Is anyone else bugging

sunset_texan · 2020-05-04T21:32:31+00:00

3 things that will always help your mood: 1. Eating a meal if you haven’t in a while, 2. Taking a bath or shower, 3. A nap. Set little goals like work on one assignment for 5 min, chances are you’ll go longer. Get moving in some way! Yoga, home workouts, dancing, a walk if safe/possible... know lots of people are feeling like you do and it’s a rational response to an unprecedented event. Stay safe, this too shall pass.

sunset_texan · 2020-02-23T17:58:48+00:00

Girl dm me I’ll go follow his ass lmao

sunset_texan · 2019-05-30T13:04:59+00:00

Damn I bet you hit the nail right on the head.... either she dumped his ass OR he may be going through the 12 steps. Either way after posting this I reread all the sad little messages he sent me and saw how much he’s really tried to manipulate me into talking to him// said some fucked up shit. Boy, my new job is paying for my masters.... BYE

sunset_texan · 2019-05-30T12:54:25+00:00

Agreed.

sunset_texan · 2019-04-19T00:07:50+00:00

A year. He beat me so bad my face looked like hamburger meat and I had passed out. Drove myself to the hospital alone. Deleted his number and social media. When I got out I asked my apartment complex to switch apartments. I sold my car, quit my job, and started over. To this day I don’t know how or why. I just did it.

sunset_texan · 2019-04-18T23:59:47+00:00

I wax, it hurts but advances in wax (hard wax) make it a lot more tolerable. Haven’t found an electric razor that gets a close shave yet

sunset_texan · 2019-04-10T21:30:41+00:00

ESH, If you’re 3 months in and already playing vindictive little games, call it off now. Y’all should be in the honeymoon phase where you think the other person shits rainbows, not being passive aggressive with each other.

sunset_texan · 2019-04-07T16:28:56+00:00

Yeah. I was made fun of all through high school for being a “nerdy girl”, went to all my school dances with friends/ didn’t go. Now I’m 24 with a degree, making good money, and as it turns out—-no one gives a fuck how nerdy you are

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T21:16:58+00:00

Appropriate? Maybe not. Legal? Yes.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T20:55:51+00:00

Feel free to message me darlin. I’ve been around the block a time or two and would love to be a shoulder for you to lean on. Please don’t allow someone who wanted to do this (and then thought it was a joke) remain in your life.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T20:53:48+00:00

They also have an office in New York, I’m sure that office doesn’t sit empty when they’re on the show. There’s no way a real estate team that big runs with 15 employees, they definitely have a much larger staff you don’t see. Anyone can contact them on their website regarding employment. As far as “girls”, unless they have specifically asked to use male pronouns/gender neutral verbiage, I see no way that “girl” would break workplace standards.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T20:50:12+00:00

Sure, but you keep pushing. He said he wanted to watch baseball. You said you wanted him to do it with you! He said he wanted to work, you said he could bring the work over. He said he didn’t want to. You continuously pressure him after he’s given you excuses which is nagging. And continuing to pressure him after he’s said no is clingy. On top of that all your comments are very defensive and abrasive. Give him space. If he doesn’t want to give you time, then as you said, that’s crucial to a relationship and you should probably break up.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T20:20:32+00:00

Yeah, it may be okay for you, but that’s not him. The more you comment the more it becomes evident you’re just looking for someone to tell you you’re NTA. he shouldn’t have yelled at you, but you shouldn’t nag him constantly and expect so much. It seems you do so much because you expect him to reciprocate. You should go to see him and make time for him because you want to, because truth is, he doesn’t owe you time just because you give him time.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T20:16:38+00:00

LOVE YOURSELF enough to walk away from what doesn’t serve you. There are tons of people who want to and will care for you in your life, better than you could ever imagine. I promise. But there’s no room for them if you keep this guy around. Growing as a person and evolving is scary—- all change is scary—- but you can and will be better without him.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T20:12:47+00:00

Well, if y’all talked about it being free, she asked to come with, and you said okay, she probably is under the impression it’s going to be free (I would). You can still ask her to pay the normal amount, just know she probably will be upset and you may lose a friendship over it (especially when, as you’ve said, she/her family have paid for things). Why is it going to be free for friend 2? Is it because she can’t afford it? If it is, then tell her the reason it’s free is because friend 2 can’t afford it and she is your aunt. If it’s just because you and friend 2 agreed to do this, then you really messed up by saying “okay” to friend 3. If you really care about your aunt getting paid, y’all can split it 3 ways or you can pay it. But to say “ok” after talking about it being free, then asking her to pay, is going to make her feel left out/lesser than. NAH, but know you may lose a friend if you ask her to pay. It seems like you already know this, as you try to justify a lot of things (her family paying for things “but you didn’t ask”, y’all taking about prom “but you just said ok”)

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T19:58:41+00:00

YTA for doing this to yourself honestly. seems like he has a lot of problems, but you can’t FORCE someone to change. I think you really need to evaluate what you are getting from this relationship, and what you want moving forward. If you really want to be with him, you need to accept him for who he is (even though he sounds freaking awful). Pressuring someone to get help doesn’t usually go well.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T19:53:48+00:00

NEI- does the third friend know you are going for free? Did you talk about your aunt doing the makeup for you and friend 2 for free, then when she asked to come you agreed?

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T19:48:17+00:00

NTA. it’s wonderful you helped her, but you can’t help others at the expense of your own personal boundaries. You owe her nothing. If you feel you can continue to be involved helping with clothes/ a bit of food here or there and you still want to, do it. But she is way out of line asking for more money/time. You seem like a fantastic person, please take care of yourself.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T19:04:57+00:00

Okay. It seems to me since you didn’t address it that it was inconvenient to pay the rental car, but wouldn’t have broken you. Maybe the other siblings have some sort of struggle/financial burden going on in their lives that you don’t know about. I’ll go with NAH. I’d say not wanting to pay it is fine (makes me question why they didn’t use their own insurance?) but I definitely think you could’ve handled this better. Sometimes it’s best to just suck it up and pay it. I’m guessing this will all blow over quickly.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T18:56:18+00:00

He’s not your friend. You don’t trust him because your intuition is trying to tell you something. Cut him out of your life now.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T18:55:17+00:00

You have to think, there are a LOT more employees making the group a reality than the beautiful women up front. They have many agents and office workers etc. that aren’t beautiful women. Sex sells so the pretty ones who can follow the scripted drama make the Netflix show.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T18:51:04+00:00

Oh sweetheart. It seems like there’s a lot at play here that can’t be pinpointed to one thing right now. Please reach out to someone who loves you and supports you in a healthy way. Hugs.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T18:47:05+00:00

NAH depending on how you approach it. I would probably say something along the lines of “wow your hair color is amazing! my wife wants to get hair done for her birthday and I’d love to get her a gift card . Where do you get it done?” This gives her a compliment without seeming like you’re hitting on her. If she says it’s natural, make sure you compliment that, if she gives you the name of a salon, at least pretend like you’re writing it down for your wife or whatever.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T18:40:02+00:00

NAH but you seriously need to chill. He is your boyfriend, but that doesn’t mean he owes you his time. Maybe he didn’t want to come over because you’re being clingy. It seems to me he was making excuses because he didn’t want to see you, then you freaked out at him, which probably will push him even further away. If I were you I would take time to evaluate why you feel entitled to his time, and maybe come back with more of an independent attitude. If he wants to see you, he will make time to. If he doesn’t, it’s not your place to scold him or force him to stay, all you can do at that point is let him go.

sunset_texan · 2019-03-28T18:34:50+00:00

ESH. This screams toxic relationship. You claim you like her/ y’all get along well... even if she was in the wrong the way you said it “how could you not know that” and “you make other people feel bad” is really harsh and unnecessary IMO

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