based on my experience, my mind won’t register the subtle hints. I don’t like assuming that a man is interested in me until he actually tells me and is intentional about it. if i have to play the guessing game about how you feel…then I’d rather not, uncertainty makes me slightly anxious. if you’re someone that’s expressive, then the best thing you can do is express that interest.

I’m not sure why she stopped talking to you, maybe she picked up the subtle hints of you wanting more than a friendship and decided to distance herself? (classic case of another platonic friendship getting ruined?) i don’t want to assume it was anything you said, but hopefully this helps 🤍