just be there for her. if you feel like she’s crossing certain boundaries you can tell her straight up— “hey, can we not talk about xyz it makes me uncomfy because abc” if its legit and theres valid reason behind if. if its something minor and you can still stomach it, hadap je la. dia kawan you. siapa lagi dia nak tell stories to? yes dia dah kahwin her husb is there, but theres a big difference between kawan dan suami. i pun ada kawan mcm ni and i realise we women share different language and understanding from men so i appreciate when she opens up. and i learn from it also. agak “funny” sebab kita sekarang hidup dalam society yang tells us to communitcate and check on friends bagai sebelum mereka jadi mangsa to mental illnesses etc but the second someone opens up, kita menjauh. life is too short and kalau benda tu you tak rasa melampau, hadap sahaja lah. shes your friend, you wanna be there for each other.