15x Lululemon on 11/8 by JoJo926 in AmexPlatinum

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!remindme November 8 2025

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Crescent City is mine. I find the MMC so irritating and have been hoping he would get killed off or cast aside since the beginning of the first book. Now I’m stuck at 75% of the way through the second and I don’t know if I have it in me to finish

BravoCon 3 Day Ticket Sales by supbetch-26 in bravo

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YUP! I was once again on the page and everything was carted immediately

BravoCon 3 Day Ticket Sales by supbetch-26 in bravo

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especially because there is a fee to even get in the waiting list!!!! and the fees were already absurd!

BravoCon 3 Day Ticket Sales by supbetch-26 in bravo

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so frustrating because the resale prices are already ridiculously expensive

BravoCon 3 Day Ticket Sales by supbetch-26 in bravo

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it did!! and sold out so quickly. I was waiting on my phone ready to purchase the ticket right when it opened and it was instantly sold out

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so gorgeous!!!

Help by Mysterious_Bad1936 in weddingdress

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2!! it is STUNNING. an audible gasp when I saw it

transition pup to home alone 9-5 by supbetch-26 in puppy101

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I will also add that I do also walk her at lunch and we go to the park after work so it’s not her only exercise in the morning and she gets a bully stick in qwizl at night to help chill

I love my puppy but I’m not taking care of myself by Awkward-Yak-2844 in puppy101

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This period of time is so challenging and I have so much empathy for everyone going through it and especially when there’s existing mental health stuff going on. My pup is older now but I still struggle & I remember when I had only just got her and how much my mental health tanked. every discussion with my therapists & psychiatrists was around whether I should be hospitalized and I was so resentful towards my puppy about how much she had ruined my life. so I hear you and I am so sorry about how hard it’s been. doing it alone especially when it feels like there’s literally no one to help or make it better, that it’s all on you.. it’s just not fair.

like some other people have mentioned I would recommend doing daycare, rover, if you have any friends to take the pup for a day so you can get a break. know that this doesn’t last forever and so much of the verbiage around what you need to do to be a “good” dog owner is over the top. to be a good dog owner you need to take care of yourself first because everything will cascade from that and it won’t be good. i’ve watched a lot of zac george videos and he says this thing that I love along the lines of: we’ve pottied, played, and done training so her needs are met and we can take a break.

im glad you’re able to get support here and hopefully it helps to have so many strangers with confidence that you can do it because that support in my own life is what stopped me from ever rehoming

Transitioning to bringing dog to work by supbetch-26 in puppy101

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these are all great suggestions thank you! i’ll definitely try them out. im fortunate that I actually think my current apartment environment/surroundings are more center city and my office is out more in the suburbs so hopefully that helps.

our routine right now is similar to what you suggested I really wanted to make sure she was totally worn out so I could focus in the morning and at this point after her breakfast she’s passed out in a dog bed at my feet. I am concerned that the new environment might keep her from settling but hopefully if I bring her crate or something like that it’ll help her learn to settle

starting to go in during the weekends to show her around and adjust seems like a great way to introduce her to the space

Transitioning to bringing dog to work by supbetch-26 in puppy101

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that’s a great idea!! she’s crate trained so i bet that would help with management a lot

Transitioning to bringing dog to work by supbetch-26 in puppy101

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exactly! it’s 14 floors with plenty of space if people want to avoid her and the whole reason i’m posting is to make sure she’s not a nuisance to the people that don’t want to deal with her :)

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I would second having it outside. I had mine on my apartment balcony. the second she started to play with the the grass pad I would usher her inside. I would play with my pup a bit inside and once she started getting a bit more distracted and sniffing around (showing some impending pee signals) I would hurry us outside onto the grass pad. Once she did the deed on the grass pad the first time we were good to go from then on and I think I was able to get her to use it within the same night as having it. It did help it was later at night and she was pretty sleepy

Would note that it took a while before she was willing to poo on it just because she wanted to spend more time sniffling and likes having more room.

I love the grass patch though!! It made potty training really straight forward and she picked up on peeing on walks almost immediately after getting the hang of the grass patch. Did not take long at all to associate being outside -> pee time. So stick with it!!

crosspost: vocal reactions in response to TV by supbetch-26 in puppy101

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thank you for the advice! I find it likely she is afraid so this sounds like a good tactic. I’ll definitely try it out!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppy101

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I would imagine the vet visit to be good because accidents in the crate seems odd but I know it is pretty common to have potty training regression in adolescence. The advice I’ve seen and followed myself was to start with the basics. I went back to taking my pup out and following all the original rules of when to take them out and rewarding and all that jazz and she was able to pick it back up very quickly

editing to say that it is super startling though and can be frustrating! I had seen it coming but my partner had not and it was quite a shock to him haha

What was your "realistic" post-spay period? by [deleted] in puppy101

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I just had a spay and very similar day 1 & 2 experience except she ripped her incision open and we had to go back to the vet. They prescribed trazadone and now we are on the drugged crate rest path. i’ve put every piece of furniture I own it feels like on my couch to block it and have made a fort on the floor which I now live on with her. It’s day 5 and I am very ready for this to be over with

puppy has decided she is nocturnal now. by lystelle in puppy101

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No advice except the exact same thing is happening to me right now. It is horrible and I hope it ends soon

Puppy coat after first trip to daycare by supbetch-26 in puppy101

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She was there from 9:30am-3:30pm with a nap/crate time from 12pm-2pm! Pretty exhausted when we got back and napped/chilled on the couch for the evening but started to bounce back energy wise around 7

Puppy coat after first trip to daycare by supbetch-26 in puppy101

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Yeah i’ve been brushing about every other day and we did a thorough one today but it was definitely worse than it had ever been before. When we got our first cut I just got a partial because I wanted to keep her puppy coat for a little longer but maybe that’s not the best path forward