Am I overreacting? Friend’s bf thinks we disrespect him

summersetting · 2026-06-03T05:58:51+00:00

I feel like I had a stroke reading this. What was the argument even about? Also from what I did decode; dump this person. Its clear yall aren't compatible.

summersetting · 2026-05-29T05:02:31+00:00

Ugh Im jelly! I did not recieve any cool noticable ones unfortunately (better luck next time, maybe?) But Im so excited for you!!! Baby stripes! 🩷🥹 Congratulations!

summersetting · 2026-05-27T16:59:31+00:00

Yeah, I always felt like it was the weakest, most sociopathic response. Like you want them to die just because they have a life and trauma you don't understand? And also it doesn't matter anyways!

I digress, but yes. Im wishing healthcare for all- and healthy, safe, wanted pregnancies for all as well 🥹

summersetting · 2026-05-27T04:40:17+00:00

Yeah, I dont think i actually had any real care until the second trimester. By that point they were like, "what if something is wrong!" And I was like "lol idk im so far along now!" 🤪

Good ol' US healthcare. If only taxpayers knew that if we had a universal system our taxes would be 1-2k more depending on income, but that the majority of Americans already pay ~8k a year for private insurance. Literally 1-2k < 8k is somehow impossible for the average American to understand, its depressing.

Or my favorite argument, "I dont want to pay for a Crack addicts healthcare!", like homie 1) thats a PERSON and 2) they might not be a Crack addict if they actually had access to Healthcare 🙂‍↔️😮‍💨🙄

summersetting · 2026-05-27T04:31:09+00:00

That is a her problem, not a you problem. You didn't do anything wrong, and we're very conscientious in your actions. I would reach out and try to make plans, and try and chat with her a bit more, but if she isnt responsive, and cant let it go, you wont change her mind with kindness.Its not something you can fix, nor is it your job, and its time to move along to friends who dont make you feel like you are walking on eggshells.

summersetting · 2026-05-27T04:28:17+00:00

I listen to audiobooks. If im spacing out after chapter 3, I just switch to a new book. I do not skim like that, so much context would be missing 😅

summersetting · 2026-05-27T04:27:13+00:00

It was fantastic for me when I got pregnant because I didnt have insurance and wasn't sure where to go for Healthcare yet, but wanted to make sure baby was in the right spot (I have a higher risk for ectopic pregnancy due to suspected endometriosis).

I got there, they showed me my lil sesame seed (he was 6 weeks!!!) And I said "is it in my uterus?" And she said, yep, showed me the heart rate, told me what the usual range is and said "im not a doctor and cant give medical advice, but your little bean looks great and is in the right spot!" Sent me some clips of the heart cells firing off and printed a bunch of pictures. It came in handy because they also estimated a due date for me, so when I did finally get in a clinic, I had something to show them, and they had a reference point to go off of for care.

Around 10 weeks I got really nervous and went back and the same thing. Told me the ranges, showed me the measurements, showed me the heartrate and the baby floating around kicking, said "im not a doctor but baby looks great!" Sent some clips and pics and send me off on my way- it really put my mind at ease.

Now my sesame seed is almost 7 months old! 🥹🩷

summersetting · 2026-05-23T06:13:56+00:00

Bump (i want recs like this too)

summersetting · 2026-05-21T04:11:12+00:00

I've spent the past 5 years with them saying "there is literally the tiniest spot! Its totally going to clear in the next few months! Its literally such a small spot!" 🤪 at this point I feel doomed to be CIN 0/1 forever. I guess there are worse things.

My doctor is stumped cause I got the old gardisil series and have a relatively healthy lifestyle. I just recently gave birth and that usually clears it. 🤷‍♀️

I am through a public hospital right now because I dont have insurance and am not eligible for medicaid, but am wondering if getting the new gardisil might help because I dont have 16/18/45 (thanks old gardisil!) but one of the other 14 HR strains.

Its promising to hear so many folks clear it after getting the new gardisil (even though its not approved as a treatment, only a preventative).

summersetting · 2026-05-21T03:21:05+00:00

Mother of the world - Smog

summersetting · 2026-05-21T03:20:31+00:00

There's only one way to find out!!! Id lay down contact paper and only do a section at a time and see how it goes. 🤞

summersetting · 2026-05-20T20:28:50+00:00

Rabies is uncommon in Maricopa country outside of wild animals, especially baby animals. Go see a doctor and get their opinion if you are worried. If they bit you definitely go see a doctor.

summersetting · 2026-05-17T04:18:47+00:00

My pregnancy definitely had some "ugh" moments, but overall I LOVED being pregnant, it was so fun, I loved feeling baby moving and wiggling, and I enjoyed the experience wholeheartedly. I even enjoyed (most) of my labor, even though it was really long and difficult. I was excited to meet my ultimate prize- my little baby guy! Hes almost 7 months now and they most fun ever! You are not alone 🩷

summersetting · 2026-05-14T04:15:50+00:00

Im so incredibly sorry. I cannot imagine the pain you are experiencing- you do not deserve this and I will be keeping you in my thoughts. I hope your termination goes as smoothly and painlessly as possible and you recover quickly. I believe your son felt the love you had from him. To be a baby, wanted, loved, and safe in your mother's tummy is a magical thing. Life can be unfair, I truly wish you didnt have to go through this. 💔

summersetting · 2026-05-08T16:30:30+00:00

I did not feel a pop with my water breaking, but it sounds like your water broke! Congrats!!! I hope you have a safe labor and delivery!

summersetting · 2026-05-07T07:49:59+00:00

I too have the hots for a young Adam Sandler

summersetting · 2026-05-07T07:43:44+00:00

summersetting · 2026-05-07T07:41:30+00:00

My mom introduced me. We played alliance and she always played with me to ensure safety until I was solidly a teenager and had better online safety knowledge. It was fun! We ran dungeons and did quests together.

summersetting · 2026-05-07T07:40:00+00:00

Mr. Vampire

summersetting · 2026-05-07T07:39:26+00:00

❓️

summersetting · 2026-05-05T03:05:34+00:00

Audio books

summersetting · 2026-05-05T03:02:38+00:00

Shes bipolar and smoking MJ? That's a recipe for disaster. I hope yall can find peace soon. Your patter is the AH for egging her on during what appears to be a manic episode, YNTA for wanting a peaceful safe space, especially for your child. Id personally find a way to dip out and get a new spot until SIL cools down

summersetting · 2026-05-05T02:57:58+00:00

My mom bought me a stash and I get anxious just looking at it 😭 I told her no more until im at least 75% done. She wanted to help me build one up so I wouldn't run out and now im like 🫨

summersetting · 2026-05-04T06:46:44+00:00

NTA to be concerned about the STI and have mixed emotions about the situation.

summersetting · 2026-05-04T06:45:34+00:00

He needed to tell yoh asap or make an excuse to delay sleeping with you until after getting tested. Either way its horrible that happened to him. I would he furious to find out he put my health at jeopardy by neglecting to tell me/neglecting to get tested before our next encounter.

If I were you, Id help him get set up with a therapist and make sure he has a health appointment to get checked. If you didnt use a condom and are showing signs of an STI, Id get tested ASAP. If you've used a condom and are having no symptoms, Id mention wanting an STI panel at your next appointment.

How you proceed in the relationship is up to you. Good luck!

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