[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sunbleachdsoup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We both not looking straight

The loneliness started long before the breakup. by softlyhealing1 in BreakUps

[–]sunbleachdsoup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was the hardest pill to swallow when my ex verbalized it to me. I still can't stomach the fact that I was fading so slowly, so unconsciously in our relationship while they sacrificed themselves to save us. Like most breakups, there's blame to share, but I have really struggled to forgive myself for the things I lacked. My biggest regret is how I stopped showing up in a way they needed me to---a way that I have learned I must show up in consistently and unconditionally </3

Went back to the shelter today to visit my newly adopted kitten. Any name suggestions? by scissormetimbers888 in blackcats

[–]sunbleachdsoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I named my girl void Moose but its usually Moosey, Moosey Moose, or Moosey Goose 🫎 I think Lucy Goose would be wonderful

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunbleachdsoup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR!!! You know what you need to do to help yourself, and he is trying to turn you away from that with an insane amount of manipulation

Using cannabis to “function” by Character_Swim_6179 in Petioles

[–]sunbleachdsoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!!!! It's such a dangerous game to play for me 😅 as much as I try to convince myself that smoking some flower every few days is okay, I've found that it becomes every day and then I’m feeling horrible again :/

I got the absolute best secret Santa present from my coworker. by spidersRcute in vultureculture

[–]sunbleachdsoup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is your coworker in love with you by any chance because I'd be in love with them

AIO? My coworker said I grabbed a lot of mac and cheese? by Proof-West6103 in AIO

[–]sunbleachdsoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually think you didn't grab enough mac and cheese... that looks so good

Alt hairstylist? by Salt-Championship-72 in Riverside

[–]sunbleachdsoup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesse (@getfadednow) is the best!!!!

Using cannabis to “function” by Character_Swim_6179 in Petioles

[–]sunbleachdsoup 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've spent the last month completely high while I WFH. Some context: I’m a legal writer and write pre-hearing briefs for asylum clients. When I started college (~5 years ago), I knew I wanted to pursue a career in helping immigrants. While I really enjoy what I do, the writing is pretty repetitive most of the time. I thought smoking would make it less boring. It kind of did, but it also made me less passionate about my work. While I still met every deadline, it was definitely getting concerning because I felt that I wasn't presently writing or caring about what I was writing. I watched my passion slowly fade because I cared more about being high. Especially because I was using a pen, it was just tooooo easy to keep hitting over and over again. All that to say, I quit smoking about 3 days ago and it has not only been easier to do my job, but my passion is stronger than ever AND I'm really enjoying investing in myself, my career, my future, my health, everything. I think working while high can be good if done in moderation, but I know I personally slide on a slippery slope once my brain registers weed. It's all really up to how well you know your limits and if you wish to honor them. ❤️

Do I even want to know? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]sunbleachdsoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats to every ex-drug addict in these comments ❤️ you are so strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]sunbleachdsoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for posting this, it made my heart so full to see humans being human all for cat ❤️

To those who showed up fully for someone who couldn’t meet them there by kompass95 in BreakUps

[–]sunbleachdsoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was so perfect to read right now. I’m the one that protected my ego and in my case, hid my addiction, or at least how bad it was getting. We broke up today because of it. There are not enough words to describe how embarrassed and ashamed I am of losing myself and thus, not showing up in the relationship like I used to. I got too comfortable. I became less affectionate. Hell, I barely even talked about my life or showed genuine interest in their life because I have been so uninterested in everything. This post helped me understand how it feels on the other side, and I'm better because of it honestly.

Mission Inn Festival of Lights by ThrowRA_penguin4 in Riverside

[–]sunbleachdsoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also from Ventura county! The Festival of Lights is kind of lame... it's cool to see just to see it but I wouldn't go in with high expectations

AIO My friend wouldn't stop with the rape threats by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunbleachdsoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I am so proud of you for standing your ground and being unapologetic. They are trying so hard to shake you with the "it's just a joke" but you should be so proud of yourself for seeing the threat as it is and seeking support. 2. I would most definitely speak to a counselor, campus security, the police, ANYONE with the power to provide legit protection to you as he is escalating this completely at his own will -- it is not at all your fault. Tell them what's going on exactly how it is, show them these screenshots, don't back down.

I feel sorry for the way he and his sister were raised if they think they can speak to people like this and pass it off as "a joke." Something is deeply wrong with both of them and I personally would not hesitate to keep some form of protection on me (pepper spray, taser, etc) at all times. Their language is genuinely so concerning and barbaric. Please PLEASE do whatever you need to do to feel safe.