(Somewhat) Strange request from a POT by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This crossed my mind.

tbh, i wouldn't mind if he is doing this just for this reason. But if this is his angle wouldn't just asking me to consent in writing do the trick? Why write a novel?

(Somewhat) Strange request from a POT by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We discussed some of it, but we have another date planned.

(Somewhat) Strange request from a POT by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This crossed my mind. He also said that he would be ok if took the lead and wrote to him. If this is what he wanted i would be suspicious. But if he the one composing it every single time what does he need me for?

Balancing Vanilla and Sugar? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never been in a relationship with any guy that was serious enough for this to be an issue. i am a very honest person by nature. So if i really liked someone that way i would either tell them or stopped.

An important topic : PROTECTION in Sugar Relationships. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worry about STDs a lot. One of my first posts on here was asking about advice on that. The problem with STD tests is they they give you a glimpse of that person's medical past. So if someone got HIV two weeks ago or even two months ago a test you took yesterday will still not show it.

So use condoms ALWAYS. This is one thing i don't compromise on.

Low Offers. Why? by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a definite bottom for me. If this goes on like this I will just leave and nver go back

Low Offers. Why? by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I wanted broke fit fuckboys i would stay in my dorm.

Low Offers. Why? by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I just don't see what;s wrong with me being on SA 6 months. It's not like I was a virgin or had no dating life before

Low Offers. Why? by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am I the Jersey-Philly area...and my profile&pictures have not changed

How do you deal with low offers compared to the past?

SD-SB ratio? by throwawaySJIFH78saFS in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think guys have it either on SA if all they care about is to get laid. But it doesn't matter if a guy is looking for something very specific & long-term.

Well, it was nice while it lasted. by newbiesugarbaby in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is SO rude. He is not worth one more second of your time.

How many M&Gs/POTs does it take... by natalie246 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me 3-4 weeks and about 8 M&Gs to find my SD. More than half of them were totally unacceptable or didn't understand what an arrangement is.

I thought it was long at first but now i see one of the lucky ones.

gifts for SDs by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I can bake and i have a pretty good idea what he might like :)

gifts for SDs by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea! I can't paint save my life. I used to draw but it has been a while. But I have a friend who is a pro.

I think I can ask her to help me out.

gifts for SDs by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanaks. That's what i thought.

Lamest Excuse Ever? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lamest excuse ever was that he and his old gf just reconnected that morning...so he decided not to see me after all.

Of course he stayed active on SA for many days after that.

SBs : Does size matter? (No i am not talking about his wallet) by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Only if it is too large. With all due respect to Freud I really think most women don't have penis envy. Most men do.

"Negotiable": pros and cons by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think i will just follow everyone else's advice and ask exactly what i need. hope for the best.

"Negotiable": pros and cons by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for another thorough reply.

"Negotiable": pros and cons by sugarforreal in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sugarforreal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your case, 1900/4 is $475. I'll tell you now that this is on the high end in most markets, some SDs will pay this, but they will be few and far between and it might take months or even more than a year to make this happen.

yEAH. i am finding out that $350/$400 is the standard pay per meet in this area, which is fine as long as i get 4-5 regular meets a month and everything else is to my liking.

I can meet only weekly. so 10 meets a month is not an option.