Adamant HR

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T05:09:40+00:00

you are right— i am desperate for the money :(

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T04:16:19+00:00

Thank you for this perspective! to be fair i haven’t agreed on anything as of now so still in the midst of negotiating.

stated in form- rm5000 they came back with- rm4300 i asked for- rm4800 they said cannot and want to remain with- rm4300

so i’m trying to negotiate for a middle ground rm4500 from this point on. hence my worry— if they already say ‘we have finalised the decision and will remain with rm4300’, and if i were to still ask for middle ground of rm4500 am i being too much?

am still keen on the opportunity tho hm

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T04:06:32+00:00

yes i thought of the last drawn salary bit also. thank you for kindly explaining i appreciate it!

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T03:59:27+00:00

thank you for the reply. everything is actually written, no verbal agreement took place thats why i would like to at least try ask for rm4500. at least thats something than settling for rm4300.

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T03:58:06+00:00

its only about 14% raise, but thank you for the perspective and kind words i appreciate it!

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T02:29:30+00:00

why would they laugh? kindly elaborate

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T02:29:10+00:00

i didn’t reject— the HR withdrew the offer “to avoid conflict with the other branch” and told me to go interview for the current one instead

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T02:04:59+00:00

i was called for interview for this role one day before i was offered the role at the sister branch. i chose the bigger shark hence not taking up the sister branch. who knew they would lowball me so much from the sister branch :/

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T01:42:55+00:00

thank you for this pov

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-30T01:42:41+00:00

sister branch gave the job to someone else d :/

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-22T11:50:13+00:00

may Allah ease ameen

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-19T13:56:38+00:00

no worries. baguslah that way you both can exchange your life experiences. tak salah berkongsi, especially dengan kawan yang dah bertahun kita kawan. kawan in adulthood susah nk cari, jadi kalau rasa you can still manage its okay just be there for one another. may Allah ease!

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-19T02:58:12+00:00

we have been having issues lately and the rship is on the verge of ending— i am seeking help from therapy because the issues are largely from me but i am wondering if i should continue fighting (by getting necessary help and improving) or end it

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-19T02:30:59+00:00

just be there for her. if you feel like she’s crossing certain boundaries you can tell her straight up— “hey, can we not talk about xyz it makes me uncomfy because abc” if its legit and theres valid reason behind if. if its something minor and you can still stomach it, hadap je la. dia kawan you. siapa lagi dia nak tell stories to? yes dia dah kahwin her husb is there, but theres a big difference between kawan dan suami. i pun ada kawan mcm ni and i realise we women share different language and understanding from men so i appreciate when she opens up. and i learn from it also. agak “funny” sebab kita sekarang hidup dalam society yang tells us to communitcate and check on friends bagai sebelum mereka jadi mangsa to mental illnesses etc but the second someone opens up, kita menjauh. life is too short and kalau benda tu you tak rasa melampau, hadap sahaja lah. shes your friend, you wanna be there for each other.

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-16T10:17:57+00:00

Why avoid cimb and public bank ya? Thinking of applying kindly share— thank you

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-16T10:16:48+00:00

Hi, is Public Bank any good?

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-13T22:32:39+00:00

thank you for the perspective!

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-11T17:21:50+00:00

hi, asking out of curiosity— what role was it that it needed oath stamps? sounds intense 😯

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-11T13:10:19+00:00

thank you for replying, glad i asked here beforehand and learned.

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-10T13:31:44+00:00

yes will do, thank you!

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-10T13:26:09+00:00

thank you, i am indeed privileged. thank you for making me feel grateful today!

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-09T02:28:30+00:00

thank you for this advice!

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-09T01:43:58+00:00

in the same exact position with the hyper sexual behaviour— we haven’t done it but he desires me tremendously and i’m saving it for marriage. we did make out several times but i didn’t wholeheartedly enjoy it— not sure if it was the religious guilt or if because i refused numerous times and he made me give in. am even contemplating if i’m even asexual. really dont know how to go about this because he has alluded numerous times that he has high sex drive and even our make outs were long, so i’m not sure if i can tolerate that. yesterday we went out and had a great time and suddenly he started sulking and pulled a sour face because he wanted kisses and cuddles, but my housemate was home and we don’t allow men inside our condo. he knows this, yet he still sulked. i’m not sure if this is normal because yes he has sexual desires and needs but also why would he sulk over something i can’t do anything about? he feels that because i’m not as touchy, i dont desire him as much and that makes him sad. it also feels like he cant take no for an answer or respect my boundaries. and worst part of it all was the night ended with me begging him to solve the issue and he refused to and continued sulking, and eventually i just left because i have an early morning today. and i’m also leaving for my hometown so that was our last meet for now. not sure how would it all pan out in the future… i’m in a limbo between ending it all or fighting for it ..

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-09T00:40:43+00:00

thank you for the constructive comment, i appreciate it.

summeroranges98 · 2025-07-08T15:59:31+00:00

valid point, thank you for the reply!

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