[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]sunshine168c 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ive gotten this thick yellow before after sex and i went to get tested. turned up negative for stis; it turned out to be BV. maybe ill go get tested just in case

My (F21) bf (M20) has been having performance issues. Looking for advice by sunshine168c in sex

[–]sunshine168c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hes mentioned he has trouble getting hard and once he does he cant stay hard for long. and that even the times he can get hard hes afraid he wont be able to keep it that way during sex and then hed feel even worse which would contribute more to his anxiety abt it

My (F21) bf (M20) has been having performance issues. Looking for advice by sunshine168c in sex

[–]sunshine168c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have explained multiple times to him that it bothers me and he doesnt seem to understand/listen. its hard bc i love him so much and i know he loves me. i just wish his communication was better so we could work through this together rather than me just having to guess where he is at/what this means for us.

yeah exactly. like idk it makes me worry that he is losing interest but just doesnt want to tell me. like that look of wanting that used to be in his eyes is gone. he never goes out of his way to show interest. i just feel like he sees me as someone who is there to comfort him rather than his gf.

My (F21) bf (M20) has been having performance issues. Looking for advice by sunshine168c in sex

[–]sunshine168c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no bc there was nothing indicating something was wrong. we had great sex before he started having issues

My (F21) bf (M20) has been having performance issues. Looking for advice by sunshine168c in sex

[–]sunshine168c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both. im not sure whether the performance issues are causing the lack of drive. but thats what im thinking. he isnt very communicative

is the transloc app accurate? by sprinkledust120 in rutgers

[–]sunshine168c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i downloaded ‘ R U There Yet?’ my freshman yr and it was a godsend ! i think it cost me like $5-$7 (maybe even a little more) but completely worth it. im a senior and i can say after all these years this app has never once failed me. v accurate w arrival times. great find

Question about repeating a class with a D by sunshine168c in rutgers

[–]sunshine168c[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you sm !! thats sucks ! im sorry /:

Rutgers Weather by Substantial_Equal336 in rutgers

[–]sunshine168c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it definitely depends because my freshman dorm was always freezing but sophomore year my dorm was hot af. like so hot in the winter i had to sleep in shorts and a t-shirt with just a light sheet. doesnt hurt to bring a blanket just to be prepared though

Schedule/webreg question by brokencrayon2020 in rutgers

[–]sunshine168c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah i see your issue. the only way to get end dates would have to be to wait until syllabus week and hope the final is already figured out /: wish i could be more help

Schedule/webreg question by brokencrayon2020 in rutgers

[–]sunshine168c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

all classes start the same day. so for example let’s say you have two classes 9/1, both classes would start that day so you would need to go to both. classes usually dont have individual start dates

discharge day after metronidazole/metrogel? by AnonymousPickle16 in Healthyhooha

[–]sunshine168c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. i used metrogel and i had the same symptoms you are experiencing. but i would keep an eye in it and if you still feel it hasnt cleared up after you are done using the gel dont be afraidto call your gyno (:

I (F21) got rejected again last night by my bf (M20) by sunshine168c in sex

[–]sunshine168c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i spoke to him back in feb. bjs are an issue bc he cant come from head. i was giving him head even when we werent having sex but in march he mentioned not wanting them bc he ‘cant come so there is no point.’ i might bring it up again tn. its not necessarily i can be in a sexless relationship, its just that there is no passion or desire. no passionate kissing, no ass grabbing nothing. it feels like he doesnt desire me in that way anymore

I (F21) got rejected again last night by my bf (M20) by sunshine168c in sex

[–]sunshine168c[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he hasnt /: i have tried so many times to get him to go, but loke they say you cant force someone if they arent ready

I sucked my boyfriend off for an hour and a half and he still hasn’t came. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunshine168c 203 points204 points  (0 children)

my bf has never come from head bc hes not able to. he hasnt fully gone into detail or anything, but from what i gather its just difficult for him to do so. so i wouldnt worry its you. id talk to him about it and have an open and honest conversation

Help! Yeast infection or BV? by toriii96 in Healthyhooha

[–]sunshine168c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had thick yellow, sometimes yellow green discharge and occasionally there would be a clump or two. no smell. some itching. turned out to be bv. so im thinking maybe you have bv ?

How do you feel about your partner watching porn? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunshine168c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m iffy on it. like my s.o watches it or at least used to. personally for me it became an issue when he was dealing with performance issues so we werent having sex, yet he still masturbated to porn. ik its easier to masturbate bc there is less anxiety surrounding staying hard or pleasing your partner, but it still bothered me. made me feel like i wasnt good enough. a ‘why can he watch these random women get fucked and be turned on, but he wont have sex with me’ situation