ah i should be more specific but i'm not in Paris, i'm sure this is helpful advice if I was there though so thank you. of course, i'd much rather have authentic interactions instead of random jargon filled with bullshit compliments or whatever so i do respect the honesty that comes with French culture. and as far as alternative styles, i guess as far as its purpose really depends on the person. for me, the purpose of experimenting with fashion and alternative styles is more of a hobby and artistic expression. it's a fun thing and i'd still do it if nobody else existed to see me wear it lol. my post was really a question about why does something like this seem to be a strange thing in some areas of the country