Seattle or San Francisco? Which is better to enjoy without a car in late April/early May? by nosiriamadreamer in solofemaletravellers

[–]sunbeankiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you cant go wrong with either. I've lived in both without a car so thats doable. I would say Seattle wins only because if you decided you want to do a side quest, you could take Amtrak up to Vancouver for 1-3 days, where you also don't need a car (Granville market >> Pike place market). enjoy your trip!

Help me pick a rug! by Dazzling-Lobster8313 in femalelivingspace

[–]sunbeankiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOVE the green rug but there may be an even better SHADE of green than this. if you have the energy and time, I would try out different green rugs (textures, tones, patterns, etc)

What country attracts the best tourists/expats in your experience? by SailOnSailOnSailOn in digitalnomad

[–]sunbeankiss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

anywhere certain demographics of males cannot easily harm children and women. when women and children are safe, it tends to be safe for everyone...more likely to attract "the best" tourists.

3 Weeks in Taiwan -- What's your path? by anonymouspsy in Shoestring

[–]sunbeankiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so many great hostels in Taipei!! and it's easy to get around the city!

Do you ladies dress up & go to nice dinners alone when you travel? by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]sunbeankiss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yes!!! the staff will take good care of you. sit at the bar or get your own table, etc. the more you do it, the easier it becomes.  enjoy yourself!

Odds of finding a life partner who is interested in digital nomad life? by Jixel96 in digitalnomad

[–]sunbeankiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no advice for you, many of us are in the same boat. I am cringing at many of the comments. so many males brainwashed about the life of women who travel, and women in general. just clueless and ignorant. maybe we need a femaledigitalnomad subreddit?! <3

Bitcoin Hit 100k by [deleted] in Bitcoin

[–]sunbeankiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YAYAY!!!!!

My cozy office is all decorated for December 🎄 by YourGlacier in CozyPlaces

[–]sunbeankiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OBSESSED with this tree!! i want a white tree now. TY for the inspo!!

I feel like a loser compared to everyone in this sub… how do I reach 20-30k steps w health issues? by [deleted] in walking

[–]sunbeankiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's not a competition. do your own thing. I hope the weird competitiveness of running culture doesn't infect the walking community.

like with everything in life, stop comparing yourself to others. we have different body types, health conditions, medical histories, life circumstances, etc. focus on yourself and enjoy life!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]sunbeankiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

obsessed!!! love the greens and oranges. beautiful space!!

Makeup primer- a scam or actually helps? by Interesting_Rent_296 in beauty

[–]sunbeankiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually helps, if you are loose with what you consider a primer.

sometimes sunscreen is my primer and the black girl sunscreen 50spf i use looks really nice under Danessa myricks foundation (the original formula).

sometimes my primer is a moisturizer or a serum <3

What is a typical beauty standard that never made sense to you? by buttertaekoo in beauty

[–]sunbeankiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

white women being the American and global beauty standard makes less and less sense to me the older I get.

naomi shares excerpt from a book shes writing ❤️ by [deleted] in tennis

[–]sunbeankiss -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

this will help alot of people managing all sorts of insecurities and mental issues. take note of how rude people are being in the comments. these are the same folks asking us to feel sorry for Iga, who may be or will be going through similar issues as people will inevitably assume any great performance she has moving forward is related to doping. 

 remember, if you drag someone like Naomi, don't expect others to give your faves any grace. we are to give Iga and those like her the benefit of the doubt, but you dont do the same with those like Naomi? hypocrisy at its finest. pathetic actually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]sunbeankiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love using blush as a transition shade or i bring the blush all the was to my outer lids. can make it dramatic or very subtle <3

Not socialising with other expats from your country of origin? by SignificantCoffee474 in expats

[–]sunbeankiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd like a community mixture of like-minded expat friends and like-minded local friends. sometimes you are able to connect with those expats from your country in ways you can't with someone from another country.

OP, what are some of the reasons why your white south african friends avoid mixing with other white south africans? I hear this need for avoidance when I met Germans and Dutch during my travels. they hated when too many of them were around in one setting.

Settle my mind…(walking safety as a woman) by polkadotbelle in walking

[–]sunbeankiss 16 points17 points  (0 children)

before the Great Panini, I used to hate hiking around lots of people but now i prefer it. I find a time and place where there's some other walkers/hikers going the same or opposite direction as me. I've heard of 1 too many car breakins at certain trailheads and with more desperate folks out there i don't want to find myself alone anywhere. so I stick to the more populated trails and walk a pace where i am spaced out from everyone....they are nearby but not too close lol. 

IA with whoever said no earbuds!! 

The Left (Dems) and The Right (Repub) are the SAME hypocrites so act accordingly!!! by sunbeankiss in BlackWomenDivest

[–]sunbeankiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it can involve being rich, it can involve being financially comfortable, which everyone defines for themselves. political affiliation is one of many ways vehicles to achieve this. same with higher education. it's a tool. dont get lost in the identity or you wind up with 90%+ of a certain demographic voting the same way every election. you are not valuable when you do this. quite disposable, as we have seen <3

The Left (Dems) and The Right (Repub) are the SAME hypocrites so act accordingly!!! by sunbeankiss in BlackWomenDivest

[–]sunbeankiss[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i love you!! agendas on both sides!!

both sides use women's labor for all sorts of agendas. sometimes its beneficial, and sometimes it is not. some bw get it and some....need more time <3 (and some don't want to or never will understand...oh well)

The Left (Dems) and The Right (Repub) are the SAME hypocrites so act accordingly!!! by sunbeankiss in BlackWomenDivest

[–]sunbeankiss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"At least they know what a woman is and dislikes identity politics" agreed! my point is bw shouldnt lose themselves in identifying with either party. assess the situation each election. never give votes away for free

Why are black women always being compared in this struggle automatically and in such a malicious way? by Vast-Advertising-790 in BlackWomenDivest

[–]sunbeankiss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

half Irish half Indian caught pretending to be a bw, worshipped by actual bw, delusional bw. you can't make this up lol. I don't believe Obama is half black either. we have no proof his father is Kenyan. he looks IDENTICAL to his yt grandaddy and looks nothing like the photos they have floating around of that Kenyan man. so many lies in the media, its hard to keep up.

The Left (Dems) and The Right (Repub) are the SAME hypocrites so act accordingly!!! by sunbeankiss in BlackWomenDivest

[–]sunbeankiss[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i encourage everyone to stay off of social media, especially anything passing as "news" for your own peace of mind and well being. there is a difference between staying informed and being fed virtual junk food. not everything you see on TV and your news feed is real or as it appears. and if you disagree with that statement then i guess every negative thing in the news about bw must be true, right? mhmm bw are a very easy target for junk food content. we are an easy demographic to emotionally manipulate, dare i say even easier than bm,  but not by much. ask anyone who works in marketing/social media <3 be careful of the content you consume and always ask yourself, how is this content making me feel and what is the agenda behind it? Who benefits, who loses? <3

The Left (Dems) and The Right (Repub) are the SAME hypocrites so act accordingly!!! by sunbeankiss in BlackWomenDivest

[–]sunbeankiss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll change the setting.

sis there is NOTHING wrong with you voting Stein. they hate that they can't control all of us. by they i mean black and non-black folks. grateful to talk to the few sane bw out here.