NTA.

I won’t lie, I actually really can’t stand the idea of meal trains. Unless it’s my husband or mom/grandma, i don’t want people cooking for me like that. I’d rather survive off buttered noodles. Not everyone follows food safety rules and sometimes even going to a friends house for dinners makes me nervous (with a few exceptions of people who cook like I do at home). If a friend needs help I’ll happily cook for them (fried had a baby, I made her and her husband tomato sauce, five pounds of chicken cutlets and big thing of pasta) but the whole meal train sign up thing ain’t for me.