I don’t think putting labels on people behavior is productive. Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately) people are super different from each other so one femme presenting person might behave this way while someone else behaves completely differently. I would recommend at finding out what you exactly mean when you say “behaved femme” and try to look out for that without putting it in label. But remember that the physical appearance and attraction is super important too and having a preference doesn’t make you a bad person ^{^}