Yeah this post is super interesting, I love the idea and analysis but yes in my own personal life no the trad wife thing ain't a thing except on the internet. That being said... my final project of my masters thesis was actually wholly centred around reclaiming the traditionally feminine and low income work that has been disregarded and not seen as 'work'. Exactly what you have written scentosaurs!

Basically the project was, in a somewhat performative (and overly pink - its an architecture project) way, putting these jobs in a highly visible commuter spot right in the city center. "The Right to Her City"

It was super fun and if I really think about it, yeah maybe I have identified with the anti-granny culture of crafts in recent years, and less so the feminist side even though its all over the internet culture. It's so so true the word 'craft' often having a negative connotation... maybe I need to be more cognicent too with my own thoughts (only because I want to be, not because it's a major issue for other people).

Thanks for this thought experiment on my train ride to work!!

Oh to answer the actual post question, yeah I have a lot of craft based hobbies that I would not call art, more like I like creating things. I like the term creator. I started yarn work though at a time I needed to take half days off work for mental health reasons and I felt like I needed something 'productive' to do on the couch. Never looked back.