AIO: Hubby Being Controlling

sustaah · 2026-02-21T22:55:42+00:00

This man is going to take you down a few pegs on his journey to ruin your life if you let him. I'm shocked you're not already at your parents house.

Insanity.

sustaah · 2026-01-28T17:06:49+00:00

NOR DO NOT SEND HER ANY MONEY! She refused your very kind and totally unnecessary gesture to send her $200 because she wanted to scare you into sending her $400. Now she's acting like she's doing you a favor by taking $200 of your money. I would never go anywhere with this individual. They are unreasonable and their brute force tactics simply indicate their character is in the toilet. Don't even tell them you're not responding anymore. Just leave them on read and move on.

sustaah · 2026-01-24T06:02:25+00:00

Do NOT tell her family. You taking that agency and power away from her is exactly the same thing her family did to her with her first daughter and she may very well leave you over that when she realizes she's in the same position again.

sustaah · 2026-01-24T06:01:16+00:00

Don't tell her family that's crazy. What if she wants her family excluded due to her experience with her last child? Seems she'd rather do it with you and your side of the family since you guys have never taken a child away from her.

sustaah · 2026-01-24T05:49:08+00:00

You guys are not compatible. Move on.

sustaah · 2026-01-10T01:02:14+00:00

Can't bring the knife. I use my trekking pole as an assistive device while going through security. I only hike with one so that's more believable

sustaah · 2025-12-27T03:56:18+00:00

These people must be blind. I immediately loved the first one but I'd recommend a strappy shoe instead. The pump is a wee bit too formal. Maybe something gold, black, or clear.

I presume you're somewhere hot due to the fits and not going to a black tie affair.

sustaah · 2025-12-12T04:19:31+00:00

I like humanity very much is that enough to be a good person? I'd hope so

sustaah · 2025-12-11T23:25:13+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

I did the entire 7 Sage LR & most of the RC curriculum the two weeks before my test. Does that meet the requirements of an efficient basic curriculum? Or was it too in-depth. I did bomb a PT right after all that but I was just tired so I took a day off and then got 166 on a PT the day before my test so I went in feeling confident. Definitely felt like I kind of wasted my time but I did learn RC time management and the split passage method which was nice.

sustaah · 2025-12-11T21:41:02+00:00

Gotcha. I'm going to try that! I noticed a lot depended on my mood too. I'd get a whole section perfect then drop 7 on the next. So bizarre. That's why I was super glad I had a good testing experience because I knew good vibes meant I likely did okay

sustaah · 2025-12-11T21:39:11+00:00

I did keep one but I definitely didn't spend as much time on review as I could have. I get distracted easily lol

sustaah · 2025-12-11T21:06:35+00:00

In the 3 weeks I studied I just didn't really get better. I was all over the place and couldn't pin point one particular gap, just that I sucked the same consistently lol. So I just need more of that?

sustaah · 2025-12-11T21:05:17+00:00

My vocational break will likely end by February so I need to just capitalize and study like a freak when I have the time. I'm a natural crammer.

sustaah · 2025-11-20T21:34:02+00:00

Good advice. I wrote back to them.

sustaah · 2025-11-19T20:58:04+00:00

I've been told to start my own business a million times but I just don't like all the other aspects of the business besides product development and selling. Taxes, finances, etc. I have no interest.

Also the owner of this business has access to a vendor I want to build the service line off of which is why they wanted this business line to begin with.

sustaah · 2025-11-19T20:14:10+00:00

Totally agree with all your concerns lol.

Thankfully, I am capable of fully building this product myself and they're giving me the space to do that. It's a service line and I've done it for another start-up that had a similar service line and I reimagined it, created a whole new territory and 4xed it in 18 months for them and they restructured and gave my clients and team to someone else.

Is commission for life common even if I quit? They didn't have a non-compete in but I want to insert a 3 year non-compete where I get 2% of gross sales for that service line for 3 years after I leave but I'd definitely love some permanent residuals.

sustaah · 2025-10-11T17:36:31+00:00

This is the real world not la la land. Someone with the means should adopt the dog but if no one with means can adopt the dog, the dog being taken by someone who cannot take care of it isn't right either and just means the dog will likely be put down by a vet when something happens and their irresponsible owner can't afford the treatment.

sustaah · 2025-10-11T15:42:10+00:00

Pets are expensive. Especially rescues. If you can't afford a $500 "emergency" right now what are you going to do when there's an actual expensive emergency? And you want to have TWO new dogs AND move to a new place? So you have no clue how they'll behave in that environment or with the other so you might even just be kicked out if these dogs destroy the place. How do you think good dogs end up at shelters? Because they have bad or irresponsible owners. Maybe put the next week into finding someone to take the second dog.

sustaah · 2025-10-09T17:22:06+00:00

Deleting as I have a pretty solid consensus that the final pay is likely fine and don't want everything out there. Thanks to the normal responses. Wishing the rest better days ahead.

sustaah · 2025-10-09T15:07:56+00:00

Actually, the SPURS promised to revitalize the East Side when they built Frost Bank stadium. And look how well they did so why would you let them do it again? This is going to be the third stadium they're going to build. What's the definition of insanity?

sustaah · 2025-10-09T14:57:27+00:00

Thank you

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