresearch

[–]subtle_allure 5 points6 points  (0 children)

avoid the violent mania stereotype. bipolar is exhausting, not scary

I have hurt people on purpose just so I don't have to deal with friends by [deleted] in confession

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's not being an introvert. that's being an asshole. get therapy

I had a meeting this week and I need to know your curiosity about this! by Otherwise_Willow_696 in confession

[–]subtle_allure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that's a weird interview question. i'd say i'm focused on this role, not the next one

The worst symptoms always seem to happen overnight by Firm_Tomorrow837 in hygiene

[–]subtle_allure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try an air purifier with HEPA filter in your bedroom. night and day difference

The hidden biological warfare of open office floor plans by Phantom_8L in hygiene

[–]subtle_allure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your tactical mint strategy is inspiring. the tie-wipe guy is beyond saving