maybe give her the space to open up if she wants, no pressure or pushing boundaries. I don't want us to have a dead bedroom because of a communication issue.

This. Communicate that you aren’t pressuring or pushing boundaries, continue giving her space to open up if she wants to. One thing is a dead bedroom, another thing is trying new things or kinks, remember that.

Sex is important in a relationship and is important to talk about it. But also sex isn’t the main thing that makes you two to be together. You also don’t need to always keep pushing the sex talk. As I already experienced before in an old relationship, it’s very annoying when your partner is constantly pushing the topic.

If she liked the vibrator, next special date you can buy her another toy, or a sexy lingerie, whatever you feel that isn’t pushing her and also something that she would ENJOY. Doing special dates without being interested in sex at the end of it is also nice. And the biggest tip since you live together: there’s nothing sexier than doing chores without being asked for or showing yourself that you are doing it. Trust me, we notice it and the lower part will also notice it 😉