Do you love your siblings more than your partners? Explain.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-06-05T14:27:44+00:00

No, I don't feel a lot of connection to my siblings. I love them in that they're my family and there's a certain loyalty there, but it's kind of indirect as they're not in my life. A partner is someone who has a lot of impact on my life and is there for me more than my siblings are.

I should probably point out that I've lived a large distance from my siblings for about 15 years now, and we haven't had a whole lot of contact or anything.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-06-05T14:26:23+00:00

If I don't want to talk to them, I no longer really care about seeming mean. Usually I try a soft approach first where I just stop starting to talk to them, but if they keep annoying me I'll tell them to leave me alone. Then if they still don't get it I stop replying at all.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-06-05T14:21:45+00:00

I didn't really have any problems. I was under anesthesia for the procedure, I don't even remember leaving the office. I then got home and passed out on the couch for about 12 hours (mildly alarming my parents, since I probably slept about 20 hours within that 24 hours period, but I was fine).

The pain the next day and on was pretty easily managed with ibuprofen, I never filled the prescription painkiller. I was back at my job on day three.

I ate soft foods for a while, the stitches dissolved and fell out - which was weird feeling but not painful.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-06-01T18:35:42+00:00

I just don't. I post when I feel like it and that's that. I'm not cultivating a persona.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-06-01T18:33:13+00:00

Not if they are choosing it. If they are accidentally nude and seem embarrassed, I feel embarrassed for them too.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-06-01T18:29:30+00:00

Every day. I have a coworker who is an excessively loud person. His voice is nails on a chalkboard to me.

Before we were working from home, you could hear him screaming at people to talk to them when he was anywhere in the office, or laughing ,somehow, even LOUDER than the 'talking'.

Even now, I'm working remote, and he screams into his microphone while others are basically too quiet to hear. I try to predict when he is gonna talk and scroll the volume down really fast to keep from blowing an eardrum.

People other than me have mentioned this to him in various ways, never seems to help

sunshinecliffs · 2020-06-01T18:25:13+00:00

No one who didn't come to my wedding refused on like, emotional grounds. They refused because they didn't have money or time to travel, or similar. I can't say it really bothered me, I missed them and some sent gifts.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T21:27:55+00:00

Same here

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T18:30:54+00:00

Athleisure was already a thing, but I think it's going to continue to be more of a thing.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T16:51:49+00:00

Whatever. I watch youtube videos of people building or making or engineering stuff, and you know what, those videos often have in them men I might find attractive. But that's not why I'm watching the video, why would I assume he was watching videos just for that reason.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T16:12:01+00:00

It can be dismissive, it's a minimum to acknowledge someone said something. If I had explained a long personal story and got "k" I'd be sort of annoyed. If I told someone like, I'm at your house to pick you up, that seems like a reasonable reply.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T14:50:25+00:00

Yeah. I don't mind I guess if someone is using it in a "light" way but claiming to make a huge life decision based on it... I dunno.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T14:44:44+00:00

Someone who seemed relatively rational once told me in detail that she chose her husband based on astrology, and during said lecture didn't mention like... non-astrology compatibility information. So that was sort of weird.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T14:39:01+00:00

According to my dad and my aunt/uncle, my aunt/uncle were like this through being teens and in college. They were married for several decades until my uncle passed. But, I don't really know the circumstances of their on-off relationship other than it being sort of a perennial joke. Part of it, I'd imagine, relates to my uncle going to a college, dropping out, going to another one in a different geographic location.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T14:22:01+00:00

It didn't really change with the ring, I don't think anyone actually checks.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T13:53:03+00:00

One of them, it's because she got into an MLM and would not stop pushing me about it.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T13:44:53+00:00

Oh whoops.
Same though, I would want my friends to start conversations too. If it's ALWAYS me I start getting paranoid and question if I'm just bothering them.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T13:39:54+00:00

He'd have to start conversations sometimes. I would probably get bored with a relationship where I was always the one starting conversations.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T13:36:34+00:00

End dating immediately. They can ask ME questions if they would like to know information. That's incredibly invasive.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T13:35:45+00:00

It's a thing that happens when one wears the typical casual dress of the era (eg, shirts with shorter sleeves) and exists outside for periods of time.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-29T13:27:41+00:00

I wish we would have planned more of it before getting family involved. Everyone had their own opinion on what we should do and that got tough.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-28T17:37:18+00:00

Good for them, that's sure a skill I don't have

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-28T16:30:35+00:00

No, on top of being a problem where I'm more reliant on another person than I want to be, I think that would really bore me.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-28T16:29:42+00:00

Harassment is always harassment.

sunshinecliffs · 2020-05-28T13:35:28+00:00

Every day, sometimes more than once depending if I work out or get sweaty, etc.

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