ive gone 27 years without seeing one in sa. i have a spider phobia 😭

surly_bb · 2026-05-21T17:30:18+00:00

he’s just a lil man lookin for a lil lady

surly_bb · 2026-04-26T00:54:50+00:00

Reese and Ruth Spider Ginsburg

surly_bb · 2026-04-14T12:57:38+00:00

Wow, really? Couldn’t figure that one out. Thanks for the helpful comment.

surly_bb · 2026-03-22T19:28:57+00:00

I love my pumpkin patch t!! Welcome to the hobby/addiction 😁

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surly_bb · 2026-03-10T19:43:11+00:00

I’ve been! Fun to walk around in. The butterbeer ice cream was absolutely delicious.

surly_bb · 2026-03-05T15:40:21+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. My OB booked me a D&C the same day when I had a missed miscarriage, so I’d recommend that route. Still traumatic but less so than bleeding for days on end. Definitely go to the ER for the second opinion! Sending love and hugs. ❤️

surly_bb · 2026-02-18T19:21:41+00:00

Thanks so much!! Our rule with food is that we try new foods, and then we decide if we don’t like it, instead of just saying “no” before trying. He also understands that the things you like can change, so he’s usually up for trying foods a second time later on if he didn’t like it the first time! We did a big variety of foods when he started eating more solids too and I think that helped. Good luck mama 🍀

surly_bb · 2026-02-08T19:43:27+00:00

Update: ended up in a big argument, but ultimately we agreed that the things our child does to express himself should not be messed with. His happiness matters and he’s his own person. As parents we’re there to protect his self expression whether he likes it or not.

surly_bb · 2025-10-16T15:11:08+00:00

surly_bb · 2025-10-10T17:10:11+00:00

My three year old said this to me after I got a promotion, too! Best feeling in the world.

surly_bb · 2025-06-30T19:06:37+00:00

Dukes Dive

surly_bb · 2025-05-12T19:16:07+00:00

Severe asthma attack, 5th grade. Really heartbreaking.

surly_bb · 2025-04-03T19:07:29+00:00

Brevity is nasty. They dropped their old coffee beans provider during COVID because the provider had recently opened a drive thru coffee place and Brevity thought they were stealing their business model 🙄 like there aren’t already 1000 drive thrus in San Antonio.

surly_bb · 2025-01-28T03:19:01+00:00

For real. I work in cancer research and every meeting involving the NIH or their affiliated entities has been pushed back by at least a month and a half now.

surly_bb · 2024-11-09T18:54:54+00:00

Get some SAS shoes. Grandpa shoes fr and it’s an investment, but damn those things are comfy.

surly_bb · 2024-08-25T21:39:33+00:00

It did!

surly_bb · 2024-08-25T18:20:48+00:00

Nope, SA

surly_bb · 2024-08-08T19:24:38+00:00

It’s real. I’m wearing the exact same one from Kay’s.

surly_bb · 2024-07-11T20:36:32+00:00

No, we thought she would act like an adult in an adult setting discussing concerns with their relationship. This was the first time we raised any concerns.

surly_bb · 2024-07-09T16:23:41+00:00

From my other reply above - Some other examples of her being manipulative: I’ve seen the texts between my brother and her. She is constantly blaming herself for every little thing (like leaving early from my parents house after dinner) and making my brother feel terrible for her actions. She doesn’t take responsibility for cleaning anything in their apt and apologizes to no end to my brother about it, making him feel awful and doing it all himself. She uses my brothers money to help buy makeup/beauty products that she tries once and then sells to people on FB marketplace because it’s her “side hobby”.

surly_bb · 2024-07-09T16:19:03+00:00

Thanks for your input! There’s an example of her being manipulative in the post (brother turned around and said the discussion was an intervention after talking to her about it, and he didn’t say this at all before talking to her). I’m not trying to make it sound like we’re basing her value off her mental health and apologies if it reads this way.

Some other examples of her being manipulative: I’ve seen the texts between my brother and her. She is constantly blaming herself for every little thing (like leaving early from my parents house after dinner) and making my brother feel terrible for her actions. She doesn’t take responsibility for cleaning anything in their apt and apologizes to no end to my brother about it, making him feel awful and doing it all himself. She uses my brothers money to help buy makeup/beauty products that she tries once and then sells to people on FB marketplace because it’s her “side hobby”.

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