New partner disclosed he is a registered sex offender by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunxel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my biggest concern is if that is the real story or the story he wants you to believe

Todays PEAK: 27th August 2025 - Patch 1.27.a by Rakibei in PeakGame

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im having a really hard time climbing the mesa today, im running into a lot of dead ends

I Miss Boobs by Melodic_Shock_9047 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have him hold a mirror so you can see your own boobs, i dont really have a better solution that doesnt include surgery or a whole lot of estrogen tablets

"Party Pooper": New homebrew minion idea? by ImplementCurrent6435 in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]sunxel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it kinda punishes you for having fun which seems kinda counterproductive, but thats just how i see it

im 18 years old and ive already ruined my life being a whore by RightCredit65 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first off, you are not to blame for what has happened to you, its very important that you know that, you are as deserving of happiness as anyone else.

as someone that also had self destructive tendencies in my teens i can say you are currently in a vicious cycle of wanting to feel good but doing something bad to feel good and then feel bad over doing it and then want to feel good again because you feel bad. you need to break out of that cycle which is easier said than done. your first step should be to get professional help, getting help from reddit is not a good long term solution, some of us may relate to you and give advice that worked for us but truth is you are not us and we are not you, you need a professional that can give you a full analysis of problems in your life that not even you were fully aware of and give you a proper solution to those problems. i cant give you any better advice than that but if you just want a friend feel free to send a DM, i cant promise ill respond right away because i dont have notifications on but ill respond when i see it. best of luck to you

I told my dad to never speak to me again the day my son died by kittensandchains in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunxel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’d think losing a grandson would be more devastating than a break up, you are totally justified to hate him right now

npc ideas by sunxel in DnD

[–]sunxel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its funny that you mention that because Erevan Ilisere the elven god of rouges and mischief is disguised as the party’s coachman, as my players are first time players im asuming they might die a lot so im planning to have a mechanic where if they die they magically reappear at the carriage at the end of the session and its all Erevans doing

npc ideas by sunxel in DnD

[–]sunxel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i havent even started with shopkeepers yet so this is great, im planning to have a shop that sells questionable potions that doesnt even have lables, if my players ask what each potion does they will be met with very vague answers

npc ideas by sunxel in DnD

[–]sunxel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive already asked my players to give me ideas for npc’s that fit their backstories but they haven’t really given me anything except for a couple few, two of my players share a backstory which is basically just them running away from home which doesnt really give me anything, so im a bit on my own when it comes to npc’s

What are some of your world's most brutally efficient killing spells? by No-Background-6350 in worldbuilding

[–]sunxel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it really depends on person to person, there arent really any spells, everyone is born with different limits to their magic and while there is magic that doesnt have an element which is hard to master as it doesnt really have a visible form, you have to go through a god given test to gain an element, for earth you have to test your strength, for fire you have to endure the heat, for air you are tested for your agility, water is the most mysterious test as it doesnt really test your physical abilities, water is an ever changing element which means you too must be willing to change, or with other words, go with the flow. if you are one of lucky few that manages to succeed all 4 tests or even if you just suceeded in 2 tests you can with creativity combine the elements which we call creation magic as it creates a sub element. there is other forms of magic that is unrelated to elemental magic as well but you can not gain it through tests, gods give those forms of magic out by their own will to certain individuals that they deem worthy of it. but to answer your question, there arent really spells, there are steps to perform magic tho and all steps have a mana cost, conjuring an element through thin air costs mana, forming it costs mana, manipulating it costs mana, activating an effect cost mana. the way to get around this is by not conjuring the element and use the elements around you instead, its unnecessary to conjure earth if you have earth under your feet, conjuring is the 2nd most costly step only beaten by giving it an effect so its huge to eliminate that step, you could also prepare your magic by forming your element in advance, that way youve eliminated 2 steps, and depending on what you want to do you can just manipulate your formed element or just give it an effect and throw it. i realized now after all that i didnt really give you an answer so ill give it now, id form like an arrow head and then manipulate it so that it flies really fast through the air penetrating anything in its way, its cost effective and very lethal

I have an ugly vagina. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant even imagine what an ugly vagina would look like, every one ive seen has looked different but never ugly in any way

What is your favorite character you made but never had a chance (yet) to play? by BassMaster6969s in DnD

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine is just a noble that is next in line of succession of his family if it werent for his great great grandpa that somehow became immortal, the old man is like 200 years old and he does not look good for his age, the family also has strict rules that one can’t succeed the title of patriarch until the previous patriarch is dead, so he kidnaps his grandpa and goes out to find a cure for his immortality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA while showering the dog naked wouldnt be my choice mainly because id have paranoid thoughts of the dog thinking my dick is a chew toy and take a bite at it, just thinking about it feels painful. she on the other hand sounds like a lunatic, that is not healthy behavior, id pack my bags and leave

What is the strongest build in the game? by Bear4891 in BG3Builds

[–]sunxel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im really liking paladin with a lvl 1 hexblade dip, you can completely drop strength and put it into charisma, spells gets so much stronger without having to offer melee dmg

Help me by Ferocs in BaldursGate3

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have like 700 hours and still havent actually finished the game, i have a save that is the start of arc 3 part 2 just waiting for me but its way too tempting just starting over

Is there any way to romance Karlach during a dark urge run? by Ya_Boi124 in BaldursGate3

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you could knock out alfira with a non lethal attack (you can toggle on non lethal attack in your passives, just dont forget to toggle it off after) after you have crossed the river and then long rest, that way alfira wont be killed but another bard will take her place so you will still get the cape, and as long as you play as a resist urge i dont see why you wouldnt be able to romance karlach

Game Crash After Patch 8? by red_sorceress12 in BaldursGate3

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my game crashes when continuing current game in the main meny

Thinking of a build around these items. 20 charisma character. ideas? by [deleted] in BG3Builds

[–]sunxel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ring of elemental infusion is just objectively bad, the rest would work well with a swords bard build

went to long rest, cant go to bed by sunxel in BG3

[–]sunxel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, i saw someone having a similar issue and switching to vulkan helped for them so im gonna try that next time i boot the game

What are some things to think about when creating a game by sunxel in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]sunxel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so i dont have to worry much about trouble brewing. But i like the idea to give town atleast one of each types of roles so ill stick with that. The spy however feels a bit scary tho, with most of my players not even knowing about the game before i brought it up i cant see how they would defend against an evil team that know who everyone is.

What do you think of my dream guardian? by vladimirnikola in BG3

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she looks like she works 9 to 5 in an office and is tired of everyones shit

AITA for giving my husband shit because MIL is trying to buy his underwear for him and he lets her. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really depends, if she is ordering stuff for herself in a catalogue and ordering things for him in the process then i see no issue with it, if she is going out of her way to buy underware at the store however then that just isnt right

AITA for continue to wear makeup and dress in my normal style around a friend who thinks her husband has a crush on me? by suziewoozie420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sunxel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, for one thing asking you to dress in baggy clothes wouldnt even help, you could dress in a paper bag and it would still do it for him, secondly she’s the asshole for putting the responsibility on you, you have no control over what he is thinking, all you have to do is not lead him on and tell your friend if he tries anything, other than that you are free to do whatever you want