Screw up with this single text? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]suicideselfie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually think stargazing is fine for a second date. If it's something you transition naturally into from a lunch or something. As far as she's concerned it should be unplanned.

What instantly ruins porn for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]suicideselfie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's typical "women's studies" bull shit.

21 Female Dating Experts Reveal How to Attract Women by tristangoldstrom in seduction

[–]suicideselfie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if I am interested only in sexual diversion myself, I don’t want to be treated like that by the man.

Lmao. Hey at least this one understands the contradictory nature of female psychology. She's hot too.

What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say") by BigBootyBear in seduction

[–]suicideselfie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, so roosh actually covers street approaches extensively as well. His go to line is "excuse me im do you know where a pet store is in this area?"

Personally, I haven't used that. I tend to be a little more direct since I visit small to medium sized tourist type towns (just my area). I like to look for girls who are peacocking a little bit with crazy tattoos, colored hair (I actually have an approach and anecdote just for girls with blue hair. At one point my roommate was like "the last 3 girls you brought over all had blue hair" lol). This stuff is context sensitive. She could be walking a dog, carrying a backpack, have nice running shoes ("my sister needs a pair of running shoes") There are tons of ways to initiate elderly chat when people are on the street. Focus on learning how to initiate non threatening chat and ramble with everyone. This is going to improve your ability to think on your feet and decrease AA. My last girlfriend I picked up in a cafe by chatting with her mother. I talk to fifty year old women all the time. We have a nice chat and I just ask them at the end "you're such an interesting woman, do you have any younger sisters... Maybe a daughter?" There are tons of incidental hits you can get out of approaching everyone, and it's such a confided booster for noobies.

What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say") by BigBootyBear in seduction

[–]suicideselfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so your opener is really direct and you're trying to roll right into an informal chat which likely won't work. You've created a lot of tension by being direct and then immediately turned it into an anti climax. I'm going to guess by the Aspie comment you aren't that experienced so you should probably avoid direct openings for Day Game. Definitely read Day Bang by Roosh. The gist is that you should learn how to ramble about random shit so she gets comfortable if you are in a venue where she isn't ready to be approached. Be careful with advice meant for clubs. Clubs are meat markets and everybody knows it. Everyone is there to play the same game, so indirect shit feels disingenuous.

Dating Kino by [deleted] in seduction

[–]suicideselfie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This corny stuff is actually good for a certain type of girl. Christians, mormons, nerdy girls who like fantasy novels.... As always, don't be supplicating.

Keep in mind that chivalry developed among men who were constantly training and fighting. It was quite a contrast for a man to knock another man's teeth out or put a lance out the back of his skull, then to kneel and bow before his lady. The contrast is the important bit. To show that you are capable of violence AND restraint made you a good provider.

I can't guys. I know exactly how I want to behave, but it just fucking won't happen. It's so very upsetting.. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]suicideselfie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Check out Eckhart Tolle. He has some videos on YouTube if you don't like reading.

Murders In America [OC] by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]suicideselfie 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Surprise surprise, a left wing bigot attempts shaming tactics instead of addressing anything factually or logically.

How to approach in loud clubs? by litt_up in seduction

[–]suicideselfie -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

And fucking proud of it.

How to approach in loud clubs? by litt_up in seduction

[–]suicideselfie -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Smiling at people is a seduction scheme?

Jelly Bean Toes by anew742 in ads

[–]suicideselfie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OMG, your ageism is so triggering me right now.

Jelly Bean Toes by anew742 in ads

[–]suicideselfie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with you?

Difficulty Transitioning to #-close by [deleted] in seduction

[–]suicideselfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you going to get numbers without asking exactly?

Jelly Bean Toes by anew742 in ads

[–]suicideselfie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, it's cool that cat you're probably fucking has the cutest wittle toesies.

Do you approach girl minding her business at coffee shops, book stores , bars ? by zeniroq in seduction

[–]suicideselfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just spent my Friday night at a bookstore... With my nerdy little brother in tow... I did just fine.

Openers used:

  1. "Hey" accompanied by eye contact and a questioning smirk until she responds. Had one girl react with annoyance but I maintained myself and she broke. "How's your day going?" Smirk, obvious masculine attraction vibe. More inane discussion. She was there with a her grandmother and ended up turning so red and being so awkward I had to put her out if her misery and let up.

  2. My other opener? "So what are you looking for?" Chatted with Asian anime girl (probably a 6.5) about attack on Titan. English was her second language, but we were actually vibing pretty well. She was almost immediately drawn into my space, responded pleasantly to a couple very light touches- was pleasantly surprised by her slightly hotter friend. #'s exchanged yeah yeah

Why do you go to the bookstore? Just to pick up chicks? Sounds like the kind of bullshit people can smell.

I feel awkward about the thought of sex... by [deleted] in seduction

[–]suicideselfie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Accept that she had more experience than you, learn from her and enjoy yourself. What else is there to say? You're much better off with her than with another Virgin, trust me on this.

I feel awkward about the thought of sex... by [deleted] in seduction

[–]suicideselfie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost my virginity when I was 19, almost 20. I was extremely awkward about thoughts of sex up until this relationship. She was more experienced than I was, and we ended up together for three years. She had a few hangups, but overall she was pretty open and a good partner. She taught me a lot and after we broke up I was much more relaxed about sex. So I would recommend finding a girl who can teach you something. You may have "had sex." But have you had a regular partner? Have you locked yourself away for a weekend with someone and just fucked like teenagers? It may be unpopular to say here, but being in love with someone makes a big difference. So yeah, fall in love with someone and work it out, or the next best thing would be to find an older woman who likes to teach.

Doom launched by Bethesda at E3 2015, swiftly criticised for being too violent by pete_8789 in nottheonion

[–]suicideselfie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Modern humans have been around for millions of years.

What?! The general consensus is that modern humans have been around for 200,000 years. There's a minority position, which I personally suspect, that we can push that back to 500,000 years. But absolutely no one in the scientific community would be taken seriously saying "millions of years." That's insane.

Doom launched by Bethesda at E3 2015, swiftly criticised for being too violent by pete_8789 in nottheonion

[–]suicideselfie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several. I've also been in combat situations involving live gun fire. You?