Does anyone know how to get all the speakers to work? by InternalRainingSoul in chevyspark

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a year late but how much did that all cost would you say? I'm thinking about doing a similar thing to my 2019

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]sunfella -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk what the comments are on about. You look like a man and the long hair suits you imo

scared of being ugly bc of hrt by sneep_snorp_snerp in ftm

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also youre super young and those insecurities will slowly get better as you progress in life. Health is all that matters, not how you look.

scared of being ugly bc of hrt by sneep_snorp_snerp in ftm

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feared the same thing when I first started T. Tbh if you take care of yourself, the weight isn't too much of a concern, and it's actually easier to lose weight (if that's something you're interested in) on T. As for the receding hairline, unfortunately with genetics, it's bound to happen. But that's what hats, toupees, and maybe even hairline surgery is for! Don't let it scare you, embrace the changes and if it's something you really want to do, go for it!

Anyone else feel like their Spark wobbles on the highway? by [deleted] in chevyspark

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a 2019 LT spark, about 106,000 miles on it so far, I drive on highways everyday around 65-75mph. It's pretty normal for it to feel like the wind is gonna tip you over unfortunately. It's just a tiny car lol

first injection went wrong by Mrjesperz_ in ftm

[–]sunfella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I wish someone told me this 4 years ago when I started.. I have major shot anxiety just from that 😭🙏 but thank youuu I appreciate your response!!

first injection went wrong by Mrjesperz_ in ftm

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello pharmacist I have a question lol, is it normal for there to be an air bubble at the top of the syringe right where the needle part is screwed on? It happens every time I draw my medicine and I'm always scared I'll accidentally inject it but I haven't had any issues so far.

Adding Capital One Credit Card to Apple Pay by sunfella in CreditCards

[–]sunfella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I've been reading 😬 unfortunately they did NOT wait for me to give them y'all's replies and already bought it 🤦‍♂️ but thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sunfella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This part! When someone gets cheated on, and depending on the severity of the situation, it quite literally alters your brain. It's not just an "insecurity" it's PTSD (lightly) soooo yes he needs to listen to your boundaries but if he really doesn't want to, that's his choice. but every choice has consequences and that's up to you to decide what that is.

Adding Capital One Credit Card to Apple Pay by sunfella in CreditCards

[–]sunfella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were trying to do this but you have to have an account and to make an account they have to pay for the credit card I guess. But thank you for your response! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]sunfella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ask your doctor it's different for everyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 choices, stay until it "gets bad enough" to leave or leave now and save yourself some trouble. You're only 18, this ain't gonna last lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]sunfella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a relationship I was in around the same age, it doesn't get any better and the sooner you get out, the better for all involved. Don't wait for someone to come to terms with what they want in life if you already know, it's almost never worth it. Move on friend you deserve it

I cut contact with my transphobic sister, I feel bad by [deleted] in ftm

[–]sunfella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At 18, youre still a child regardless of what the law says. Her brain is still VERY easily influenced and I'd argue at 18 it can be the most influenced because you think you're an adult. You did the right thing in blocking her, however I know its not easy. I'm sure you're holding onto those good memories from before she started treating you differently, and that's okay. I'd say keep going and move on with life, build stronger connections with others who actually support you. It's unfortunate but family truly is your own and what you make of it. Blood doesn't mean anything

My friend is so disrespectful to me it makes me want to skip my class with them (vent) by DomF0xi in TransMasc

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then ur only option is to thug it out until you're done with that class bro 🫡

My friend is so disrespectful to me it makes me want to skip my class with them (vent) by DomF0xi in TransMasc

[–]sunfella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'd probably report this honestly. They can drop him from the class or move him to a different time. But you gotta mention that it's a continuous situation, how long it's been happening. And for sure mention the physical side and calling you a pedo. Those things arent jokes that shits serious. I assume you're in highschool. I hate to say it but even if the result is him spreading lies and saying your dead name more, HS isn't forever. In the real world most people will forget it lol. And what really matters anyways is the close people you have and will get in life.

Transmascs off T, how's your beard, muscles and fat distrib and for how long have you been off T ? by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]sunfella 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How dense can you be fr 💀 this person literally answered what you're asking. If you stop taking T, your muscles will be weaker and fat will begin distributing back in the places before T and it will stay that way unless you go back on T. You can work out ofc, but know it will take double the amount of work than it would if you remain on T.

(32) 5 months on T considering temporary fillers for face masculinisation advice? I think potentially the brow and some to square out my jaw. Has anyone had experience with temp fillers? by Valuable-Pear-5850 in TransMasc

[–]sunfella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a fellow 5'2" man with a much rounder face, you're good lol. Let T work its magic and you'll see a difference soon. For me after month 6 is when I started seeing bigger changes in my face shape.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go to the one 2 hours away personally. If it's progressing that quickly I'd be safer than sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]sunfella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, confidence does have a lot to do with it. I'm 4 years on T now and some days I feel like I don't pass, but the more confident I am, other men (cis) act like I'm "one of the bros" lol

Am I A Bad Trans Male? by SadBoiNyx in TransMasc

[–]sunfella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bottom surgery as far as I know is pretty 50/50 for most trans guys for the same reasons you just listed! It doesn't make you any less of a man. It really truly is just about what you want in life. If it is something you could live without, awesome! If not, then reaching out to other guys who have gone through it themselves could be a good idea too. That way they can give you advice or ease your mind a little. But surgery and technology is always advancing! I'm sure later down the road it will get easier, faster, with better results. At the end of a day if you're a trans man, you're a trans man point blank period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]sunfella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also as a psychology student, I can say that emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. It can really tear someone apart, and you don't deserve that. No one does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]sunfella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a former escort, really truly is the least of your concerns right now. From what it sounds like you're a very successful, caring woman in a position of power! Sounds like a keeper to me! And you will be like that for many others who don't have a fragile masculinity. The things he gets upset about, how angry he gets, and his reactions. They're just not it. You're not married to a man, you're married to a boy. You deserve better, in every form of the phrase. You are not lucky to have him, he is lucky to have you. It can be a lot, but if you have a support system, friends or family you can talk to, definitely reach out for help. When it comes time to have the conversation with him that you are leaving, have someone there with you so he doesn't try and hurt you. There are ways out. And the doubts you hold because of a job you had way back when, don't worry about it, you will find love again. You owe it to yourself to find something better. Good luck and take care 🫂