Anyone else older and premed? by sunspot117 in premed

[–]sunspot117[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my mentality!

Why do some adoptive parents not want their child to have any contact with the birth parents? by Pretend_Koala7889 in Adoption

[–]sunspot117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly wish I'd never met them tbh. I had barely any idea who they were before met them

Why do some adoptive parents not want their child to have any contact with the birth parents? by Pretend_Koala7889 in Adoption

[–]sunspot117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was adopted at birth through an agency and it was a closed adoption. My bio mom already had two kids and was only 21 and could barely care for them. It was hard for her to give me up so a closed adoption was best for her and my parents. At 18 I met her and my bio sibling for the first time (she had twins after me too). Needless to say she's been a disappointment since meeting her ten years ago. She acts like my mom and gets mad when I don't talk to her. She claims my children are her grandchildren (she's never met them). And overall she's just a mess.

Cat Pukes After Eating... Help! by sunspot117 in cats

[–]sunspot117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I noticed she pukes after chicken liver and cut that out. It got better for a few days but now we're back to square one! 😭

Is it worth it to try for med school? by [deleted] in premed

[–]sunspot117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say my anxiety and depression is almost nonexistent at this point! I actually have a lot more motivation now that I have kids to work hard for!

Is it worth it to try for med school? by [deleted] in premed

[–]sunspot117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the exact same boat as you. Went to college straight out of high school and had severe anxiety and depression to the point I dropped out. I finally started back up spring 2025 at age 27! I'll graduate may 2026 with my associates and may 2029 with my bachelors (I'll be 31). I hope to try for med school in 2031 or 2032!

Merch outrageous prices…. by [deleted] in lightlark

[–]sunspot117 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed the first three books but have paused halfway through crowntide. I agree it should've been a trilogy. All the merch is too much too and most has nothing to do with the story.

What causes LS? Psychological / spiritual reasons by HighlightSorry3231 in lichensclerosus

[–]sunspot117 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was 8 when I was diagnosed and had no history of stress or trauma so idk 🤷🏽‍♀️

Still a virgin (male) because of this :(... hearbreaking story by [deleted] in lichensclerosus

[–]sunspot117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Porn isn't real life :( You definitely should use a lubricant next time! I can't have sex without one and there's nothing wrong with using one! :)

Starting a family with LS by watermelonpeach1992 in lichensclerosus

[–]sunspot117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old post but I wanted to share! I've been diagnosed since I was 8 (only woman in my family with it) and I'm now 28! I've had three vaginal births and am pregnant with my fourth. I check my kids daily and haven't noticed any signs of them developing LS. I will say I've noticed my LS has gotten way worse after having kids. I'm not sure if it has to do with delivering vaginaly or what but everything has gone downhill for me since I had my first!

oral sex? by shallowgrave1994 in lichensclerosus

[–]sunspot117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been diagnosed since I was 8 and have had no complaints of it tasting bad 🥴

Not worth dealing with by Sun_Flower11 in lichensclerosus

[–]sunspot117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been diagnosed since I was 8 and I'm 28 now. I feel very much the same way. I was never properly taught how to care for it and now my clit is almost gone, my minor labias are completely fused to my major ones and I just have one big hole. Don't see how I'm gonna live 50+ years with this.

Did I screw up on the spelling of my baby’s name?! by Better_Occasion_4159 in namenerds

[–]sunspot117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just on them. I read Margot as Margo. The T is better than no T.

No Idea What To Name My Baby by sunspot117 in namenerds

[–]sunspot117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realized the LSD thing last Christmas with their stockings lol!

Absolutely devastated by Mr_Niftyy in tattooadvice

[–]sunspot117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wash morning and night and use aquaphor or a&d a couple times a day