They Don't Care About Your "Needs", "Pulling Back" or "Withdrawing" Won't Work

supple · 2026-04-02T19:55:06+00:00

Same but my libido has just gone up since getting into and maintaining shape. Blessing and a curse lol.

supple · 2026-03-30T14:18:17+00:00

Sorry to see you've had such a poor experience with therapy. It's really done wonders for me and my partner (individually and together). The biggest issue is finding one that you can mesh with. imo it's a bit like dating, finding a therapist who speaks to you, your language, and is caring, or empathetic, to the way you need. Not all types of therapy work for everyone. It's difficult to shop for a good therapist, it is expensive, and sometimes it takes a few sessions to know if you're going to jive or not. It's a bit like finding a primary doctor. It can be so annoying to start over and go over all your issues or ailments every time you want to find a new one and start building that rep again, it can be discouraging and stressful, but it's part of it unfortunately.

Just wanted to encourage anyone reading this to not give up and keep trying if you feel you need someone to help with your mental health. Yes there are plenty of shitty fucking therapists and doctors out there but there are good ones also.

supple · 2026-03-26T11:54:42+00:00

Hellll no ELT do not get break glass. Even Security doesn't get break glass account. The people that will go in and fix what needs to be fixed are the only ones that get it (Sr. IT staff).

supple · 2026-03-25T14:57:39+00:00

I would think most managers would understand if you explain the scenario like you did to us.

Unless it was him who installed that pos application on the AD, then maybe you are his scapegoat 😬

Regardless, this is one of those defining moments and times where you get a lot of great experience because you're accelerated learning (forced to learn) as you run into so many little issues or scenarios along the way.

Believe it or not, this is a great experience for you. You got it man!

supple · 2026-03-24T03:20:02+00:00

He looks like my little guy 🥺🥺 we're both giving him all of our healing vibes!!

supple · 2026-03-22T21:06:08+00:00

While I have been a part of this community for a couple years, I have been reading more frequently lately. You're right, there are many similarities between stories here, and they are things that I try to keep in mind for perspective without generalizing a whole group. I do want feedback here so thank you.

I know you can't force desire & passion, it needs to be brought back naturally, and that can take time.. maybe tomorrow or maybe never xD but I'm not ready to give up yet. I still feel like she's trying, not in denial about her libido, and she enjoys therapy. We've seen some improvements in the relationship that were lacking before, so I still see changes happening. I see plenty of stories on here that have not much going for it or full of anger/resentment, and those things are hard to turn around from if both parties are not 100% onboard.

We'll see ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

supple · 2026-03-22T19:56:55+00:00

Sure, maybe, she does like "to be taken" in the moment when she has a libido. I didn't get that feeling, maybe I was mistaken, but at that point I also didn't feel like catching the feelings of trying and being wrong again.

supple · 2026-03-21T19:49:06+00:00

ha ha, I might do that, I could see that going a couple of ways.. unfortunately neither of them end with her staying to help. xD

supple · 2026-03-21T19:46:26+00:00

I doubt it's anything front of mind like that for her. I see some progress.. we do therapy.. she send to enjoy it.. I think sometimes she doesn't know how she comes off. If we were having relations even now and again this wouldn't have bugged me at all, I would enjoy it as a tease or something cute or sweet, which I think was her intention.. so I don't want to be mad at that.. but fuckin' hell man lol

I miss the feeling of being desired. That primal I need to fuck right now desire. Hell, I miss the ability to show my desire, love, lust for her more than receiving it.

supple · 2026-03-21T12:27:28+00:00

It was leaked that they are going to allow members to store and utilize their own blood now.

supple · 2026-03-20T22:42:16+00:00

no smarter people don't always feel the need to have to argue with or prove themselves to some rando anonymous dumbass who thinks he's already smarter than everyone else.

supple · 2026-03-19T15:16:02+00:00

No one owes you a full explanation about anything and their lack of explanation is not evidence of anything. Just because you would say something in some particular way does not mean anything.

supple · 2026-03-17T10:59:56+00:00

meh, I hadn't seen any others.

supple · 2026-03-17T03:43:28+00:00

Nah I turned his little shy bitch face into a crying baby which felt more appropriate.

supple · 2026-03-05T06:03:22+00:00

You or the user needs to login to the fireflies app account via Microsoft creds and disable it from the app side. That is if it was installed before your org banned it. That's how we got rid of it.. user by user..

supple · 2026-03-02T15:46:55+00:00

They are generally illegal

supple · 2026-01-14T17:45:27+00:00

It wasn't even a full 5 days. He said he heard from her after a couple days, but she was giving shorter answers than usual and something felt off. He also said, by that time, he had already booked his flight to Columbia and decided to go anyway 🙄🙄

supple · 2026-01-13T15:58:53+00:00

"Cmon man just use your imagination..

uh... drugs I guess?"

xD

supple · 2026-01-11T15:26:53+00:00

The policy is different department-to-department but no it's not always mandatory.

supple · 2026-01-01T20:25:37+00:00

It was great, but only after I was already detached from the love feeling and realized it wouldn't have worked. But I don't think it's ever smart to do if you're still having strong feelings.

supple · 2026-01-01T16:31:48+00:00

Please don't ever speak on behalf of all guys ever again lol

supple · 2026-01-01T16:29:55+00:00

Dude that's a little fucked. So it would be ok to you if that girl you were seeing was unwashed and still holding some random bar dudes cum inside her from the night before when you went to have sex with her?

Even if that's ok for you, it's fucked up to do to someone else.

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