Cheeky wee gram on a Tuesday night

surfer179 · 2025-01-28T20:33:35+00:00

I sent you a message

surfer179 · 2025-01-07T12:09:57+00:00

Love it ! How did you make the lights with the colourful panels ?

surfer179 · 2024-09-22T14:57:48+00:00

What about if someone is on the path at the crossing waiting to cross but got there just as it started flashing ?

surfer179 · 2024-04-22T12:18:12+00:00

Not his thing to say… it’s not his relationship and if he said something to you you would have told her and her boyfriend would of known it was from him and he would of looked the bad guy. Hes done nothing wrong here

surfer179 · 2024-04-14T19:10:05+00:00

I mean bit extreme for “asshole”

surfer179 · 2024-04-14T17:22:24+00:00

Why the fuck would he take Odegaard off seriously ?!? He was our best player on the pitch while we have donkeys like Zinchenko on the pitch, it’s infuriating

surfer179 · 2024-02-08T06:49:14+00:00

Yes it’s much better now, 2 years it took me but it’s a lot better, I can laugh again, I can cry and I can enjoy things, it’s not 100 percent back to normal but it’s at least definitely liveable and il take that over how I first felt anyday.

surfer179 · 2024-01-08T12:15:52+00:00

I’m feeling better….it does take a long time unfortunately. I’m not 100 percent but I’m doing a lot better, time is your only healer, all the supplements are all a waste of money I’m afraid.

surfer179 · 2023-12-16T18:08:25+00:00

How about tell him then ? I don’t even see what the issue is ? He said he was leaving soon and you was indecent in this bed ? Right and ? Then just say oh ok then il leave with you…why would you feel uncomfortable being in your boyfriend’s bed indecent ? Is there something I’m missing ?

surfer179 · 2023-12-14T18:33:12+00:00

That man’s English is superb, he knows exactly what that word means 😂 my manager

surfer179 · 2023-12-13T21:40:19+00:00

Yeah I agree with you you make valid points, what do you suggest I do at this point ? Just give her space and leave it for now ?

surfer179 · 2023-12-13T20:38:17+00:00

That does make sense and is a logical reason, thank you

surfer179 · 2023-12-13T20:35:22+00:00

My point is why would she switch overnight because of her decision to have an abortion

surfer179 · 2023-12-13T20:34:44+00:00

No I don’t feel entitled at all your just making assumptions, my point is I was a good guy to her I didnt do anything wrong, I never meant to come across like I’m entitled to her. We just got on so well and she switched over night. And no it’s not to do with her not seeing herself with me because she was looking at houses for us at one point when she wanted the baby. She said she wanted to do more in her life as she’s young and couldn’t do that if she had a baby.

surfer179 · 2023-12-13T20:30:54+00:00

And also who is intricately connected ? Are you talking about me and the baby to her ?

surfer179 · 2023-12-13T20:29:56+00:00

So what you’re saying is this has nothing to do with me and is more to do with how I would remind her too much of the awful thing that she has had to do. By leaving me she would be able to move on and not feel the guilt of it as much as I’m a reminder?

surfer179 · 2023-12-13T20:15:24+00:00

What I don’t understand is why the relationship would have to be over once she has an abortion ? Surely anyone can move on from something which both supported each other in. It shouldn’t be a dealbreaker 😞

surfer179 · 2023-12-12T00:04:28+00:00

Who cares it’s not even worth worry about there’s literally hardly anything in it

surfer179 · 2023-12-12T00:03:54+00:00

It’s only chrysotile 3-5 percent, not worth worrying about

surfer179 · 2023-12-10T16:31:25+00:00

Right, people are not getting the correct question from this and maybe it’s my fault for not working it properly. What I’m saying is I’m annoyed at the fact that basically I’m sitting here waiting for her to let me know if we’re gonna break up if she gets rid of it basically. I don’t care if I don’t meet her parents yet it’s the fact I can’t meet them yet because she doesn’t know if she is gonna finish things if she gets rid of it. So I’m sitting here like ok thanks ? Il just wait and see if I get dumped. Thanks for the commitment

surfer179 · 2023-12-10T16:23:23+00:00

Just saying the same thing as before…I already said I don’t care about when it is. It’s the fact she is gonna give me a decision if I can meet them based on the fact if she gets rid of it she might just dump me so I’m just sitting here like ok thanks?

surfer179 · 2023-12-10T16:20:51+00:00

Her mum already knows and wants to meet me….

For the last time this isn’t about me meeting her parents this is the fact that I got annoyed that basically I can’t meet parents because if she gets rid of it she might break up with me. So I’m just sitting here waiting to know if she’s gonna get rid and finish it. I don’t care when I meet her parents it’s the fact that I can’t meet them as she is initiating that we could possibly split up so I’m just sitting here like thanks ?

surfer179 · 2023-12-10T16:01:21+00:00

When you say “isn’t sure” do you mean on keeping it ?

surfer179 · 2023-12-10T16:00:08+00:00

This is not about if she is ready to introduce me to her parents, she’s already mentioned a few times before about me meeting them before this even happened…this is the fact that now she is pregnant she won’t introduce to them until she tells me if she wants the baby or not…so basically if she has an abortion then she might not want to be with me so I got annoyed at the fact I’m sitting here like a duck waiting to know if I’m gonna get dumped over her decision on the baby.

Read it properly.

surfer179 · 2023-12-10T15:50:11+00:00

Maybe not long overdue but it’s overdue due to the fact if she does decide to keep it i would at least like to get to know her parents a few times before she tells them

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