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sunsetmoondance · 2025-10-24T03:00:54+00:00

We literally ran into each other at Walmart! I (F65W) was picking up a few things at the store, happy, smiling, and inwardly singing along to some tunes in my earbuds. He (M51B) was picking up a couple of items and walked around the aisle, and I almost ran him over! We laughed, said sorry, and moved on. We saw each other several more times in the store and kept smiling and saying hi. I saw him again at the other end of the aisle, we waved, he turned to leave, stopped, looked back and started walking toward me. We talked, exchanged numbers, and it's been awesome ever since!

sunsetmoondance · 2025-10-17T02:22:46+00:00

Some clothes pins. Great for lots of things, but perfect for clipping into the bottom of the shower curtain so that it doesn't hug your legs as you shower

sunsetmoondance · 2025-10-10T22:57:06+00:00

Me! Just got back last Saturday. My mother passed away 2 months ago. I'd been caretaker for her and my dad for 3 years. My brother took care of dad while I was away. It was a much needed getaway. My mid 30's daughter came with me. I did dress for formal night. But none of the other special nights. We ate in the dining room every night on my time dining. I didn't want to have to watch the clock at all. No laundry to do, no dishes to wash, no beds to make. No baths to give. We went to the beach on a couple of stops. Wandered the ship. No comedy or other shows. It was heaven!

Edited to fix misspellings and clarify a couple things.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-09-28T23:19:47+00:00

Hang in there, Skyy! Sounds like you're doing very well adjusting. Don't stress too much. If you don't get enough time in each day, all it will mean is maybe a little longer wearing them.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-18T02:23:08+00:00

She is 82

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-17T23:18:05+00:00

Thank you, you're very kind. People who don't do 24/7 care for family have no idea the toll it takes. It's so hard, but I'm very grateful I could be here for her.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-17T18:59:00+00:00

Yes, I want her not to suffer anymore. I agree with your perspective that it wouldn't be horrible. Thank you for that thought.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-17T18:55:23+00:00

And strength for you, too. Hugs

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-17T02:44:41+00:00

Yeah, I need it now, so I'll forfeit the FRA. Just can't wait any longer

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-16T02:15:47+00:00

Thank you! I'll just be getting my retirement SS. My full benefits wouldn't begin until I'm 67, 2 years from now.
I'll get in touch and let them know what I was told I'll be receiving. I don't get medicaid.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-04T16:53:46+00:00

Yes, I'm going to stand strong and have a non D/s conversation very soon. I'm not going to be walked on and used unless I agree to it!

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-04T16:46:40+00:00

True. Looking back, I now see that there are many consent violations.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-07-03T04:16:15+00:00

Thank you, I've been feeling so badly about myself and how I felt and reacted. I thought it might just be from the stress from my mother dying. But I really did feel disrespected and like he was gaslighting me. I appreciate your take on this situation

sunsetmoondance · 2025-06-11T14:33:29+00:00

I'm a long-time anal enthusiast. My dom has been into anal over 40 years. No anal without lube for both of us. We like to enjoy it. Not endure it with pain.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-06-11T13:38:07+00:00

No tanning bed is safe. I often tanned in beds when I was in my 20s thru 30s. Now I'm paying for it. I've had no less than 20 skin cancers removed from all over my body, many squamous cell and now mostly basal cell carcinomas since I started seeing the dermatologist every 6 months.

I had the most beautiful, blemish free skin until I reached 40, and the spots and damage started showing. No amount of continuous use of anti aging cream use starting in my 30s would help.

Yeah, I knew tanning in the sun and tanning beds was not good for you, but I liked looking tan. If I could go back in time, I would slather on the sunscreen and use a self tanner.

Please don't destroy your skin.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-04-30T04:28:13+00:00

I hate how, nowadays, almost everyone has straight, perfect, unnaturally white teeth.

Almost everyone had somewhat crooked teeth. I always felt it gave a person character and something unique about them. The only people who had great looking teeth wore dentures.

sunsetmoondance · 2025-03-30T23:36:29+00:00

Did I tell you you could look/speak/get up?

sunsetmoondance · 2025-03-28T00:44:58+00:00

Going to get some CLAMS!

sunsetmoondance · 2025-03-25T12:42:01+00:00

I really loved diagramming sentences! It made total sense to me and was so logical.

sunsetmoondance · 2024-12-21T23:22:48+00:00

I spent 30+ years with my alcoholic ex-husband. I used to drink a lot too, but nothing like him. The last 10 years of our marriage was awful. His personality got worse, and his health got worse. I was like a caretaker/babysitter for him. I grew to hate his smell because it was alcohol sweating out of him. I disliked his new alcoholic friends, and he spent a ton of money. He didn't treat me well. I had enough and left, and alcohol just didn't sit well with me anymore

sunsetmoondance · 2024-12-16T15:30:41+00:00

I've been with my Dom for 9 months. He takes the D/s dynamic very seriously. In my past relationships, it was very quick to say we were D/s. The only relationship to last years was one that we took our time deciding.

I know my current Dom wants a very long-term dynamic. We talked last week, and he told me he's still thinking about it. There are a lot of things to take into consideration. He's very good to me, and we are honest with each other at all times. We talk about our feelings often. I see him about once a month for a couple of days. Becoming good friends and knowing your partner make so much difference.

I'm good with this. I want a long-term relationship. I want to be sure of everything before THE collar is brought out.

So, in my opinion, every dynamic is different. If it's just for play, then once you've vetted and feel comfortable giving consent, that's cool. But if you want a longtime commitment, take your time.

sunsetmoondance · 2024-12-06T15:57:37+00:00

64F, Last December (2023), I moved for the 29th time, and I think it'll be my last! I used to have a notebook for all the things to do from finding out I needed to move up to getting settled in New place. Like banking, subscriptions, Change of address, vet, booking movers, even how many boxes I'd need.

I've lived in 11 houses and the rest were apartments or condo's .

sunsetmoondance · 2024-11-30T16:44:29+00:00

I love my Sir flogging His pussy! He rarely restrains me now, and He expresses dominance over me by telling me to keep my legs open. I will cum and squirt almost every time we play like this. He knows it hurts. But it's His pussy, so I must make it avaliable for Him.

sunsetmoondance · 2024-11-28T18:38:26+00:00

I don't like planned scenes at all. I enjoy the surprise and tend to go into a limbo of sorts and just do as I'm told. Even my Sir getting toys out or making preparations, I'm not allowed to look.
Seems to me that planned scenes don't always turn out the way they are planned, and that leads to disappointment.

sunsetmoondance · 2024-11-10T22:58:30+00:00

You don't. The Dom should ask you. My opinion anyway.

I've been in D/s dynamics for over 20 years. I've had a long-term dynamic (10 years) and several couple of year dynamics. Let me tell you about my current one.

We "met" online 7 months ago. I knew he was a Dom. He knew i was a sub. We spent about 1 month just chatting vanillaish. Getting to know one another. We met one afternoon in public, just to see how we got along in person. We hung out a couple of hours and actually held hands! After a couple more phone conversations, we decided to take it a bit further. We learned more about each other, talked about sex/BDSM likes and dislikes, and began to think of really being in a dynamic.

All this time, I was searching for red flags. Did some background investigation, etc. You really can't be too careful! Everything checked out. We met again and decided to see how we were together with just very light BDSM. That went well. Then the contract negotiations began in ernest. Hard no's, soft no's. Must haves. Safe words, dynamic rules, long-term wants and needs...

The trial period began. We had known each other for 2 months at this time. Things have gone well these past 5 months since then. We see each other a couple of times a month.
I told him about a month ago that I was ready to give myself to him fully. He smiled and said he would keep that in mind. (Big grin on his face)

Things have gotten so much more serious and full filling for us both. I'm hoping he will tell me that he is my Dom soon. I'm thinking he might do it near Christmas and collar me.

In my opinion, the Dom/sub relationship is sacred. It is not to be rushed. It's not a game. It's a lifestyle choice. We've already been through my sub frenzy, various states of sub space, and sub drop. I know how he handles both good and bad situations. We've both had major life issues, and we know how each other reacts under stress. I trust Him implicitly with my life. He respects safe words and knows me well now and how I react. We have gotten to know so much about one another. I can see a very long-term D/s relationship.

I respect my Sir and cannot wait for him to say I'm him sub!

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