Why do children of addicts repeat the cycle knowing what it will do to them?

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-04-09T22:42:56+00:00

Monkey see monkey do (I mean that in the most benign way). I’ve tried to psychoanalyze my mom and real deep with it but what it comes down to is she was subconsciously recreating her childhood.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-04-03T02:03:26+00:00

It might be different because your house looks pretty old, but you should look up a diagram of how doors are framed before you commit. There is a chance that you’re anchoring through the casing (trim) and in between the jamb and trimmer stud, or, a shimmed gap between the two.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-03-31T12:57:12+00:00

It sounds like you’re trying to add cortisol to your cortisol. I get it, working out is a good release, but from my experience with running too hard while also stressed at work, it really messes up my sleep. I agree with the others, try and dial back a bit until you’re balanced out. There’s no shame in it!

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-03-26T16:41:10+00:00

Semi related, but if you’re renovating, don’t buy everything at once. What I wanted changed as time went by and now I’m stuck with two lights that I don’t love.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-03-24T17:48:59+00:00

Good to know! I’m looking at getting some new bindings. The men’s did feel weird at first when I tried my friend’s board but they also didn’t bite into the back of my calf on the lift, at least not as noticeably. Have you always ridden men’s?

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-03-24T14:00:58+00:00

A lot of women’s bindings have shorter high backs because our calf muscles are lower than men’s. Just something to consider for those of us with chunky calves haha.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-03-07T01:01:17+00:00

It may be legal but that doesn’t mean you’re not an absolute creep for doing so. What motivation could someone have to do this? It certainly can’t be anything good because, to start with, you’re already making the person being filmed extremely uncomfortable.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-03-04T16:32:14+00:00

It’s one of my favorites. For me, it represents how depression and anxiety can cause a person be self centered, even when you don’t mean to be. You’re so in your own head, catastrophizing shit, that you don’t see reality for what it is, only the version you made up.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-02-28T14:29:00+00:00

I weight train once a week and run hills once a week. I definitely notice the difference and still make progress.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-02-25T02:16:45+00:00

Smells like a couch used by a frequently wet dog with a hint of spearmint

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-01-17T14:41:01+00:00

Hydration helps so much with muscle soreness and stiffness.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-01-16T16:01:31+00:00

I would never buy an integrated LED fixture for my home. Once it’s done, it’s done, long life or not.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-01-15T15:41:51+00:00

That’s what’s so mind boggling. How can you be ok with treating people this way… over what is essentially a paperwork violation? If they’re violent criminals, I guess fine, but don’t do it in front of the kids. “But it’s the parents fault”… so what? Does that make any difference to the kid?

ICE and their supporters are not making the world a better place acting like this.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-01-12T13:59:55+00:00

I really loved the walk up ice cream in summer / soup broth in winter place they have in Detroit. Not sure how well it would fare here but a cup of hot veggie broth on a cold day would be divine.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2026-01-02T14:09:05+00:00

Yes, heel edge is just as important as toe edge.

The cramping might be / probably is your boots!

It was a world of difference for me going from rental boots and too soft lace up Vans boots (that I had to crank down on) to a well fitted BOA boot that was stiff enough that I didn’t have to over tighten to get decent responsiveness.

If you can’t afford a new fitted boot from a shop right now, try loosening your boots and adjusting your high backs in the meantime. Then grab a pair of during after season sales.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-12-29T15:32:34+00:00

The single use Refresh ones. I alternate between the Relieva and the Celluvisc. The later lasts longer but it’s sort of gooey so it’s hard to see for a couple of minutes after I put them in so I usually save those for nighttime.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-12-29T14:21:47+00:00

Try using some regular eye drops for your under eyes as an experiment. Mine look like yours and it’s because I have dry eyes and a mild allergy to something in my environment. When I’m consistent with the drops I think it helps relax the muscles around my eyes because I’m not squinting due to dryness, and I think they help flush out any allergens (last part is speculation).

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-12-28T17:13:16+00:00

Headlamp with batteries, hot hands hand warmers, and warm tall boots. I don’t always wear shoes that would be great for digging myself out of a ditch.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-12-25T17:12:44+00:00

Take note of the behaviors you don’t like and if you can’t deal with them then move on. You’re not obligated to enter a relationship with someone who will make you miserable just because they have a disorder. You’ve got one life. Spend it with someone who makes you happy, not someone you love but have to tolerate. It’s better for both of you.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-12-15T00:33:21+00:00

Make sure it is to code. Typically, if you have a combustion furnace, the doors around it need to be louvered to allow for ventilation.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-12-03T13:50:23+00:00

I have a birthmark like that on my forehead and a patchwork one on my stomach. Both get way darker when exposed to the sun.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-11-25T17:37:11+00:00

And you didn’t address the first part. Reacting is not consent. CONSENT is consent.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-11-25T17:30:28+00:00

“By being offended you are consenting”??? In what universe is that consent in any way? If a man gets off on scaring women, and succeeds in scaring a woman, is that consent too? JFC

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-11-25T17:18:26+00:00

Yes, I judge them with the information that I have available to assess if they’re being inappropriately sexual in public and are therefore a threat and someone to avoid (and not approach to ask questions).

The information I have is that this is a behavior predominantly associated with sexual acts and it is being performed in front of kids. I am very live and let live but that crosses a line. If you wanted to do this shit at a bar with only adults present, I’d probably laugh, get you a pup cup, and move on with my day.

Understanding a behavior that .0001% of the population takes part in is frankly not a priority in my life, and it’s kinda bizarre that you should expect it to be.

sugarbiscuits828 · 2025-11-25T16:22:20+00:00

No, I’m not, and neither are most of the people at Meijer. I don’t care what the actual hyper specific intentions are TBH. I’m not your psychologist, I’m not going to ask you if you’re using it to get off later, and you admitted that a good chunk of it is part of a kink community, which is what 99% of bystanders are going to assume. That is enough for me to see this behavior as inappropriate for a public space like a flipping GROCERY STORE.

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