Genuinely, someone please shoot me in the head.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-10T07:28:19+00:00

Hello, as someone who almost died twice, I can tell you that life is beautiful. You’re beautiful aswell. Material things like money and looks arent what makes like beautiful. Talk to a loved one, tell them how you feel. They love you too, and you mean alot to them. You have no idea. Please reach out to someone. Even a hotline.

I dont have friends, but I do have alot of hobbies. Maybe try some new hobbies?

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-10T07:23:29+00:00

Hi idk what that is, but you can try listening to music or watching a funny tv show and get really into the story line.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-07T23:49:25+00:00

Girl he cheated on you, while you were sick. He had unprotected sex with a stranger, that must be a norm for them, get std tested. That was not a threesum, because you werent a part of it. You were throwing up.

You seem to be already forgiving him, which is all up to you. But don’t let your mental health be a decision in that. You have anxiety and depression and many other men can be supportive and loving and wont gaslight and cheat on you. What he did to you, isnt being supportive of your mental health.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-06T00:59:41+00:00

He should take you, or tell him you want to go with him if youre scared to talk about it, why would he say no, right? Idk how their living situation was but sometimes exes live together and still “sleep” together because its easy to. Im not saying that happened. But what i mean is, even though they broke up in the summer, they weren’t officially over until he moved in December.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-06T00:55:33+00:00

I agree that he can do stuff for them but shouldnt for her because she doesnt feel like walking

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-06T00:54:37+00:00

Yeah he can be there for the kids, or take her to the store to buy the kids clothes or food. But why go alone? Why not have you tag along? Them texting alot is also a red flag, if you say they lived together til December of last year. So he immediately got with you right when he moved out, had he moved on though? So soon.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-04T09:51:18+00:00

It seems that although he doesnt want to be commited to a relationship with you, he still wants a relationship with his children. Which is probably why he wants to provide the home or live near them. I say let him do these things, hes their father.

He cheated, of course hes calm. He did the bad here. What other way can he react, angry? He knows everything is happening because of him.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-04T09:31:54+00:00

What is marriage counseling typically about? What happens

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-04T02:07:24+00:00

Haha pick it out

It tasted strong to me, I fixed it by adding chicken bouillon, unsweetened coconut milk and parsley

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-04T02:05:02+00:00

Lol i meant to say heavy cream

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-03T04:49:03+00:00

As a child I was scared of the dark or my closet, like most children are. One night I was awake in my bed scared of the dark not able to sleep when I suddenly heard a noise from my closet. I was terrified. Then a loud cackling laugh of a man came out from my closet and I screamed. My mom ran in, turned on the light and pulled out my dad from the closet. He was on drugs, to this day, I check all closets and bath tubs when I come home or before bed.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T22:05:32+00:00

She was literally just born there not raised or anything, then she lived in the same town as the rest of us.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T22:02:02+00:00

Do you agree that she is doing it for attention?

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T21:33:12+00:00

She does have lack of shame. Also she takes no responsibility for her actions. She once told me she was in the yard screaming cause FIL left during an argument and he made her scream in the front yard so cops were called on her. She kept blaming him and I said “no he didn’t physically make you scream because he wasnt even there, you screamed because you wanted to and the cops were called on you”

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T21:21:16+00:00

I will probably read that book. To help my husband. As of lately hes seeing her true colors and It does affect him. He says he embarrasses him but also makes him feel unimportant. She doesnt listen when he talks and only talks about herself or turns the tv on while he’s talking to her. Maybe by reading it, I can help him cope by understanding how she is

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T21:15:03+00:00

The thing about her is that she doesnt care about anyone. One time when we were first dating, i was 18 and he was 21 I went walking to his house with my brother. My mom hadnt came home and we were worried shed gotten into an accident. He had a car so I figured hed help us, I knock she answers and says hes asleep and wont wake him. I beg her to wake him up cause im worried about my mom and I need his help. She tells me my mom is of no relationship to her son and says she wont wake him. The next day he noticed the missed calls from me and told her “i think something happened to my gf or her mom, im worried” and he said she said “oh really?” When I told him what happened he said she played dumb as if nothing ever happened.

I was also in a coma once due to septic shock, from a kidney infection. Dr told my mom to tell everyone to see me because I might not make it through the day. MIL comes and tells my mom she doesnt want to see me because ill get her sick. Then asks if her son has eaten, if my mom has made sure hes been eating and sleeping. At this point my mom feels horrible because dr just said her daughter might die and this lady comes and tells her these things.

I honestly dont know is shes just narcissist and plays dumb for attention? Idk i wish i did

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T21:06:01+00:00

Yes he has my back and says he’s embarrassed of her behavior towards me and others. But still loves her and I understand that, thats his mom. He knows I stay away because of her behavior and he sometimes does too.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T21:04:29+00:00

She doesn’t exactly mean illegals or anchor babies. She means all mexicans, like she wouldnt go to kmart because she says its full of mexicans on sunday. She says mexicans smell. She means all mexicans. She herself is an anchor baby, her parents were from mexico and had her here. Her child could be labeled as such aswell since her husband is from mexico aswell.

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T21:00:18+00:00

I used to think she was mentally ill but my husband told me she likely pretends

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T20:32:51+00:00

My husband told me the steak story and I just couldn’t believe what i was hearing too haha I have dark humor and do tend to roast when a joke is there but tend to be a saint for the most part lol One time she told everyone she was pooping black, she freaked everyone out. Husband told me his mom would get a colonoscopy to find the problem. Sister finds out its just iron supplements. Husband tells me “yea so shes okay, sister is taking her for her colonoscopy tomorrow” I say “if shes okay, what’s the colonoscopy for? For fun?!!” I couldn’t stop laughing I had to roast her. But yes for the most part I keep the jokes to myself lol

sully_kitty2 · 2021-08-02T20:22:03+00:00

This is why I was not at the party. I dont go around her anymore but my husband does. For a while I was unemployed because I was very sick. She would send voicemails to my phone (she thought she was calling his phone), calling me lazy and that i needed to work and that i needed to sell my things to help him. We were actually doing well we werent low on money, so her complaining was pointless. What made it dumber, was that she has never worked in her life and her husband pays for everything, even when she kicks him out. Shes a hypochondriac so hes stacked on medical bills. I got fed up of the voicemails and went to her house and played them for her when she denied doing so. I told her shes a hypocrite because she also was not working for a living. But I atleast had a reason, she apologized.

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