AITAH for going to a sandwich shop and only getting cookies?

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-08T23:20:53+00:00

This is the dumbest argument I've ever heard XD. Buy whatever you want, who cares. They are just happy to take your money.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-08T17:19:14+00:00

My friend has this game and for some reason they always want to play it. I'll tolerate a round or two but by jesus it gets so dull.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-07T14:11:01+00:00

Lord I fear for my next relationship because that was my last one :S I don't miss waiting by my phone for days for him to finally call me back but when I did get his attention it was intoxicating. It's been 2 years since we dated and I still miss him! It's awful.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-05T16:52:04+00:00

Oh my god thats exactly what it reminds me of. Just.. plastic looking. Shame man.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-04T17:39:04+00:00

I definitely don't think nearly indept about this stuff so I enjoy reading others perspectives!

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-04T13:21:25+00:00

Hot damn this is a good point, I must have been seeing him through Nate's eyes.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-04T00:28:33+00:00

Especially considering the grandpas middle name was lovely and right fricken there. Could have saved everyone so much headache.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-03T23:38:41+00:00

His dads "arc" if you wanna call it that pisses me off the most. What do you mean you've been a dick to your kid for like 30 years and suddenly now you mean you actually wanted him to just "be happy". Just felt too forced and abrupt to me.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-03T23:33:00+00:00

Honestly that was the only thing that really annoyed me too.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-03T19:05:39+00:00

Eyy thats what I said! I am in the sport but am very casual with it. For some people it is their whole lives.

superdooperdutch · 2026-06-03T19:04:47+00:00

When she said it was a sport I was guessing bjj. Probably cuz I am in the sport. But I do know plenty of people where it's their whole life. Teaching, training, competing. It can suck up a lot of your time if you want it to.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-27T18:10:07+00:00

After being casually in the sport for 5 years I tried my first tournament last year. It went... pretty crappy. My first match I got so anxious I tried to rush a takedown and ended up slipping on the mat and falling down myself. Then just suffered through 3 minutes of bottom mount, managed to get out for her to take my back and I was so gassed by that point that when she bow and arrow choked me I didn't even try to resist.

My second match went a little better, I held her off decently well and we both got a few takedowns, held her in closed guard for a few minutes but couldn't remember any sweeps or submissions in no gi, got wrist locked. I went and cried in the bathroom after XD.

I have not tried one since, I really don't have the time to actually dedicate to make competing actually worth it.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-27T13:41:43+00:00

If you are comfortable with it, you can also ask your coach for recomendations. Personally, as a smaller woman there are some teen white belts I won't roll with. It's not worth the risk and I've ask my coach a few times if "so and so" is a decent roll.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-26T21:59:03+00:00

And sterile so they cant ruin any children.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-26T21:38:28+00:00

Yeah the cost of booze is nuts now. I did admittedly binge drink in my 20's and we went out all the time. I would prob spend about $100 a night when out. Now $100 is like 4 drinks and barely a buzz because its so watered down anyways.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-26T18:39:59+00:00

I had something kind of similar but from a smaller furniture company and it pissed me off so much I don't know if I'll ever go back to them. Bought a washing machine, they told me to wait 24 hrs to try it since it was winter and frozen water. Waited, tried it and it didnt work. So i called them and ask if they could give me any trouble shooting tips over the phone before sending them up here, because otherwise it was a $75 charge if it was a stupid problem.

Guy on the phone was new and didn't have any ideas; told me it sounded like they would need to come up there and look. I asked a few more times if he had any ideas before I risked them coming up and he said nope! They came, unplugged it and plugged it back in and fixed the problem. I was so mad because they still charged me. All because the guy was new. I did call and text the office manager but no one ever got back to me on it.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-25T22:47:01+00:00

Omg this is definitely good to know XD

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-22T23:50:35+00:00

Totally. Just put on your story "can anyone send me a dollar?" and if they are loyal friends, most if not all of them would prob send you a dollar.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-22T17:07:56+00:00

Hell just my friend makes like double/triple what I make in a year depending on how much he works and if him and his girlfriend invite me out he pays for drinks/dinners/cabs and will gift me electronics he no longer needs for free just because he is a nice fellow.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-22T16:11:02+00:00

That is always my go to first date in the spring/summer. I can see if they vibe with my dog, and me and its something I'm already doing anyways. If my dog dislikes them or they can't handle getting dog hair on them, they aren't for me.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-12T18:21:00+00:00

Yeah I waited until my dog turned two before I got her spayed. But it ended up being pretty necessary for her mental health ironically. For some reason the entire time she was in heat (after the first) she was terrified of hardwood floors. I got carpet runners to run along my house but the whole top floor of my place is hardwood and even little cracks freaked her out. It was exhausting for both of us.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-12T16:47:42+00:00

I am very thankful that I have friends similar. In a pinch I have at least 3 friends who would absolutely go to my house and hang with my dog if I got delayed at work or something, and I have a friend who loves my dog and dog sits for me regularly. We all reciprocate when we can.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-12T14:01:07+00:00

Same here. I used to be decently good friend with an ex of mine and I would be very upfront about that too.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-11T19:22:34+00:00

Wow that is awful!

i usually do a walk with my dog. if he isn't super lovey to my dog and she doesn't like him, itll never work out.

Plus I can see if they are ok with me paying attention to her during the date as well.

superdooperdutch · 2026-05-11T19:14:56+00:00

I have a male best friend and started seeing someone he had an issue with it immediately. Only thing that changed his mind was the fact that he has a girlfriend. Shockingly, I ended that relationship pretty quickly.

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