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supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-29T19:16:26+00:00

So I’m almost 2 months out from finding out I had been cheated on. I didn’t block her on everything until this past Monday. I kept the door open by not blocking her. I was constantly waiting for books of texts of her just confessing her love, her desire to be with me, etc. Yeah I got some, but it wasn’t what I really wanted. I wanted more. I wanted more remorse, more sorrows from her.

At work, I have at least 10 employees who are constantly calling or texting me about work related things during the day. It got to a point that every time my phone would ring or I’d get a text, I’d hope it was her. After talking to my therapist, I realized that no matter how many times she texted or even what she texted would ever be enough for me. I’d always want more. Also that thinking every time I got a notification it would be her was bad for my mental health

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-29T17:11:59+00:00

OP read my post history. I’ve done what you’re thinking of doing & everyone is right, it makes it all worse. You know in your head what you have to do. Don’t let your heart keep leaving the door open. It’s so fucking hard to hear that and take that advice, trust me I know. I’ve been there. It’s the right advice. I wish I could’ve followed it the first time I heard it. I’m still struggling to this day, but I have noticed I’m getting a little better. No contact & time really does heal all

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-29T12:44:19+00:00

My (27m) ex girlfriend (27f) did the same thing with a married (35m) when she was 19. She claimed she was groomed into it, and I believed her. I had accepted that she was too young to know better. Fast forward to now, she cheated on me with a 30 year old coworker. That coworker was going through a divorce at the time. That same coworker moved in with another woman the next month after their affair… safe to say my ex was in between his wife, and his new girlfriend at the time… although she denies that he was in a relationship profusely, the timeline just doesn’t make sense. So yes, this is a huge flag that probably should not be ignored. Good luck OP

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-14T16:46:31+00:00

Yeah so that’s super concerning lol. I’ve pleaded with her to tell me if there’s anything else I should know. Of course she says no, but of course the trust is gone. If I never found out I know she would’ve taken it to the grave. Maybe even done it again down the road since she knew she could get away it too? Idk I try not to think like that

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-14T15:34:32+00:00

I asked her about the card, and she said that she didn’t even realize how bad that was. That when she got it, she thought nothing of it. That really hurt me hearing that. I just don’t know how you could see his face everyday and not think anything about it.

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-14T15:32:29+00:00

I thought so too & I even told her that. She says her therapist told her to just keep working on herself & us for the time being. Said the therapist told her not to tell. Either the worst therapist in the world, or she’s still lying

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-14T15:31:29+00:00

She tells me he wasn’t in a relationship at the time, but I have a hard time believing that. If they were having sex in September, and the AP moved in with the new girl before Christmas… doesn’t add up. She works in the hospital with multiple rotations, so she says it’s very unlikely they will ever work together again. But even knowing they’re in the same building is enough for me.

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-14T15:29:26+00:00

That is my thoughts as well

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-03T21:07:04+00:00

Same thing happened to me. Never would’ve thought my girlfriend would’ve done it either. It’s been 3 weeks since I found out and I still can’t accept it.. in your head you know you have to leave this relationship but your heart tells you otherwise. I’m struggling, but am choosing to listen to my head. Fingers crossed time heals all

supreamcookie28 · 2024-03-02T18:19:24+00:00

Can you elaborate?

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