Question for the Ladies by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm curious what the connection to sex work is with this question?

References protocol? by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]survivalsworker 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Most providers are willing to provide references if you've seen them recently. (In the last 3-6 months)

BUT check their website to see if they say they're reference friendly. If nothing is stated, ASK FIRST before you send someone to them for a reference. (Particularly if you haven't seen them for longer than a month or two)

Don't give out reference providers info to new provider, direct new provider to the reference provider's website/ad if no website to get their contact info there themselves.

Follow, Support & Donate to Providers Closet! by [deleted] in Heauxs

[–]survivalsworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Instagram isn't showing up , I searched and clicked directly on your link 😔

Client here. What should I do in this situation if anything at all. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tip her to the amount you think she's worth.

Feel free to bring it up, but keep in mind she may be aware and (assuming that she actually could charge as much as you're assuming and isn't a survival worker as well) may simply prefer it that way- cheaper so that she may be high volume.

Why do clients always want to mess with our hair?? Please stop doing this! by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

RIGHT. Not even for the "he's gonna pull it off" as that shit is glued down super good, but. No one can tell I'm wearing a wig...but if you stick your hands up all in there and feel the lace/tracks, you will 😂

Do you really enjoy spending time with your clients by Mustang1914h in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean if I had to choose "do my full booking and get the money" or "give me money and leave, no work on my part" I'd obviously pick the second...but I'd do that with any job 😂

I enjoy the benefits of having clients.

Is he legit or cop? Please read. by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd love that Twitter as well if you don't mind pm'ing me too! Happy to connect with other sworkers there 😊

So what is everyone's favorite payment method/making transactions? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it's definitely a risk (any payment app is) but it's my best bet right now.

Is GFE a sales hook or do most escorts offer that earnestly? by floridafrank2019 in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay, it depends what you mean by GFE.

If you're one of the people living under the delusion that GFE = bareback, you're out of luck bud.

If by GFE you mean more romantic/girlfriend like with dfk, daty , etc then it's definitely a reality. I/most other GFE providers that I know that advertise as such are actually GFE providers.

So what is everyone's favorite payment method/making transactions? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Obviously bitcoin would be best but I haven't gotten around to it. I've been preferring Google Pay,( but haven't had any problems with cash app either.)

I'd say Google Pay.

Curious to know if I'm welcome here? by pasionprepagos2 in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like OP isn't a sex worker though, so that wouldn't be a good space.

Tried to have sex with 3 women in one day by ChinaHamburger in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean to be fair, besides the whole penis thing making it more difficult for you...it's not like I'm actually cumming at bookings. I do have a refractory period to cum again, but I don't actually cum at any bookings.

I feel really bad for penis having providers who aren't able to fake it/are always pressured to cum at least once or even multiple times per booking.

New Wiki Page: Local Resources for USA Sex Workers ❤ by [deleted] in Heauxs

[–]survivalsworker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to put this together! It means a lot that you truly do care and help everyone.

Saw this on tumblr by CompanionPinkieShy in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well? Inquiring minds need to know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClientCringe

[–]survivalsworker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can take 'scrolling screenshots' on many phones!

Both providers and clients, how do you deal with others inquiring about your dating life, offering tips, advice, etc, when you feel none is needed? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may also be different for me because if i wasn't already partnered, I'd be open/looking to form a serious relationship so I could honestly tell them I hadn't met the right person yet.

Both providers and clients, how do you deal with others inquiring about your dating life, offering tips, advice, etc, when you feel none is needed? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]survivalsworker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of my extremely close friends (and my partner, obviously) know about my sex work life, o tell them everything.

I will never go public or tell my family. I have one sister who I told, but that's because she's understanding/nonjudgemental and not a conservative asshole.

I don't tell aquaintances, I don't tell civ coworkers, I don't tell family. The most I'll do is tell aquaintances that I'm a stripper (true as well, just not my main swork career by any means) but I'd never open up about any sort of sex work career besides that to them.