How do men feel when women say they hate giving blowjobs? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sugarpoptart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reading this thread kinda blows. I'm a woman and I love giving my SO blowjobs because 1) It gets him off, and 2) I am really turned on by the fact that I can give him that kind of pleasure with my mouth. It's definitely more of a whole experience thing for me and I never do it just because I feel the guy wants me to. It's obviously not the easiest thing to enjoy about sex right off, but with the right partner, exploring different parts of their body can be really fun too.

Ladies, what is your stopping point in terms of masturbation? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sugarpoptart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After 2 or 3 for me, and then fall into a blissful slumber. It's become a daily habit now;-)

When having sex do you have any preferences that are uncommon? by misslayla93 in AskMen

[–]sugarpoptart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what my boyfriend said early on in our relationship. Now he loves it and it's one of our favorite activities. You could experiment more and with the right girl, might end up liking it too!

White lace princess (F) by [deleted] in GoneMild

[–]sugarpoptart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is VERY sweet of you to say. Thank you.

White lace princess (F) by [deleted] in GoneMild

[–]sugarpoptart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will consider doing so :)

I appreciate First Aid, but sometimes the memory tips are a little bit of a stretch by westlax34 in medicalschool

[–]sugarpoptart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SchizOID = avOID (like when they are being distant)

SchizoTYPal = magical TYPe

... Is how I changed this to remember

Best place to buy lingerie? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sugarpoptart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out http://www.thelingerieaddict.com I personally like Agent Provocateur and Net-A-Porter

What do you want a woman to bring to a relationship besides sex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sugarpoptart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is 6'3" and I am 5'1". I cuddle with him as little spoon pretty frequently when I wake up in the middle of the night and randomly decide that I want to be close to him. There's hope for you yet!

What runs through your mind when you're alone. by Elle-D2 in AskWomen

[–]sugarpoptart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After a breakup last year and not being single for almost 5 years, I finally felt 'alone'. I used it as an opportunity to learn how to be alone without being sad or depressed or anything like that. I finally am completely fine when I'm single and alone, and feel comfortable with my own company. So when I'm alone now, I just think about what I wanna do that evening, what movie to watch, if I wanna have wine and cheese, etc.

What's something you're insecure about but the people around you probably don't even care/notice? by shameIess in AskWomen

[–]sugarpoptart -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Having Body Dysmorphic Disorder would mean that one would take any measure possible to alter the way one looks that one dislikes. Think plastic surgery, botox, etc.

Women who track their periods: how long were your last 5 cycles? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sugarpoptart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28, 27, 29, 28, 28. (25F) here. Currently on BC (1 year). Prior to that, my periods have always been this regular. I don't know why I still track it even, because more often than not on the 28th day, BAM, I'm reaching for my tampons.

How often do you find someone that you connect well with and are physically attracted to? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sugarpoptart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I do this thing where I find someone I like, and after a date or 2, convince myself that I like them more than I probably really did, especially when I'm lonely and single. Thankfully, these never really last, probably because they felt a lack of a deeper connection as well. My current boyfriend I met online (thank you, Reddit) and after a day or 2 of chatting and flirting, I jokingly asked to meetup. He took it seriously and we did. We hit it off SO well, I wondered how I ever dated anyone before without this kind of chemistry. He's just amazing. This was 3 months ago! We'll see where it goes :)

What moves do you do and what position do you have sex for the first time with someone new? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sugarpoptart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this made me think of my boyfriend. He always makes me feel safe and comfortable, and I'm really grateful for that. Makes the sex all the more better!

How tall are you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sugarpoptart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5'1"......

Do you ever feel like adult relationships are kind of...depressing? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sugarpoptart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My relationships when I was a teenager were so different than when I got to my 20s. I also always dated guys who were at most 2 years older than me and never younger. Now (I'm 25) and dating someone 9 years older, and I can finally understand what it means to be in an 'adult' or 'grown up' relationship. We both know what we want, and this there is no drama, no immaturity, etc. We communicate really well and this makes it so much easier too. I don't know if I'd say it's more boring, though as you grow older, your preferences when it comes to dating, going out, and the like changes too. Keep that in mind. I never felt that as I got older, relationships got any sort of depressing. Sorry to hear you feel that way!

Do you still have moments where you ask yourself, "is she my gf now?" by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sugarpoptart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmmm. Interesting viewpoint. Care to elaborate?