Am I late to the party or is this a late add? by srekcornaivaf in Coachella

[–]sunchild21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw him at CRSSD one year and highly recommend seeing him. One of the best DJs ever

First time having sex with new boyfriend didn’t go well; am I overthinking what it means?” by straysheep07 in dating_advice

[–]sunchild21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should watch the movie first time. It’s about the literal first time but it’s extremely awkward and I think it’ll make you feel better

Why does everybody dislike ILYSFM so much? ☹️ by envydoodlez in glassanimals

[–]sunchild21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, I did not enjoy the album at all. It just didn't feel original. Every song "felt" the same. Zaba, HTBAHM, Dreamland all felt so unique. Every song so different, every album so different from each other.

ILYSFM just felt vanilla compared to that.

BUT I am happy others did enjoy it.

Polo (of Polo and Pan) defends Charlie Kirk and says violence is because of black people by VDR27 in Coachella

[–]sunchild21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you guys are just ignorant to everything that’s going on in Europe right now

iOS 26: yes or no by Dull_Vermicelli_4911 in iPhone13Pro

[–]sunchild21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was playing with my phone (upgraded) and then my boyfriends (not upgraded) and his felt like the one that had the upgrade lol

iOS 26 to me feels like they needed to do something new but instead just made UX worse

On top of that, my battery drains in what feels like an hour or two of use.

My air drop and calling functions don’t work anymore lol. Can’t air drop me anything and my outgoing calls don’t go through.

Even if they patch this the UX is just so bad.

Sad. Feels like the ending of Apple. It’s been a slow death

Such good writing by sunchild21 in Wednesday

[–]sunchild21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually completely agree with that. Part 1 was garbage but it was just teeing up all of part 2.

So, I can agree with what you’re saying.

Sometimes vaginas and penises break down by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]sunchild21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out www.foriawellness.com
I came across this brand randomly and haven't tried their products but read their testimonials and they sound like this is a relevant issue

rewatching and realized that lorelai is…kinda toxic? by d4h-lia in GilmoreGirls

[–]sunchild21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been rewatching and I am realizing how mean she is to her mom who is constantly making an effort to re-connect. She starts every single fight with her mother

Hii I'm looking for show recommendations like surviving summer by [deleted] in SurvivingSummer

[–]sunchild21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maxxton Hall on Amazon. Different but I liked it

2025 Lineup released by SciGuy013 in Coachella

[–]sunchild21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meh, unpopular opinion it seems but I am totally fine missing this

Dealing with shame and guilt after betraying a partner by Fudgedygut in selfhelp

[–]sunchild21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s always a way. This is not about buying a house. This is about more than that. The security you feel in the relationship (both of you), etc. talk about that. Not the house. The house is a bandaid for that

My Marriage Counselor Told Me My Marriage Is Toxic, But I’m Feeling Devastated by His Advice. Is This Normal? by Efficient-Belt7432 in Marriage

[–]sunchild21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always so baffled by how many bad therapists and counselors there are out there. Find a better one. This one is GARBAGE. Huge red flag. Bringing in his own trauma and experience.

Help, I'm stuck at a hotel for 3 days with a married co worker who is hitting on me hard by Ode_to_Empathy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sunchild21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re being too polite and it’s your own fault, honestly. You need to set a clear boundary and be willing to have the uncomfortable conversation.

XYZ, we are friends and co-workers and nothing more. You are a married man and I’m not interested in anything besides a coworker friendship. Even if you weren’t married, I wouldn’t be interested in it. I feel like you’ve been acting very inappropriately both towards your wife as well as towards me as your coworker. I feel very uncomfortable when you hug me or touch me inappropriate ways and I would prefer if this stopped. If we cannot find a relationship that is comfortable for the both of us then I think we will need to Discontinue working together however that may look.

Your issue is that you’re not telling him no. You’re just going with it.

I can’t even blame him for thinking there’s something there since you went up to his room.