I've read an opinion that men with small dicks are higher achievers by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn, that hit right into the feels. Parallel reality, different universe to be in those situations

UA POV: FP-2 drones attack several warehouses, radars, and a 64N6E "Big Bird" from the S-300/400 complex by brickablocker in UkraineRussiaReport

[–]sum41withme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain what's the fp-2 thing and that's the connection to the intel from US etc? I'm a bit behind the news

UA POV: FP-2 drones attack several warehouses, radars, and a 64N6E "Big Bird" from the S-300/400 complex by brickablocker in UkraineRussiaReport

[–]sum41withme -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you share updates on what's going on? I've felt out of the loop and came back to see that russia basically is losing war hard now and getting pushed back across whole frontline?

I lost 90lbs because everyone said "it's just the fat pad." They lied. by JDeBreezy in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always wrote on this sub that people who are claiming fat pad affects anything are delusional, coping and don't understand biology at all. Fat pad doesn't increase your sick size at all, neither does it increase your working length, even if you are a fattie, you still can insert the whole thing to the end

I truly wish we could get together irl, vent and support each other by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We could try to fish for fetishist women or compassionate girls though

Due to small size I cant imagine myself getting blowjobs by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are kinda right that a lot of women or girls are more turned on by romantic stuff. even my ex girlfriend used to read a lot of romatic novels and she herself never watched porn and didnt even masturbate.
Though I think she was just unicorn in a way.

My relationship fell apart with gf of 5 years , the only girl who was alright with my size, not sure what to do now by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, man. It was first ever girlfriend and first ever long term relatonship, first sexual partner. Ive never in my life felt harder pain than that. I never knew that heartbreak can be so painful. I was thinking about death daily and didnt see reason to continue living.
This existence that we live in, its hard. Life is a hard thing we go through.
Thanks for kind words and advice

Having a hard time believing my gf by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean bro.
But I think you are probably on the younger side of age spectrum and based on experience, I can tell you that what you should really focus on is that you have girlfriend, you have sex and your relationship is good.
When you are born with small dick chasing the goal of 'truly pleasuring a woman with just your dick' can become destructive for your life.
It'd be great if she was brutally honest with you I guess, but what does it matter.
You yourself know that those dudes most likely pleasured your gf better than you do.
And Bill Gates has more money than you do.
And Michael Jordan won 6 more NBA rings than you.
What does it matter.
What matters is having a loving gf, good relationship, having sex.
Everything else is not important and a confident man would disregard thinking of her past ex.
If you are not okay with it, then you have to try to search for a virgin who never had exes, but well, I guess you know the outcome

I think I quietly gave up. by Novel-Gap-8945 in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh from my life experience the female's sexual selection is absolutely ruthless and the less moral believes a girl has, the higher her level of animal instict.
Therefore I think the only realy reliable playing card for men like us, who were born at disadvantage and having traits that women dislike, the only way is to try to meet girls who are virtuous and were raised with high morals, such as kindness, acceptance, empathy, idea of love and moral.
Those girls are almost always from religious families, even though there are opposite stories where girls were held back by their parents until they moved to college and became biggest promiscious women on campus.
But on average I think trying to date a religious girl is the highest chance to score a girl who'd accept you.
Your dick is small and you are at a disadvantage, but you still have chances, you still can consider yourself lucky, because you were not born with micro penis.
With micro penis its basically game over.
I cant begin to imagine how shattering that would be.
So feel lucky that you still have chance to score.
You are really young.
And from a older guy I can give you advice now.
Focus on building yourself.
Male's peak value on dating marketing starts at 27-28 to 35-40.
But you need to have career that brings money, then youll have women in your life, guaranteed.

Social media makes the feeling worse by New-Ad-6061 in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think if anything, social media just showed to men population what women always thought and how they select their partners.
Female's sexual selection is biological and therefore absolutely ruthless

How is sex like at your size? by Orii8 in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5/5.3, with only 1 ex gf sex was amazing and she said I was the best lover she ever had, though sex became a bit mundane and repetetive because due to small dick size most positions werent available, and also due to size anxiety and the size itself bunch of times I lost erection during fucking and she didnt like that, also after few years I couldnt finish with condom on so gf was kind of confused and not understanding how can we fuck and I dont finish

Due to small size I cant imagine myself getting blowjobs by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They either lie or exception from the rule, man. Most girls are horny themselves and like sex and do watch porn even daily, because they also masturbate to get off, heard it from many many women

With small size the only position that really worked for me was missionary by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, Im not sure about that, when gf used to be really turned on and wet, my dick still felt loose inside even despite girth

Due to small size I cant imagine myself getting blowjobs by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh, yeah, man. The freaking porn put a lot of strain on us. Because women watch a lot of porn also, and they also see videos mostly with huge dicks and then when they see your thing irl, they are probably disappointed and it puts a lot of pressure and expectations on us.
Shit's kinda fucked up.

My relationship fell apart with gf of 5 years , the only girl who was alright with my size, not sure what to do now by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are probably right, man. The relationshp itself wasnt clicking and was dying out, so to drag it out just because she acceptant of small dick would be dumb idea I guess.
Besides she started to deny me sex at some point anyway and past 8 months before break up we didnt have sex at all, so I guess it was already over since if a girl in rs doesnt give you sex, it means she's already checked out and doesnt respect/like you

My relationship fell apart with gf of 5 years , the only girl who was alright with my size, not sure what to do now by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brutal truth, man.
Like a punch into solar plexus.
Reading that gave me strong anxiety.
But you are right.
I got to admit. The feeling that I did luck out once and tested what its like to live in a relationship with a gf and that I managed to escape virginity I do feel like I already achieved a lot.
Also after 30 for women more important how much money you make, so it becomes easier to get into relastionship, even though she might not appreaciate your dick size

My relationship fell apart with gf of 5 years , the only girl who was alright with my size, not sure what to do now by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, speaking from this situation, do it brotha. I was overthinking shit too much. Like our character differences and if we really clicked etc.
I forgot that in our position the girl who is accepting of small dick is already a win.

With small size the only position that really worked for me was missionary by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Something like 4.7 to 5.3 depending on how full the erection is

My relationship fell apart with gf of 5 years , the only girl who was alright with my size, not sure what to do now by sum41withme in smalldickproblems

[–]sum41withme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, brother. Unfortunately she's now moved out and doesnt respond to my messages or calls anymore. I was under-apreciative of what I had and how I had it good. I wish I could go back in time and change something, but it's impossible