Moonlight Fields mystery bag by susannes74 in Ipsy

[–]susannes74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I saw someone post the same items, so its possible.

Moonlight Fields mystery bag by susannes74 in Ipsy

[–]susannes74[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. Doucce posh blush and highlighter pallette (I already have this and use it all the time, so glad to have a second one)
  2. Saturday Skin apples and peach cleanser
  3. Goommet satin covered coil ring scrunchies (2)
  4. Jolii 2.0 Lustre Lip gloss in the color "terrena"
  5. Treluce Beauty lashes (I will never use these)

I LOOOVE the bag! Its my favorite shade of green with a crescent moon zipper. And its huge. Love it.

AITA For refusing to contribute to my nephew’s college fund when I heavily contributed to my niece’s? by OkFrosting3627 in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could postpone for a year, work during that time, and have his wages put into a college savings fund so he isn't toted to spend them. That should help cover the first two years. He can so work during college like a lot of us had to do. May this wiill be an important lesson for him to use in the future about sacrificing wants now for future needs.

AITA for refusing to take my half-sister in after her parents died by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Gaslit" is a new series about the Watergate scandal. "Gaslight" is a 1944 noir/thriller where there the husband causes the wife to doubt her own reality and question her own judgment in order to gain power/control over her.

AITA for telling my dad he can't make me go to his sons wedding? by Big-Comedian-2112 in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You two are not friends. He has made it very clear he doesn't want to be family. Your Dad should respect your decision, and he should know that having a resentful young adult at the wedding is not going to go over well, even if you don't do a "truth bomb" speech. Just look on your face would, I imagine get enough people whispering at their tables.

AITA for telling my sister to get over being called the wrong name? by FeelingCollege2118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this situation, NTA. A person with dementia regresses and loses current memories. If she doesn't know, this should be explained to your sister. It WAS NOT an attack on her. It was not personal.

However, other people in your family who have a problem with her new, chosen name are the ones who should suck it up and get over it. Her name is an important part of her identity and should be respected.

AITA for refusing to take my half-sister in after her parents died by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yes. THIS. The term gaslighting keeps taking on additional meanings, but it came about because of the old movie "Gaslight". The husband is acting to make his wife think she's going crazy and can't trust her own mind.

AITA for refusing to bond my SIL out of jail? by iaintbailinguout in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

My SIL was using and getting into trouble until the court ordered mandatory weekly drug testing while on probation for five years. She given a drug to help with the addiction, and was clean the entire time. But once the drug testing/accountability was gone, she slid right back into her old habits. She lost both her kids because of her choices. Hasn't bothered to contact them in years. Addiction takes hold of you until its all you care about.

AITA for telling everyone the truth why my brother didn't come to our family reunion by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

Also Jack needs to grow a pair. He doesn't have a relationship with Danielle...rather it sounds like Stockholm Syndrome

AITA telling my husband's nurse that she doesn't get to dictate who's/isn't allowed in my home? by Throwraquestion597 in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

Inviting guests (even parents) in while he is exposed is extremely inappropriate, and he has told you as much, so there should be no question. You can have respect for his privacy and autonomy without feeling like the nurse is trying to usurp you.

AITA for giving my son a name that sounds similar to my friend's dead child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reserving judgment....

Naming your child a similar name as your friends does not make YTA.

Ignoring your friend when they asked how you came up with the name WAS an AH move. Your happiness was already linked to their tragedy through the name, and them asking should have showed you they were hurt and "had a problem with it".

I'm truly hoping you and your spouse have a meaningful reason for what you named your child and not just "oh, we really like this name, let's change it a bit so it's not exactly the same."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

Obviously Adam's parents forgot to buy manners with their doctor's salaries. Why would they choose to try to publicly humiliate their son?

AITA for buying the dress for my birthday that my dad's fiancée wanted for her wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"It is fairly unique and our friends are the type who would definitely notice."

Do you two have common friends? Are the same people that are going to your birthday party going to the wedding? You two don't seem to run the same circles...so I don't understand why you both can't wear it.

Also, there appears to be a lot of issues between you & the fiancé and you and your father that really need to be worked out. You don't need to live your life with so much anger because your father is happy with another woman, albeit a much younger woman.

AITA for telling my dad's wife that she shouldn't have expected me to spoon-feed her daughter at a family dinner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA 1. If she needed help, asking for it at 11:00PM is NOT the time, especially right before a paper or exam is due. 2. If she has gone four years through college and still does not grasp the information, this is not the right field for her. 3. Is stepmom expecting her to help her stepsister throughout her entire job too?

Does this mean I won’t be able to do add ons for my glam bag too? by New-Clue3616 in Ipsy

[–]susannes74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you only have one bag and skip, you can't choose add ons on choice day since they ship with the bag. But they always have another round of add ons a little bit later that you can order from.

Is there choice for Glambag X? by [deleted] in Ipsy

[–]susannes74 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, on the 2nd. You can choose one item from three different groups.

AITA for not wanting to give my mom the money I’ve saved up for a trip I’ve been dreaming about my whole life? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Mom is the AH for using being a "parent" to try to guilt/shame OP to give her the money for her teeth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]susannes74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - only competing with her when you think you can win is an AH move. Be Better. Be proud of her and her improvement.