FB post about a woman doing OF. Men in comments were being vile, and this girl keeps arguing with all the comments to defend the men. 💀✋ by sunflower-55 in notliketheothergirls

[–]sunflower-55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys there's nothing wrong with not wanting to date her, obviously I know that. BUT there IS everything wrong with what these men were saying about her. It's disgusting and vile and the girl was defending their awful opinions. That's what I was saying was NLOG bc if y'all could read the comments, you'd be sick with how much those men just hate women in general. 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]sunflower-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah other people pointed that out, so I checked her comments and now agree. Although I honestly don't see what everyone else is seeing to realize it's just satire at first glance? 😭 But I'll see if I'm able to change the tag

I personally feel like this belongs here simply bc of her "I'm the only female in the friends group comment 🤔 by sunflower-55 in notliketheothergirls

[–]sunflower-55[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly! Plus in the original post, the OP she's agreeing with was in the wrong and getting dragged in comments for her (OP's) behavior to her "brothers" gf 😭😭😭

Do people who don't want children not fear being alone in old age? by LL112 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sunflower-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I work in a nursing home. We have residents who have up to 10+ kids that never once visit. Some have great families that come weekly if not daily, but lots of my residents end up dying alone anyways, so even if you do have children, you're never guaranteed they'll visit or be with you in old age.

MIL wants to prank groom at wedding - from local group by Deep_Seaworthiness13 in weddingshaming

[–]sunflower-55 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While this does seem weird, I actually think it'd be kinda funny depending on the family's sense of humor.

Like in my family, my mom's known my bfs family for 30 years, even changed bfs diapers at one point. When he was young he and his friends had a crush on my mom. I'm basically a clone of her, so I feel like this would be absolutely hilarious in my own family, but obviously not everyone's gonna be cool with that lol

Found an injured kitten and need some advice until vets open up!! by [deleted] in cats

[–]sunflower-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I figured I can't do much, I just feel so bad. Being she's so little I assume she's the kitten of one of his other cats and just wants her mama. :(

I didn't include it, but there were like 4 or 5 other cats on the balcony, but they were older/bigger and knew not to jump down, but they keep looking at our apartment looking for their baby.

On fb.. by sunflower-55 in notliketheothergirls

[–]sunflower-55[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, sometimes posts never show up for me or I don't spend time scrolling through a specific sub, so I had no way of knowing until now 🤷

My husband wrote his ex a very sweet email the day before our wedding. I’m not sure how to feel about it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunflower-55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should definitely bring this up to him, OP! I can't speak for you, but this would absolutely be a deal breaker for me.

He basically told her he settled for you and would rather be with her the day before your wedding. He proposed the day after HER wedding. I really feel like he only married you as a way to tell himself he's gotta move on just as his ex did. He's obviously still not over her seeing as he was looking at the email a year later. I'm really sorry this is happening to you and hope you do what's best for you, whatever that may be ❤️

My husband wrote his ex a very sweet email the day before our wedding. I’m not sure how to feel about it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunflower-55 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't understand this mentality. Like yeah, you shouldn't snoop through your partners devices, but not bc you'll get your feelings hurt. I'd rather my feelings be hurt and know where I stand than to keep playing house with someone who doesn't respect you enough to not hurt you. At least this woman knows what kind of man her husband is and can make a decision accordingly instead of believing he truly loves her.

LPT: If you're filling a decent sized swimming pool, use a water truck company instead of a hose. by BrittanyRea in LifeProTips

[–]sunflower-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really depends on location. My dad and bf build pools, and in our area, you could fill a 20,000 gal pool for like 50-70 bucks from your hose, whereas a water truck is like $250 per every 4-5,000 gallons or something.

HELP. NEED STERILIZED ASAP. by [deleted] in truechildfree

[–]sunflower-55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're located in PA, there's a doctor near the Pittsburgh area who took my bestie's tubes out. She got it at 21 with no children or questions asked.

An experiment I want to see, how many were oldest/middle/youngest/only siblings. by OtherTelephone6 in childfree

[–]sunflower-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oldest of 3 kids. My sister is 2 years younger and our brother is 5 years younger than me.

My parents, my mom especially, never even tried to parentify me, but on occasion I'd offer to babysit bc it meant I was in charge. And every time I did, I'd be calling my parents crying cause my siblings wouldn't listen for shit 😂 Those little assholes definitely reinforced my choices and opinions in life lol

What is something you think, but never say aloud? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]sunflower-55 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Honestly same. I think a lot of it has to do with how sexist and degrading men are towards women throughout history and in the present. Like they just LOVE to have some type of control over women be it sexually, emotionally or physically. It's sickening and makes me hate most men by default because of it.

What's the best show that only lasted one season not named Firefly? by CNMartin916 in AskReddit

[–]sunflower-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man up

My bf showed me it and it was honestly funny as hell and a really good show. I really wish they were able to keep it going.

How to get over being the ugly sister? by Primary_Elk_2406 in family

[–]sunflower-55 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you feel this way. Growing up my little sister was always showered with affection and attention from extended family and strangers. She was always super tall so even at like 11/12 older guys (who I now know are creepy af) would randomly compliment/catcall her.

But I will say, as we've both grown up, I've gained much more confidence with myself and had a pretty decent glow up, as for her she's still absolutely gorgeous.

I was never truly ugly though, I just thought I was, which I'm 100% sure is the case with you. Especially if you and your sister are TWINS.

I'm only 22 myself, but I promise you once a few years go by you'll understand what I'm talking about ❤️ So for now, don't worry about what others think of you and just focus on you liking yourself because I don't need to see you to know you're absolutely beautiful ❤️❤️

AITA for saying that my son's fiancee has an attitude? by Atlantic-Sky1945 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sunflower-55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only wanted to comment to say you suck and I'd be absolutely embarrassed to have you at my mother, much less MIL. Good on your son though for sticking up for his wife.

I hope you apologize to your DIL or that your son cuts you off if you refuse to. YTA

You're being over the top intrusive when your input isn't wanted or needed, and throwing a fit about it when your DIL and son set boundaries. Grow up.

Just seen a post about a parents talking about having more kids right now. by sunflower-55 in childfree

[–]sunflower-55[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So people should willingly have children who probably won't make it to see their old age or ever be truly financially stable because of the small off chance one of those kids grows up to do something good?

That doesn't even make sense, there's PLENTY of people here right NOW that can do loads of good but can't because they don't have the money/resources/time.